7 Ways to React when You Find out He's Cheating on You ...


Whether it’s through a friend, the grapevine, or actually seeing your man cheating on you, it’s never a pleasant feeling.

I can think of at least 7 ways to react when you find out he’s cheating on you.

I’ve listed them below and I’m sure not everyone will find each tactic as a desirable way to handle a cheating partner.

See what you think and please add your thoughts in the comment section.

7. Think about Your Own Recent Behavior

Have you been shunning him?

Did you say anything that he could take as a signal you weren’t interested in him anymore?

This is a good time to make sure you weren’t the one who initiated the end of your relationship.

He could be under the impression that you were leaving him and his actions might not seem to him like he’s cheating, since he thinks you two are no longer an item.2

This entire situation could be one giant misunderstanding.

6. Try to Recall if His Actions Have Been Leading up to This Moment

Has he been doing odd things lately that should have been signs he was cheating on you?

Think back to his behavior;

secret phone calls, unknown text messages, or other sneaky actions.

It’s possible you weren’t more observant in the past and you could have talked things out with him before the cheating began.

5. Catch Him in the Act

I know if I were to hear a rumor about my guy cheating on me, I’d have to see it to believe it.

If this is the case for you, who are you going to trust;

someone else’s word or your own eyes?

4. Change the Locks on the House

This seems to be a popular reaction in the movies.2

A woman finds out her man is cheating on her and she rushes home to have the locks changed on all the doors.

It might work for some women.

I’ve personally changed locks on many doors and it’s a huge pain in the rear end.

But, if you truly cannot talk things over with your cheating man, then changing the locks might be the right route to take.

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