My Ideal Man Checklist - 6 Revised Versions ...
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When I was a teenager, I had this stringent list of what my ideal man should be: handsome, well-off, caring, understanding, God-fearing, intelligent - " I could have gone on and on then about what qualities my partner should have. However, as I grew older, I realized that I could never really find a real person who met all these sterling qualities.
Building a my-ideal-man-list is much like this e-mail that I received which made me laugh out loud, it's entitled "My Ideal Man Checklist". At age 22, the checklist goes much like the list that I had above. Another revised list is made at ages 32, 42, 52, 62 and by the age of 72 there are only a couple of items on the list: that the man should be breathing and not miss the toilet. Well, here's the full version for you to enjoy:
“My Ideal Man Checklist”
What I Want in a Man, Original List (age 22):
10. An Imaginative, Romantic Lover
What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 32):
10. Seeks Romance at Least Once a Week
What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 42):
10. Shaves Most Weekends
What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 52):
10. Shaves Some Weekends
What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 62):
10. Remembers That It’s the Weekend
What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 72):
2. Doesn’t Miss the Toilet!
As funny as the e-mail was, it is true" as you grow more mature, your original list of 'requirements' for an ideal man are revised. Now, all I am looking for in an ideal man is one who can be both a best friend and a partner in life, and someone who will love me as unconditionally as I love him. And what about you? What's your perfect guy checklist?
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Frequently Asked Questions
- What qualities should I look for in my ideal man?
- Look for kindness, respect, good communication, and shared values to build a strong foundation.
- How important is physical attraction compared to personality?
- While physical attraction sparks interest, personality traits like empathy and humor sustain lasting relationships.
- Can my ideal man change over time?
- Absolutely; as you grow, your priorities and what you value in a partner might evolve.
- Should I prioritize career ambition in my ideal man?
- Ambition is great, but balance it with emotional availability and shared life goals.
- How do I know if he respects my boundaries?
- He listens attentively, honors your decisions, and never pressures you to do something uncomfortable.
- Is it okay to have a strict checklist for my ideal man?
- Having guidelines helps, but stay open to surprises and imperfections in real connections.
- How can I communicate my needs effectively to my partner?
- Be honest and clear about your feelings and desires, and encourage open dialogue.
- Should my ideal man share all my hobbies?
- Sharing interests is a bonus, but mutual support for each other's passions matters more.
- How do trust and honesty fit into my ideal man checklist?
- They are essential; trust builds security, while honesty fosters deep understanding.
- What role does emotional intelligence play in choosing my ideal man?
- Emotional intelligence helps him handle challenges thoughtfully and connect deeply with you.