17 ๊ฒŒ์ž„ ๐Ÿคก ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๐Ÿšซ ํ•˜์ž ๋‚จ์ž ๋†€์ด ์•ˆ ๐Ÿ’—...

๋‚จ์ž๋Š” ํ˜ผํ•ฉ๋œ ์‹ ํ˜ธ๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋Š” ํ•˜ ๊ณ  ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋งˆ์Œ์—์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๊ฒŒ์ž„์˜ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋น„๋‚œ. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜, ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด, ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์˜ ์ฃ„๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด. ๋ฌผ๋ก , ๋‚จ์ž๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒŒ์ž„์„ ๋ชปํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋‚จ์ž ์นœ๊ตฌ ๋˜๋Š” ํ˜ธ๊ฐ ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๋“ค ๋‹น์‹ ์— ๊ฒŒ, ๊ทธ์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋‚ญ๋น„ ํ•˜์ง€.

1. ๊ทธ๋Š” ์„น์Šค์— ๋Œ€ ํ•œ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉ ํ•˜ ์—ฌ

He Uses You for Sex ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์„น์Šค ๊ฐœ์ฒด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋‚จ์ž ์นœ๊ตฌ์˜ ์˜๋„๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ž๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž์— ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

2. ๊ทธ๋Š” ์—ด์‹ฌํžˆ ํ™œ์•ฝ

He Plays Hard to Get ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์—ด์‹ฌํžˆ ํ”Œ๋ ˆ์ด ํ•˜๋Š” ์œ ์ผํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š”, ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด, ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์—†์–ด ๋˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์€, ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์— ๊ฒŒ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ์œ ์ง€์— ๊ด€์‹ฌ์ด ์—†๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž ์ฒ™ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3. ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ Flirts ์ฃผ์œ„

He Flirts around ์„ ์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ๋‚ ์งœ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ์ฃผ์žฅ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์— ๋Œ€ ํ•œ ๊ด€์‹ฌ, ๋‹ค์Œ ๊ทธ๋Š” ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ์•ˆ ๋  ์œ ํ˜น ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๋ณด๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์—ฌ์ž์™€.

4. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์— ์œ ๋ น

He Ghosts on You ์–ด๋–ค ๋‚จ์ž๋Š” ๋™์•ˆ ๊ณต์ฃผ ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์ทจ๊ธ‰ ํ•˜ ๊ณ  ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋“œ๋กญ. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ฏธ์•„๋ฅผ ๊ฐˆ ๊ฑฐ ์•ผ ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ฒฐ์ฝ” ์ด์œ ๋ฅผ ์•Œ์•„๋‚ผ ๊ฑฐ ์•ผ.

5. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์— ๊ฒŒ ๊ฑฐ์ง“๋ง

He Lies to You ์–ด๋–ค ๋‚จ์ž๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋‹น์‹ ์— ๊ฒŒ ํ‰ํ‰ ๊ฑฐ์ง“๋ง์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ฑฐ์ง“๋ง ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ ์•ผ ์–ด๋”” ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ฑฐ ์•ผ, ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€, ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์— ๋Œ€ ํ•œ.

6. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ผฌ ์นญ์ฐฌ์„ ์ œ๊ณต

He Gives You Backhanded Compliments ์นญ์ฐฌ์€ ์•„์ฒจ ์žˆ์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ชจ์š• ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฒฐ๊ตญ, ๋‹ค์Œ ์ „ํ™” ๊ทธ ๋ฐ–์œผ๋กœ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์—. ๊ทธ๋ฅผ ๋ฌด๋ก€ ํ•˜ ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

7. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ชจ๋“  ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๊ธฐ

black and white, image, monochrome photography, darkness, monochrome, ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ๊ฑด๊ฐ• ํ•œ ํ—ค์–ด๋ฅผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋Œ์•„๊ฐˆ ์ผ๋…„์— ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜ ๋˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ์—์š”. ๋‹ค์‹œ ํ•˜ ๊ณ  ๋„ค ๋ฒˆ์งธ๊ฐ€ ๊ณ„์† ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

8. ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์„ ๊ฑฐ๋ถ€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค

wait,, just, realized,, don't, care., ์–ด๋–ค ๋‚จ์ž๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ๊ฐ์ •์„ ์ธ์ •์„ ๊ฑฐ๋ถ€ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ ์•ฝ์ ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๋Š” ์ƒ๊ฐ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

9. ๊ทธ๋Š” ์งˆํˆฌ ํ•˜ ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ 

facial expression, hair, face, person, red, ์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์ผ๋ถ€๋Ÿฌ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์—ฌ์ž์— ๊ฒŒ ์–˜๊ธฐ ํ•˜ ์—ฌ ์งˆํˆฌ ํ•˜ ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋‚จ์ž๋ฅผ ๋‹น์‹ ์— ๊ฒŒ, ๋งํ•ด. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ํ™”๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋ ค๋Š” ํ•˜์ง€.

10. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์— ๊ฒŒ ์ตœํ›„ ํ†ต์ฒฉ์„ ์ค€๋‹ค

phenomenon, screenshot, don't, too, well, ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ์•Œ๋ ค์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋ชจ๋“  ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋‚จ์ž ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ๋ฌด์‹œ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋– ๋‚  ๊ฑฐ ์•ผ, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๋ฅผ ๋– ๋‚˜ ํ•˜๋‚˜ ์žˆ์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋‹น์‹ ์— ๊ฒŒ ์ตœํ›„ ํ†ต์ฒฉ ์ฃผ์ง€ ํƒ€ํ˜‘ ํ•œ๋‹ค.

11. ๊ทธ ์—ฌ์ž Catcalls

He Catcalls Women ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์—ฌ์ž catcalls, ์™œ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ ๊ทธ? ์„ฑํฌ๋กฑ์˜ ํ˜•ํƒœ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

12. ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ฌด์‹œํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค

He Ignores You ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ํ…์ŠคํŠธ ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€์— ์‘๋‹ต ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋‹ค์Œ ๊ทธ ๋ฌธ์ž ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ์ค‘์ง€. ๋ช…ํ™• ํ•˜ ๊ฒŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ƒ๊ด€ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์ ‘์ด‰ ์œ ์ง€ ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ์•„๋ฌด ์ด์œ  ์—†๋‹ค.

13. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋ฌป๋Š”๋‹ค ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์™ธ๋ชจ๋ฅผ ๋ณ€๊ฒฝํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

He Asks You to Change Your Appearance ๊ทธ๋Š” ์ฒด์ค‘ ๋˜๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์œ ํ˜•์˜ ์˜ท์„ ์ฐฉ์šฉ ํ•˜๋„๋ก ์š”์ฒญ ์•ˆ. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์— ๊ฒŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋Œ€๋กœ ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ํ•œ๋‹ค.

14. ๊ทธ ๋ถ€ ํ‹ฐ ํ˜ธ์ถœ ํ•˜๋ฉด

He Booty Calls You ์ž„์˜ ์ ‘์†์— ๋Œ€ ํ•œ ์ „ํ™”๋ฅผ ๊ทธ ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ํ‚ค์Šค ํ•˜ ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด, ๊ทธ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‚ ์งœ๋ฅผ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

15. ๊ทธ ํ˜œํƒ ์นœ๊ตฌ ์š”์ฒญ

He Asks to Be Friends with Benefits ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ •๋ง๋กœ "๋‚จ์ž ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ์—ฌ์ž ์นœ๊ตฌ" ๋˜ ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด "์žฅ์ ๊ณผ ์นœ๊ตฌ"๋ฅผ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์— ๊ฒŒ ๋ถˆ๊ณตํ‰ ํ•˜๋‹ค.

16. ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋‚จ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค

image, screenshot, emotion, film, interaction, ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์œก์ฒด์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฐ์ •์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ํ•™๋Œ€ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ํ—ˆ์šฉ ๋˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

17. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด Blackmails

He Blackmails You ๋งŒ์•ฝ ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ ๋ˆ„๋“œ ๊ทธ๋ฆผ์„ ๊ฒŒ์‹œ ํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด ์œ„ํ˜‘, ์ตœ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ฅผ ๋– ๋‚˜. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์žˆ์„ ์ž๊ฒฉ์ด ๋˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋งˆ์Œ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒŒ์ž„์„ ํ”Œ๋ ˆ์ด ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ž๊ฒฉ์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ ํ•˜ ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ์ง€ ๋Ÿฝ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚จ์ž๊นŒ์ง€ ํ•ด ๋ณธ ์žˆ๋‹ค ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๋“ค ๋‹น์‹ ์— ๊ฒŒ?


๋‰ด์Šค๋ ˆํ„ฐ์— ๊ฐ€์ž…ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.

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