Texting is pretty much everywhere. Everyone does it, in part because it's an easy way to communicate. It's also a great way to be sexy with your partner. Now, I'm talking about long term partners here. Flirty text are great for the guy or girl you're just starting to go out with, but when you're really serious with someone, you can get a little more risque – for instance, you can try one of these 7 sexy texts to send your partner.
1 To-do List
“I have one more thing for you to put on today's to-do list: me.” Ah, a pun, an invitation, and a flirt! You see, you don't have to get all kinds of X-rated to be sexy, you can be subtle, too. Well, all right, maybe that's not exactly subtle – but your lover will definitely think it's sexy!
The NSFW, or Not Safe for Work, tag is one of the best warnings for some steam – or some oddities, depending on what you're sending. However, let your partner know that you're thinking about some very NSFW scenarios while you're at work – and share them if you like, but be as subtle as you can because teasing is half the fun!
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
3 Getting off Work
Like say, there are tons of fun puns you can use when you're sending sexy texts to the one you love. For instance, let your partner know when you're, you know, getting off … work. Okay, not really. Send him or her something like, “Getting off in 15 minutes. Are you going to be here too?” See, double entendre. Very nice.
4 Dirty Dreams
We all have naughty dreams sometimes, and they can definitely get pretty steamy. Let your partner know you've been dreaming about him or her – but don't divulge the dream! Rather, conclude your text with the promise that you'll act it out together later.
5 Wish You Were Here
This one's perfect for the girls. Take a picture of your cleavage, your neck, your lips – any erogenous zone for you that's not X-rated. Then, text your partner that singular, rather iconic message: “Wish you were here.” A picture is worth a thousand words in this case, and it's definitely better than a postcard!
6 Shower Power
It's common to flirt by mentioning a shower. For instance, with a text, what you can do is let your partner know that you just got out of the shower or the bathtub … and then ask your lover if he or she wants to come over so that you can get dirty all over again. There goes those double entendres again!
7 Abbreviation Madness
Finally, the two of you can make up your own secret abbreviations, little text speak signals that only the two of you can decipher. You'll easily be able to pass sexy, steamy messages back and forth, and no one else will ever have any idea what you're talking about.
Texting really does present a great opportunity to get sexy with each other, and as you can see, you don't have to get super explicit to do it. Texting is better than sending emails, though, because you never know who might end up seeing those messages. What's your favorite way to flirt and be sexy with your lover?
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