We’ve all been there: you’re out on a date and the sparks are flying, but he’s not getting the hint. Is there a subtle, lady-like way to seduce your date? You bet! Here are some tips.
1. Smile a Lot
Smile a lot, with your mouth, your voice, your eyes. Speaking of eyes, look him in the eys when you smile at him. And lick your lips once in a while, too. Play with your hair a little.
2. Lower Your Voice
Men prefer a woman’s voice to be a little lower, and a little quieter. Also, if you speak quieter and less nasally and less high-pitched, he’ll have to lean forward a little to hear you.
3. Touch Him a Little
Brush pretend lint off of his shoulder. Touch his hand or wrist. But don’t go overboard. Subtle is better.
4. Dance with Him
Let him see you move a little. It doesn’t matter whether it’s a slow-dance or not… but again, don’t over do it.
5. Dress the Part
Dress a little sexier than usual. If you’re wearing a low-cut top, lean forward once in a while and give him a peek of that lacy black bra and some cleavage.
6. Find Your Scent
Men prefer lighter, less heavy scents. Find a perfume or lotion that compliments you, and wear it.
7. Compliment Him
Tell him he looks great, laugh at his jokes, thank him for dinner, but be sincere.
8. Cook for Him
Men love a woman who can cook. You don’t have to be the a top chef, but learn how to make a few dishes and cook one for him.
9. Enjoy Everything around You
Let him see you savor the wine, enjoy the dinner, indulge in the chocolate, get lost in the music.
10. Be Prepared
If you are able to seduce him, be prepared! Make sure your place is clean, your legs are smooth, and you have condoms.
What man wouldn’t be flattered to be seduced by a beautiful woman? What’s your sure-fire way to attract a man?
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Frequently Asked Questions
- How can I make a memorable first impression?
- Honestly, just be yourself! Confidence is key. Wear something that makes you feel amazing and don't worry too much about impressing him. Just enjoy the moment!
- What's the best way to flirt without being too obvious?
- Flirting is all about having fun! A little playful teasing, some light touches, and making eye contact can go a long way. It's all about creating a fun, flirty vibe!
- Should I lead the conversation or let him take charge?
- Balance is important! Share stories and ask questions. Be genuinely interested in what he has to say, but don't be afraid to steer the conversation to topics you both enjoy.
- Is it okay to compliment him on the first date?
- Absolutely! Everyone loves a genuine compliment. Just make sure it's specific, like mentioning how much you love his sense of humor or style.
- How do I know if he's interested in me?
- Watch for signs like prolonged eye contact, leaning in while you talk, and keeping the conversation going. If he's doing these, he’s probably into you!