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10 Ways to Keep a New Guy Interested ...

By Fawn

So you've found a new guy and you really like him. He likes the same music as you, he says sweet things and he texts you random cuteness throughout the day to let you know he's thinking of you. My guess, you're tumbling head over heels into a big vat of emotion and you want to find a way to make him feel the same way. Well, have no fear, I have you top ten ways to keep that new guy interested!

1. Switch up the Routine

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So you've had a few dates with this guy. A couple of dinners, a couple of movies and if you're modern minded, you've had a few PG-13 sleep overs. You've gotten into a routine. Well, now is the time to break it. You can't get too comfortable too early on or your guy will lose interest fast. So, instead of making him dinner and watching a movie at your place, why not take him on a grand adventure through a park for a moonlit picnic?

2. Look Nice

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I know how it is ladies, after a while you just don't want to do your make-up EVERY time you see your guy. And eventually some tight skinny jeans become tight yoga pants which later become loose sweats. But this isn't a habit you should get into. Try and look nice for a little bit. It lets your guy know that you care enough to put effort into your appearance!

3. Don't Be Clingy

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Don't get me wrong here, some public displays of affection are cute. Like when your guy pulls you a little closer and kisses your forehead. But don't hold on for dear life, that could send your guy running faster than you ever thought possible. Let him know that you're interested but keep him guessing by being able to stand on your own two feet.

4. Find Your Similarities and Run with Them

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Find out what type of music your guy likes, or what he likes to do with his free time. Hopefully, there will be something there that you also enjoy. Do you like the same music? Share a headphone the next time your favorite song comes on. Enjoy singing? Have a road trip jam session!

5. Be Confident

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Confidence is very sexy! If you can sashay into a room and turn some heads then by all means go for it! Just make sure you keep your eye on your man so he knows that he's the one lucky guy that gets to walk out with the hottest girl in the room. It'll be an ego boost for both of you!

6. Keep Some Mystery

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We all know how hard it is to hold in that one embarrassing story from Camp Wannahackahloogie but for the love of all things holy, don't give everything away just yet! Make your guy earn interesting stories and your deep inner thoughts. You shouldn't reveal everything you have too early!

7. Let Him Come to You

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It's cute to send your guy cute little text messages throughout the day but sometimes, you should really make him come to you. You don't always have to be the first to send out a message, and this will let you know just how much he really wants to talk to you.

8. Stay Flirty

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Don't let your guy seek flirtation elsewhere, keep it going with him. There's no reason for you to not flirt just because you're together. Give him cutesy little compliments, make him feel like you're admiring him. He'll make you feel the same way right back!

9. Bust out Those Hidden Talents

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Do you play guitar, or rock Guitar Hero? How about paint with your feet? Can you shoot an arrow into a target with a bow? Why not show off a few of those mad skills?

10. Flaunt Your Eccentricities

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Do you like to rain dance or sing in the car or in the shower? Why not let your guy see that silly side of yours? Open up and get silly, your guy will love to see this new side of you.

Well ladies, I gave you some tips. It's time for you to apply them into your everyday lives! Do you have any tips for me on how to keep a new guy interested? Let me know!

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Frequently Asked Questions

What are some tips to make sure a new guy stays interested?
It's all about keeping things fresh and fun! Show genuine interest in his hobbies, make plans together, and keep the conversation light and exciting.
How can I tell if a guy is still interested in me?
Watch for consistent communication, like texting or calling regularly. If he's making an effort to spend time with you and is curious about your life, chances are he's interested!
Is it important to play hard to get with a new guy?
A little mystery can be intriguing, but don’t overdo it! Balance is key. Be yourself, and let things flow naturally. It’s okay to show that you're into him too.
What if he starts losing interest?
Don’t panic! Give him some space and focus on your own interests. Sometimes a little breathing room can reignite the spark.
Should I change myself to keep a guy interested?
Absolutely not! The right guy will be interested in the real you. Be authentic, and don't compromise on who you are.
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