** By Rita Wesley **
Have you ever looked back on your past loves and wondered, what if? I think I know every woman's the answer to that question, but lately it's been on my brain.
I've been in a loving relationship for a little over 3 years now, but I can't help but wonder sometimes, what if?**guy During college (5 years ago), I "dated" a guy who was then the hottest guy in school, we maintained a friendship throughout the years, well a friendship mixed with **I'm in love with you but we never sealed the deal. Well, now he is the hottest guy on the celebrity blogs and women all around the world are drooling over his pecks, and I can't help but wonder, what if I decided to be with him? What would my life be like? Where would I work? Would I be married? How much more fabulous would my life be had I been with him? Basically, What am I missing?
This question goes with so many other exes, the Harvard business school grad, the non-ambitious college boyfriend and the sexy lawyer I dated for two weeks. So, I say all of this to say, there was a reason why those relationships never panned out, and the reasons are too far gone to remember which is why I wonder what if.
As a message to all women out there, DON'T LOOK BACK...LOOK FORWARD. The man you let go years ago is still the same man with the same flaws you couldn't deal with in the first place, so technically you aren't missing anything.
Of course I'm speaking in my special circumstances only. So I would love to hear from the ladies out there. Do you ever wonder what if and have you ever pursued your curiosity?