Need 17 küsimust ütleb teile, kui ta on, et mees te tuleks abielluda...
Unfortunately, most of your relationships will fail. Only one will last forever, and that's if you're lucky. To make sure you marry the right person, here are a few questions that'll tell you whether or not you're dating the person meant for you:
When you're around your boyfriend, you should be at ease. He shouldn't make you feel uncomfortable in any way, shape, or form.
2 Do You Both Want Children?
If you disagree on whether or not you should have children, then you probably shouldn't be together. One of you will end up getting your way, and the other will end up resentful.
3 Do You Want to Live in the Same Place?
Kui ta tahab elada Euroopas ja te nõudma Ameerikas viibivate, teil on probleem. Kui teil pole sama nägemus tuleviku, asjad ilmselt ei tööta.
4 Do You Trust Him?
If you're worried that he might cheat on you, you shouldn't be dating him. You need to find someone you can trust 100%.
5 Kas ta alati vajadusel teda?
Õige mees teile ei jäta teid kuivada. Temast saab sinu kõrval, olenemata sellest, millal või kus sa pead talle.
6 Will He do His Fair Share of Work?
You should be with a man who treats you like an equal. If he expects you to do everything around the house while he sits on the couch, he has another thing coming.
7 Kas ta kostitada austusega?
If he talks down to you or makes you feel stupid, dump him. The right man for you will make you feel more special than you ever have before.
8 Do You Agree on How to Raise a Child?
Even if you both want to have children, there's more you need to agree on. If you want to raise the child a certain way and he wants to raise it in a completely different way, you'll butt heads too often to stay together.
9 sa suudad oma sõpradele ja perele?
You don't have to love his friends and family. However, you're going to need to deal with them. If you can't stand them, then you shouldn't be together.
10 Are You Getting Bored of Him?
Relationships aren't always going to be exciting. However, if you're so bored of him that you're thinking about leaving him already, imagine how much worse you'll feel in the future.
11 Do You Agree on How to Handle Finances?
Kui soovite salvestada kõik raha eest maja üles, kuid ta puhub oma paychecks, kui ta saab neid, siis ei saa õnnelik. Rahalised vaidlused on suurim põhjus lahutust, tead.
12 Do You Resolve All of Your Fights?
On tavaline, et paarid võidelda. Siiski, kui olete võitleb ei lahenda, seal saab olema veelgi suurem probleem mööda teed. Sa peaksid ainult olla koos temaga kui olete suutnud kompromissi.
13 Do You Have a Healthy Sex Life?
Sugu ei ole kõige tähtsam maailmas, kuid see on kindlasti oluline. Kui teil pole tervislik seksuaalelu, ei saa terve suhe.
14 Is He an Alcoholic?
If he's an alcoholic or a drug user, you should think before you marry him. You don't want his dangerous habits to rub off on you.
15 Are You Both Ready for Marriage?
If you're not ready to take such a big step, you should wait. You don't want to rush into things.
16 Are You Madly in Love with Him?
Don't marry for money or because your parents want you to get hitched. You should only marry him if you're crazy about him.
17 Can You Imagine Spending Forever Together?
If you can't, then why would you want to marry him? It's supposed to be a lifelong commitment.
Kontrollige, kas sa küsi endalt need küsimused enne kui öelda jah ettepanekust. Kas arvate, et olete leidnud mees, mis sa tahad abielluda?
