7 Worst Types of Sex to Be Aware of ...

7 Worst Types of Sex to Be Aware of ...
By Melanie • Sep 4, 2012

I really enjoy writing blogs, and today I want to cover the 7 worst types of sex. Right now, without reading what I have below, think about the worst types of sex in your book – then, read mine, that I have posted in the blog below and see, if I named a couple that are on your list as well.

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1. "I-Don’t-Really-Want-to-do-It" Type of Sex

You know what I’m talking about – I think this is one of the worst types of sex. When the partner really does not want to do it, but they do it anyway simply because they think the other one is going to be upset if they don’t do it. Yeah, that type of sex.

2. Injured Sex

You would think that having something as little as a sprained ankle would not put a damper in bed, but it can. Just ask someone who has a sprained ankle right now and see what they tell you. Sure, it’s possible, but it might not be the best.

3. Sad Sex

Sad sex is definitely going to be on my list. It’s merely impossible to feel sexual when sad. I think it would be hard to do it with someone, when they are sad and look like they are going to cry right in the middle of it. Somewhere, I actually read that women’s tears have a chemical in them that turns a man off.

4. "Not-in-Love-Just-for-Fun" Sex

The just for fun type of sex, in my book, is bad. Sure, if you are in love and have sex “just for fun,” then there’s nothing wrong with it. Do you understand what I am getting at?

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However, if you're engaging in this "no strings attached" style without genuine affection, it's like eating a hollow calorie — a momentary pleasure that lacks substance and sustenance. It might feel exhilarating at first, but without the emotional connection, it often leaves you feeling empty and dissatisfied. Remember, intimacy is not just a physical act; it's a profound exchange that ideally should include emotional depth and mutual respect. Without these, sex can quickly become another forgettable activity, robbed of its true potential to connect and enrich our lives.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Forced Sex

Forced sex should definitely be on the list of worst types of sex to have. I shouldn’t have to go any further than this. It's wrong, it's damaging, it's also illegal. HELLO!

6. BDSM

For some, BDSM can be fun. However, a lot of people do not like this type of sex. I never understood why someone would want to be abusive during this time. I mean, come on, isn’t this a time when you are supposed to be giving your partner love?

7. Drunken Sex

Drunken sex in any way, shape or form is going to be one of the worst types of sex. At least, in my opinion it would be. I think that it is even worse when you wake up the next morning and don’t remember having sex, but the details and reminders are all around you.

There you have it - the 7 worst types of sex according to my book. I am sure there are a few more to list, so, in your opinion, what is the worst type of sex a girl should be aware and clearly stay away from?

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  • Shakti

    2011-04-06T18:48:38.000Z

    Nice post.
  • faeaki

    2015-08-14T10:00:22.486Z

    Agree Sheila *. To compare sex with someone who really loves you and someone who just is up for the occasion well they are worlds apart.. My partner now gives me the greatest orgasm I've experienced he is so sensual and holds me like he'll never let me go BECAUSE he adores me , I've had some really good sex with a stranger but it's still no where near as intense as when there's chemistry there,trust me !
  • Bellaisa

    2011-04-08T03:35:36.000Z

    I haven't had drunken sex in a while, but I do remember liking it! Now when I drink I sleep...I don't have energy for sex after drinking. But I remember inhibitions being out the window - along with our clothes!
  • Deanna

    2012-11-30T09:57:43.000Z

    By putting BDSM you are furthering the stereotype that BDSM is abusive and showing your ignorance on the variety of BDSM and that you clearly are not knowledgeable enough to be giving sex advice. You should be ashamed that you would call something that can bring two people close to one another abusive. BDSM is a part of many loving and satisfying relationships.
  • Dasia

    2011-04-07T22:07:10.000Z

    The correct term for # 2 would be BSDM // S&M. No one would enjoy abusive sex.
  • Wamakai

    2014-12-09T10:17:14.208Z

    So BDSM is just another misunderstood kind of sex. It's not fun for you but it's perfect for someone else. No judgy! :)
  • Shay

    2012-09-17T12:15:21.000Z

    number six is really each to there own
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