Come on, you KNOW you want to be a cool girl that every guy seems to dig! You want to be the next best thing that can rock anyone's world. I know the feeling girl! Let me give you 7 tricks on being a "cool" girl …
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7. Dress in Neutrals
For clothes, try dressing in neutrals. I noticed many "cool" girls doing this one. Neutral colors may suite you perfectly. You could add some cool jewelry to it too. I really like dragon and crystal pendants along with skulls.
6. Don't Care What Others Think
Cool girls always have their own interests and opinions. They do not care what other people think of them – just do it in a respectful manner. Take me for an example, if I have something to say, I am going to say it, but I am going to put it in a nice way. By nice, I mean no name calling or pointing fingers. You should also dress however you want to dress.
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It's all about confidence and staying true to yourself. Whether you're rocking a vintage tee or dressing to the nines, own it with your head held high. Remember, coolness isn't about conforming; it's about standing out. So if you love that quirky hat or those bold prints, wear them with pride. Judgement might come, but it's your happiness and self-expression that matters most. As long as you're being kind and authentic, you're already the coolest girl in any room you step into.
Frequently asked questions
Being a 'cool' girl is all about being yourself and having confidence! It's about being laid-back, fun, and not taking life too seriously. Plus, having a genuine interest in things goes a long way.
Start by embracing who you are and not trying to force yourself into a mold. Listen to others, be open-minded, and try new things. Most importantly, don't worry about being perfect!
Not at all! Being cool is less about how you dress and more about how you carry yourself. Wear what makes you feel good and confident. Your style will naturally reflect your cool personality.
Absolutely! Everyone has insecurities, even those who seem super cool. The trick is to not let those insecurities control you. Embrace them, work on them if you can, but don't let them define you.
Nope! Being cool is about being true to yourself and connecting genuinely with others, not about how many people know you. It's way more rewarding to have meaningful connections than just surface-level popularity.
5. Don't Complain
Come on, since when do you see a cool girl complaining about things? Hey, I'm talking about cool girls, not the rude girls or whiny girls. I can't stand people who complain. Sure, the job may not be done right, but that doesn't mean you have to be so rude about it. Cool girls just go with the flow and if they absolutely have to complain, they should do it nicely.
4. Learn How to Relax
Just because you are a "cool" girl does not mean that you have to be a super hyper girl. You need to learn how to relax and chill.
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One way to appear more laid-back is to practice deep breathing or meditation. These techniques can ground you in the moment, releasing the pressure to always be "on". Show others that true coolness comes from a state of inner calmness, not constant activity. Whether it's through yoga, long walks, or listening to your favorite tunes, finding your own method to unwind is key. Remember, radiating serenity is just as impactful as radiating energy. It's all about balance – being able to kick back and enjoy the vibe of any situation.
3. Compete
I have noticed that cool girls are always competitive girl. If you know me, you will find that I am very competitive when it comes to certain things like sports and video games. Learn how to enter competitions and talent shows.
2. Have a Nice Room
You don't have to keep it super clean, but you should keep it clean. It wouldn't hurt to have a couple of cool pictures – perhaps one of your favorite movie and favorite band. You may also want to put some cool blacklight stuff in your room.
1. When Online
It is okay to go online and chat safely on a blog or in a chat room with those that share the same interest in your. Just make sure you get your parents permission, if you are under the age of 18. When you do this, make sure you use proper grammar, please? DON'T "tiPe lYk Dis." Remember, you should maintain your class and no try to have bad grammar on purpose – big pet peeve of mine.
Wow, those 7 tricks on being a "cool" girl might just work for you! That is, as long as you follow them. Sometimes, being a cool girl is all about being yourself and not pretending to be something that you aren't. Also, being cool does not mean you have to follow in someone else's footsteps, have a gang, do drugs, skipping school and having sex – that is not such a cool girl. Would you like to add something in here?
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Comments
Graceful: I loved this post but there is just one thing that was absulutly nessesary that had to point out. No one is really "cool".It's who you are that makes you cool. I agree whiney snotnosed girls aren not cool, but they are trying to act like someone else! Have you noticed girls on most tv show are brats? The Spy Next Door for example, I watched this with my friend and she started acting like the teenaged daughter! If you be yourself your cool;)
Sandy: I find this article utterly ridiculous and contradictory. There is not one way to be "cool". "Cool" is arbitrary. Moreover, tip one says wear nude colors, and the next says where whatever you want. What is the obvious conclusion? Being cool is not defined by a set of guidelines - be yourself and enjoy it. I find articles like this disappointing. If you want to wear bold colors, or if you don't want to hang band posters on your walls then that is just fine! Stay true to yourself, embrace who you are, and know that you're unique personality is what makes you sexy. That's cool.
Fiorella: I think this post is is ridiculous too. Bing "cool" is about your attitude, just be cool to be cool. There's no actual definition of "cool" is a very abstract word. Therefore there's no guidelines nor rules to be "cool"
Edie: Cool is being original not living your life around a blog. Quite lame.
fidgetfire: wow...u always react to the negative statments people put up ...and then u say u dont care !! lol..... P.S : some people are just so predictable !
Aerlea: Haha, this was an entertaining post! I like humor and the necklace idea; I have something similar to its description. I also like the part about complaining ;) In my opinion, the inclusion of "not caring what others think" was brilliant. Neutral colors are easy and convenient, especially if you have bright colored hair or makeup! You seem to have described me...but you know-I'm just a teenager :D
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