If youโ€™re tempted to cheat just end the relationship please because no one deserves to be the โ€œother person.โ€ If you canโ€™t express your needs to someone or communicate to that person what they lack, just be single! Be alone! Because relationships are about communication and honesty. If you canโ€™t sit that significant other down and be honest with them, then baby go to the pet store and get yourself a bunch of cats to shackle up with because youโ€™re wasting your time as well as the other persons time!

Truth be told, I have been cheated on and I have been the cheater. I know what youโ€™re thinking... โ€œHow is this girl giving advice without taking her own.โ€ Well... when I cheated it was because I felt neglected and unnoticed. I kept those feelings bottled up inside of me when I could have told my significant other what was bothering me. If I had communicated those feelings to him he could have met my needs and things could have been different. But, no I chose to cheat. I met a guy who gave me the most attention and appreciated me while I was still with this guy. It was a waste of time because I was keeping secrets from someone I cared about. When my significant other found out I was cheating, he was crushed. It hurt me badly to know I hurt someone like that. I kept apologizing and telling him that I loved him, and he told me โ€œNah, if you loved me, then why did you cheat? If there was trouble in paradise, why not come to me so we can solve the problem?โ€ That hit me hard and stayed with me since.

And then... My next relationship I got cheated on. It hurt like hell because shittttt I liked the guy a lot. I invested my time and energy just to get played. I asked my significant other the same questions my ex had asked me way back when... โ€œWhy cheat on me if you say care about me?โ€

Cheating is not worth it period. If the problem is fixable, fix it! Sit down with your significant other to resolve the issue, if it canโ€™t be fixed- WALK AWAY! Communication is really big and important in relationships, so take advantage of it. Say what you need, say what you feel, if it donโ€™t get you what you want, leave.