**By Johanna Spalding **
Have you ever really wondered what it is that attracts you to someone? Was it the cut of a muscle, a sparkle in the eyes, or maybe beautiful lips that curved into a smile? Was it? Are you sure? Maybe that caught your attention originally, but what was it that brought you back for more?
I know that an attractive face or body may catch my attention. I also know that I have the ability to be attracted to someone that I may have never laid eyes on.
Attraction is so much more than the physical, granted I think the physical has to be there as well.
True attraction is energy to energy, mind to mind, and body to body. It is all encompassing. There must be something more; something that reaches out and stirs the spirit. It can be different with every single person or maybe there is some underlying trait that is always the same.
So I am wondering what are you attracted to? What truly attracts you? Think about it, mull it over and once you have an answer decide if you sure that it is really what you are looking for. Are you finding it? Part of getting what you want is to know what it is you are after in the first place.
So do a bit of soul searching. Write down what it is you want. Do not let yourself settle for less than you deserve. While you are at it, treat yourself. Go on a date with yourself. Do all the things you like. Do not wait for someone else to do it for you. Allow a little love and kindness into your life starting by loving yourself.