7 Tricks on Being a "Cool" Girl ...

Come on, you KNOW you want to be a cool girl that every guy seems to dig! You want to be the next best thing that can rock anyone's world. I know the feeling girl! Let me give you 7 tricks on being a "cool" girl …

7 Dress in Neutrals

For clothes, try dressing in neutrals. I noticed many "cool" girls doing this one. Neutral colors may suite you perfectly. You could add some cool jewelry to it too. I really like dragon and crystal pendants along with skulls.

6 Don't Care What Others Think

Cool girls always have their own interests and opinions. They do not care what other people think of them – just do it in a respectful manner. Take me for an example, if I have something to say, I am going to say it, but I am going to put it in a nice way. By nice, I mean no name calling or pointing fingers. You should also dress however you want to dress.

5 Don't Complain

Come on, since when do you see a cool girl complaining about things? Hey, I'm talking about cool girls, not the rude girls or whiny girls. I can't stand people who complain. Sure, the job may not be done right, but that doesn't mean you have to be so rude about it. Cool girls just go with the flow and if they absolutely have to complain, they should do it nicely.

4 Learn How to Relax

Just because you are a "cool" girl does not mean that you have to be a super hyper girl. You need to learn how to relax and chill.

3 Compete

I have noticed that cool girls are always competitive girl. If you know me, you will find that I am very competitive when it comes to certain things like sports and video games. Learn how to enter competitions and talent shows.

2 Have a Nice Room

You don't have to keep it super clean, but you should keep it clean. It wouldn't hurt to have a couple of cool pictures – perhaps one of your favorite movie and favorite band. You may also want to put some cool blacklight stuff in your room.

1 When Online

It is okay to go online and chat safely on a blog or in a chat room with those that share the same interest in your. Just make sure you get your parents permission, if you are under the age of 18. When you do this, make sure you use proper grammar, please? DON'T "tiPe lYk Dis." Remember, you should maintain your class and no try to have bad grammar on purpose – big pet peeve of mine.

Wow, those 7 tricks on being a "cool" girl might just work for you! That is, as long as you follow them. Sometimes, being a cool girl is all about being yourself and not pretending to be something that you aren't. Also, being cool does not mean you have to follow in someone else's footsteps, have a gang, do drugs, skipping school and having sex – that is not such a cool girl. Would you like to add something in here?

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Aerlea Haha, this was an entertaining post! I like humor and the necklace idea; I have something similar to its description. I also like the part about complaining ;) In my opinion, the inclusion of "not caring what others think" was brilliant. Neutral colors are easy and convenient, especially if you have bright colored hair or makeup! You seem to have described me...but you know-I'm just a teenager :D
Graceful I loved this post but there is just one thing that was absulutly nessesary that had to point out. No one is really "cool".It's who you are that makes you cool. I agree whiney snotnosed girls aren not cool, but they are trying to act like someone else! Have you noticed girls on most tv show are brats? The Spy Next Door for example, I watched this with my friend and she started acting like the teenaged daughter! If you be yourself your cool;)
Fiorella @ Melanie This post catch my attention and I thought it was going to be "cool" but it really dissapointed me
peachy Be laid back, don't panic. Everyone will then admire you
Chloe I thought this post was adorable! Great job Melanie :-)
- Melanie @ Chloe - Thank you girl. @ Denise - Why do people tend to get worked up over posts when they don't like them? Whenever I see a post I don't like, I just move on and know that out there somewhere, someone likes it. I find it a waste of time commenting on something when I don't like it. I guess that's just me though.
Fiorella I think this post is is ridiculous too. Bing "cool" is about your attitude, just be cool to be cool. There's no actual definition of "cool" is a very abstract word. Therefore there's no guidelines nor rules to be "cool"
- Denise Then just disregard this post. No need to get worked up over it. =D Maybe some girl will find this post useful in her life.
Michelle Why are you guys being so mean to Melanie? I actually like this blog post, even if it does seem contradictory. Wearing what you want doesn't mean you cannot include nude colours. Do what you feel most comfortable with, but these are SUGGESTIONS, NOT exactly RULES.
- Melanie @ Michelle - Some people are just rude and I guess they take my suggestions offensive? @ fidgetfire - Actually ... I thought you were just joking around. Didn't realize it was a negative comment, so I joked with you. No, I don't always react to negative comments, a lot of times, I ignore them because I don't care - it's just a blog comment.
fidgetfire wow...u always react to the negative statments people put up ...and then u say u dont care !! lol..... P.S : some people are just so predictable !
fidgetfire melanie ...u r obviously not cool at all...lol
- Melanie @ fidgetfire - Why thank you fidgetfire. :-) But refer to number 6 on that one.
Sandy I find this article utterly ridiculous and contradictory. There is not one way to be "cool". "Cool" is arbitrary. Moreover, tip one says wear nude colors, and the next says where whatever you want. What is the obvious conclusion? Being cool is not defined by a set of guidelines - be yourself and enjoy it. I find articles like this disappointing. If you want to wear bold colors, or if you don't want to hang band posters on your walls then that is just fine! Stay true to yourself, embrace who you are, and know that you're unique personality is what makes you sexy. That's cool.
- Aerlea @Sandy, Next time you try to tell someone off, make sure you have your information straight. The first tip actually says NEUTRAL not NUDE. NEUTRAL COLORS: Shades of brown, black, tan, navy, white, and grey. Colors that go with every other color; they can be called "earthy tones" in some circumstances. NUDE COLORS: Colors that closely resemble skin tones... Maturity is also a key point to being "cool". Fighting with someone you don't even know through blog comments is something I did in middle school. Enjoy yourselves.