I really enjoy writing blogs, and today I want to cover the 7 worst types of sex. Right now, without reading what I have below, think about the worst types of sex in your book – then, read mine, that I have posted in the blog below and see, if I named a couple that are on your list as well.
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1. "I-Don’t-Really-Want-to-do-It" Type of Sex
You know what I’m talking about – I think this is one of the worst types of sex. When the partner really does not want to do it, but they do it anyway simply because they think the other one is going to be upset if they don’t do it. Yeah, that type of sex.
2. Injured Sex
You would think that having something as little as a sprained ankle would not put a damper in bed, but it can. Just ask someone who has a sprained ankle right now and see what they tell you. Sure, it’s possible, but it might not be the best.
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3. Sad Sex
Sad sex is definitely going to be on my list. It’s merely impossible to feel sexual when sad. I think it would be hard to do it with someone, when they are sad and look like they are going to cry right in the middle of it. Somewhere, I actually read that women’s tears have a chemical in them that turns a man off.
4. "Not-in-Love-Just-for-Fun" Sex
The just for fun type of sex, in my book, is bad. Sure, if you are in love and have sex “just for fun,” then there’s nothing wrong with it. Do you understand what I am getting at?
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However, if you're engaging in this "no strings attached" style without genuine affection, it's like eating a hollow calorie — a momentary pleasure that lacks substance and sustenance. It might feel exhilarating at first, but without the emotional connection, it often leaves you feeling empty and dissatisfied. Remember, intimacy is not just a physical act; it's a profound exchange that ideally should include emotional depth and mutual respect. Without these, sex can quickly become another forgettable activity, robbed of its true potential to connect and enrich our lives.
5. Forced Sex
Forced sex should definitely be on the list of worst types of sex to have. I shouldn’t have to go any further than this. It's wrong, it's damaging, it's also illegal. HELLO!
6. BDSM
For some, BDSM can be fun. However, a lot of people do not like this type of sex. I never understood why someone would want to be abusive during this time. I mean, come on, isn’t this a time when you are supposed to be giving your partner love?
7. Drunken Sex
Drunken sex in any way, shape or form is going to be one of the worst types of sex. At least, in my opinion it would be. I think that it is even worse when you wake up the next morning and don’t remember having sex, but the details and reminders are all around you.
There you have it - the 7 worst types of sex according to my book. I am sure there are a few more to list, so, in your opinion, what is the worst type of sex a girl should be aware and clearly stay away from?
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Comments
Deanna: By putting BDSM you are furthering the stereotype that BDSM is abusive and showing your ignorance on the variety of BDSM and that you clearly are not knowledgeable enough to be giving sex advice. You should be ashamed that you would call something that can bring two people close to one another abusive. BDSM is a part of many loving and satisfying relationships.
angie: I think everything that you've written is correct. I can really agree with you. If you're going to have sex be sure it is for the reason of love, not for anything else. :-))
Xave: I love drunk sex! I see what your getting at like NO I would not like to wake up next to a stranger after a night out.... but coming home drunk with boyfriend and having sex, great. I love the dizziness and the confidence.
Wamakai: So BDSM is just another misunderstood kind of sex. It's not fun for you but it's perfect for someone else. No judgy! :)
faeaki: Pre marital sex mmmm all well and good but what if there's no sexual chemistry it is a big risk for sure but a romantic idea none the less ! I'd add when your really tired Sex is a no go and your partner wants you like at 6 am n you've got to be up around 7:30 to go to work depriving your sleep uhhh my guys an athlete and loves earlier the better whilst I'm a night sex person this is where we clash sometimes but to be honest if I jumped on him stepping at night 90% of the time he wouldn't say no! 😊
zebra: What is BDSM
Hayley: I find the fact that you call BDSM sex "abusive" extremely ignorant and promoting of negative, false stereotypes. When done in a consenting way with set boundaries and safety guidelines, it is a beautiful thing (and I'm not talking about the stuff passed off as "BDSM" in 50 Shades of Gray). While you "may not understand it," for some couples, it is what they love and need.
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