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7 Inspirations from Me for Those Being Bullied ...

By Melanie

I have never been a bully in my life. I don’t like talking bad about someone and I certainly am not going to be the one to push someone over the edge. Do you know how many people kill themselves each year because of bullies? Do you realize how many people sink into depression because of bullies? You bullies should be ashamed of yourself! For those of you that are being bullied, I want to tell you that you are not alone. Let me give you 7 inspirations from me for those being bullied.

Table of contents:

  1. don’t let them see that it bothers you
  2. talk to someone about the problem
  3. don’t try to change yourself
  4. being bullied can make you stronger
  5. stand up for yourself
  6. don’t blame yourself
  7. be strong

7 Don’t Let Them See That It Bothers You

When that bully sees that they are bothering you, they will have so much power. They will learn your weaknesses and pick at it until you pop. That is how a bully works – so, you should never let them see that something bothers you, no matter how much it does. Just smile at them and laugh.

6 Talk to Someone about the Problem

If you have a problem with bullies, then talk to someone about the problem. Perhaps, just talking about the problem to someone will help get it off your chest. I am here, if you ever need to talk.

5 Don’t Try to Change Yourself

Who cares what someone says! I repeat it again – who cares what someone says! Who cares if you dress different, act different or even smell different from someone else. So what if you do not wear the name brand clothing – so what if your mom or dad isn’t a doctor and so what if you do not live in a big house. You should not try to change yourself – you should be who you are to be and be HAPPY about it.

4 Being Bullied Can Make You Stronger

Believe it or not, being bullied can make you stronger. It will teach you how to deal with things and how to get over those rocks.

3 Stand up for Yourself

I know, this may be hard for you to do, but you never know where this one is going to leave you. I have saw some people stand up to their bullies and the bully never messes with them again. Perhaps standing up for yourself will help.

2 Don’t Blame Yourself

No matter what, you should never sit there and blame yourself for something that they are bullying you over.

1 Be Strong

Most of all, you need to be strong. You should not let those bullies get to you. Trust me, in years to come, they will have regrets. You could end up being their boss. You could end up with them hurt in front of you and the only person there to save them is you. In some way or another, that bully is going to regret what they did to you.

Those are 7 inspirations from me for those being bullied. I also want to tell you that you should move forward. Those bullies will get what is coming to them one day and soon enough, they will regret it. So, are you being bullied?

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