7 Worst Types of Sex to Be Aware of ...

7 Worst Types of Sex to Be Aware of ...
By Melanie • Sep 4, 2012

I really enjoy writing blogs, and today I want to cover the 7 worst types of sex. Right now, without reading what I have below, think about the worst types of sex in your book – then, read mine, that I have posted in the blog below and see, if I named a couple that are on your list as well.

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1. "I-Don’t-Really-Want-to-do-It" Type of Sex

You know what I’m talking about – I think this is one of the worst types of sex. When the partner really does not want to do it, but they do it anyway simply because they think the other one is going to be upset if they don’t do it. Yeah, that type of sex.

2. Injured Sex

You would think that having something as little as a sprained ankle would not put a damper in bed, but it can. Just ask someone who has a sprained ankle right now and see what they tell you. Sure, it’s possible, but it might not be the best.

3. Sad Sex

Sad sex is definitely going to be on my list. It’s merely impossible to feel sexual when sad. I think it would be hard to do it with someone, when they are sad and look like they are going to cry right in the middle of it. Somewhere, I actually read that women’s tears have a chemical in them that turns a man off.

4. "Not-in-Love-Just-for-Fun" Sex

The just for fun type of sex, in my book, is bad. Sure, if you are in love and have sex “just for fun,” then there’s nothing wrong with it. Do you understand what I am getting at?

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However, if you're engaging in this "no strings attached" style without genuine affection, it's like eating a hollow calorie — a momentary pleasure that lacks substance and sustenance. It might feel exhilarating at first, but without the emotional connection, it often leaves you feeling empty and dissatisfied. Remember, intimacy is not just a physical act; it's a profound exchange that ideally should include emotional depth and mutual respect. Without these, sex can quickly become another forgettable activity, robbed of its true potential to connect and enrich our lives.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Forced Sex

Forced sex should definitely be on the list of worst types of sex to have. I shouldn’t have to go any further than this. It's wrong, it's damaging, it's also illegal. HELLO!

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6. BDSM

For some, BDSM can be fun. However, a lot of people do not like this type of sex. I never understood why someone would want to be abusive during this time. I mean, come on, isn’t this a time when you are supposed to be giving your partner love?

7. Drunken Sex

Drunken sex in any way, shape or form is going to be one of the worst types of sex. At least, in my opinion it would be. I think that it is even worse when you wake up the next morning and don’t remember having sex, but the details and reminders are all around you.

There you have it - the 7 worst types of sex according to my book. I am sure there are a few more to list, so, in your opinion, what is the worst type of sex a girl should be aware and clearly stay away from?

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Pre marital sex mmmm all well and good but what if there's no sexual chemistry it is a big risk for sure but a romantic idea none the less ! I'd add when your really tired Sex is a no go and your partner wants you like at 6 am n you've got to be up around 7:30 to go to work depriving your sleep uhhh my guys an athlete and loves earlier the better whilst I'm a night sex person this is where we clash sometimes but to be honest if I jumped on him stepping at night 90% of the time he wouldn't say no! 😊

Sure, making love is better but Just for fun sex is fine and healthy when you're older. People have sexual urges, even when they're not in a relationship. If you have those standards, you'll jump into relationships too easily and throw around the word 'love' like it's nothing. When I was 18, I lost my virginity because I wanted to have sex and I was ready but it didn't look like I was going to be in a relationship anytime soon (I was single for 2 years beforehand).

This is a really sorry post. It feels like sex advice from a virgin.

Being pissed drunk is awful.yet I manage to be aware and remember. But the worst is sex on bars.... you really don't remember anything at all...

Write a comment ...any emotion I feel turns me on sad, angry, happy, whatever it may be usually it just turns out the same lol

I think Dasia is trying to make a point here that BDSM sex is not abusive. As a consultant for a company built to empower women and educate them on sexual health, I wanted to agree here. That type of sex is more about trust, change of control, and heightened sensation than anything else.

Guessing you stereotyped a few of these as does everyone else

That was very insensitive and misinformed about the BDSM. Many people (and not the ridiculous 50 shades of Gray that girls are pretending to try right now) are very committed to it. And it is never abuse... Or non consensual. I usually really like this site but some of the authors DO NOT do any type of research before writing these articles and this was a perfect example.

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