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hi what should I do I had cought my boyfriend out with lady upstairs at his place 5 months ago he never let me in that nigh app they were just having a smoke should I just believe him? he said that was the situation...anyway over time I have let it eat away at me and lost respect for him he dosnt want to talk about it and says I have mental issues puts it all back on me should a now walk away from him he says my trust issues are out of control..:(
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Hi Sarah. That's good advice. If you're not being treated the way you deserve, then just run. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us!
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If you don't live together and they don't contact you on the weekend, run, i've been there and also if he's into you, he will ring you every day, no-one is that busy, if you feel something is wrong that because it is. Once a player\cheat always a player\cheat.
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If you catch him in the middle of a lie, then he's a player. I was "Dating" (if you can even call it that) this good looking older guy and one night as he was bringing me home I caught him texting someone named Leah. I called him out on it and asked who it was that he kept texting and he said Daniel. I asked him if Daniel was spelled L-E-A-H and he said what do you know her? I told him yes just to call his bluff and he asked me what her last name was. I knew her from highschool and told him her last name and he's like "No, she's a friend." Ladies if you catch them in a lie dump them. They're not worth it if they're dishonest.
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I think I prefer neither of the two.
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Men maybe be pigs but at least its better than being a psycho woman.
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I agree with you. If your guy starts hiding things from you (in whatever way), then you should start wondering what's up. But I think that you should try to confront the guy about it before doing anything rash. If he's unreceptive or if things can't be resolved by talking, then maybe it's time you should think about leaving.
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Well now with the internet and facebook into play you know something is wrong if he blocks you from being able to comment on his page and eventually blocks you from even seeing his wall. yes it's the internet and facebook but really.. since it is "only" the internet and facebook why block these things from someone you are dating. this guy who did it, i finally put my foot. It's hard, and it hurts but I've done it for my own sanity, dignity and so that i can focus on being a complete person to be a mother to my two year old.
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Yeah I agree. Guys should be honest and not be that way, leading girls on and wasting their time if they don't love them. Xanny, you have very useful tips.
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I totally am experiencing number 7,8, and number 4. Totally am not into the guy because he's doing those mind games with me. I think I'm better off alone. He probably enjoys making me feel confused and like I'm not worth it. =(
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Zenmaster, Glad you agree. Now to get the rest of your kind to do the same.
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@sheila - Am not sure about life but we are pigs. B-)
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Zenmaster, What is it with men and their food. My best friend (he's a man) and me never fought except when it came to food. How come it's okay for him to dig into my food but not okay for me to do the same? Life s unfair! And men are pigs.
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Regarding #10. I would just like to say it for the record. ZENNY DOESN'T SHARE FOOD. And no I am not playing mind games. You telling me your secret doesn't amount to you digging your fork into my cheese cake. No euphemisms there. Honest to god.
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Vanisha, I'm with you on that!!
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i hate when a person wastes another persons valuable time. just be forward with them and stop leading them onnnn
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Ellie, Sometimes he needs that push! Something to make him jealous, and to help him realize what you mean to him! Most of the boys are so lame at times. You need to help them for them to say, 'Heck, If I don't act fast I'm going to loose her!' Mostly if you give a guy all your attention he will take you for granted. Girls need to continue with their own lives and normal routines even if they're so madly in love, our lives shouldn't revolve around them. Buy that he has a chance to do his own things and you give him time to miss you! By making them feel so important, is worst than better!
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Hi Ellie, The jealousy trick really works doesn't it? :D As long as you don't overdo it.
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another thing is when he never talks first, like you always have to or you's don't talk atall really.. but one night, instead of chasing after him, i stuck with friends..most of them being fellas. after a while he was hugging round me all night. i felt great, give it a try girlys ;)
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Yeah Meream, Such bastards around. But I guess we have to live with them! Both parties can't live without each other!
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Yeah Sheila, It's one of the best features us girls have. Certain things we smell them from a distance! :)
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Tsk tsk, men can be such jerks.
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And like I always say, pay close attention to your intuition. It's always going to be your best friend. Always!
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Thanks again for a great post Jen. Some of these signs are pretty obvious. When you meet a person and by time you learn how he is, and then after some time he changes see to it to pay attention.. For me he will have something to hide for sure! Like - He never wants to go out! And at first you're always stuck with him! Pay attention girls! Really helpful tips!!
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Great post as always Jennifer! Some of the points are really obvious ....like that one...when he doesn't want u to meet his friends.