Texting is pretty much everywhere. Everyone does it, in part because it's an easy way to communicate. It's also a great way to be sexy with your partner. Now, I'm talking about long term partners here. Flirty text are great for the guy or girl you're just starting to go out with, but when you're really serious with someone, you can get a little more risque – for instance, you can try one of these 7 sexy texts to send your partner.
“I have one more thing for you to put on today's to-do list: me.” Ah, a pun, an invitation, and a flirt! You see, you don't have to get all kinds of X-rated to be sexy, you can be subtle, too. Well, all right, maybe that's not exactly subtle – but your lover will definitely think it's sexy!
The NSFW, or Not Safe for Work, tag is one of the best warnings for some steam – or some oddities, depending on what you're sending. However, let your partner know that you're thinking about some very NSFW scenarios while you're at work – and share them if you like, but be as subtle as you can because teasing is half the fun!
The NSFW tag is a great way to let your partner know that you're thinking about some naughty scenarios while you're at work. By sending a subtle NSFW message, you can tease them and make it more fun. It's important to remember that NSFW content is not always appropriate for the workplace, so use caution when sending these messages. Additionally, make sure to respect your partner's boundaries and only send what they are comfortable with.
Like say, there are tons of fun puns you can use when you're sending sexy texts to the one you love. For instance, let your partner know when you're, you know, getting off … work. Okay, not really. Send him or her something like, “Getting off in 15 minutes. Are you going to be here too?” See, double entendre. Very nice.
Play it cheeky by building anticipation with your timing. How about: “Just clocked out, but I won’t be the only thing unwinding tonight... Can’t wait to get you all wound up.” Remember to keep it flirty and suggestive, letting your partner's imagination run wild as they count down the minutes to your arrival. It's the perfect way to transition from the day's stress to an evening of shared excitement.
We all have naughty dreams sometimes, and they can definitely get pretty steamy. Let your partner know you've been dreaming about him or her – but don't divulge the dream! Rather, conclude your text with the promise that you'll act it out together later.
This text is a great way to tantalize your partner and get them excited for what’s to come. Everyone has naughty dreams, and it can be a lot of fun to act them out with your partner. You don’t have to give away the details of the dream, just let your partner know that you’re thinking about them. This type of suggestive text can be a great way to get your partner’s heart racing and set the mood for a night of romance. It’s also a great way to keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship.
This one's perfect for the girls. Take a picture of your cleavage, your neck, your lips – any erogenous zone for you that's not X-rated. Then, text your partner that singular, rather iconic message: “Wish you were here.” A picture is worth a thousand words in this case, and it's definitely better than a postcard!
It's common to flirt by mentioning a shower. For instance, with a text, what you can do is let your partner know that you just got out of the shower or the bathtub … and then ask your lover if he or she wants to come over so that you can get dirty all over again. There goes those double entendres again!
Finally, the two of you can make up your own secret abbreviations, little text speak signals that only the two of you can decipher. You'll easily be able to pass sexy, steamy messages back and forth, and no one else will ever have any idea what you're talking about.
Texting really does present a great opportunity to get sexy with each other, and as you can see, you don't have to get super explicit to do it. Texting is better than sending emails, though, because you never know who might end up seeing those messages. What's your favorite way to flirt and be sexy with your lover?
Top Photo Credit: Wade Morgen