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11 طرق للحصول عليه لمطاردة لك، بدلاً من لك تطارده...

تعبت من القيام بمطاردة جميع؟ لقد حان الوقت لتحويل الجداول يكون له مطاردة لك. كنت تعريف بارد جداً لماذا لن أنه؟! إذا كنت تبحث عن طرق للحصول عليه لمطاردة لك، هنا كيف:

Table of contents:

  1. 1-التوقف عن القيام مطاردة
  2. Pull Back
  3. Flirt
  4. Remember That Neediness Repels
  5. Be Confident
  6. Play Hard to Get
  7. Be Busy
  8. Have Patience
  9. Be Mysterious
  10. Claim Your Own Life
  11. If All else Fails, Cut Your Losses

1-التوقف عن القيام مطاردة

يمكن استخدام هذه الأساليب في أي نقطة في علاقة، من البدايات جيدا في عقد زواج. إذا كنت ترغب في تغيير الوضع الراهن وإيجاد طرق للحصول عليه لمطاردة أنت بدلاً منك تطارده، أنها قابلة للتنفيذ تماما. كل ما عليك القيام به إيقاف. وقف تطارده. قد يوجد نوعا من الجمود قبل أن يتحول المد والجزر ولكن إذا كان يهتم لك، تطمئن إلى أن يصبح.

2 Pull Back

في بعض الأحيان تحتاج ليس فقط إلى وقف ما تقوم به في مطاردة له ولكن تحتاج إلى إعطائه بعض المسافة ومساحة للعمل مع. التحلي بالصبر، ونرى ما سيحدث. فإنه يمكن بالفعل مثيرة جداً لرؤية ما سيفعله عند سحب مرة أخرى. الانسحاب يعني أن كنت تسمح له بملكه جمال أنت وأن كنت لا يجعلها تقع على عاتقك مسؤولية السيطرة على كل التفاعل والتواصل. قد يكون مجرد مفاجأة سارة.

3 Flirt

This is a very fun way to get him to chase you. Flirting is a great way to get his attention and make him want to pursue you. There are a thousand ways to do this, at least. You can tease him but make him do the work here. Most guys like the chase element of a relationship and tend to be much more interested when they are allowed to do that.

4 Remember That Neediness Repels

The average man does not like a woman that is needy. Making demands of what you want from him will not make him chase you and he very well may run. Additionally, whining to get the attention you want will be like nails on a chalkboard to him. If you think about it, when you see a woman that is very needy, it probably repels you too. No-one ever wants to be like that.

5 Be Confident

Your confidence is most likely the top personality trait that makes you attractive to your guy. There is something about a woman that is self-assured that men find irresistible. Being confident is something that you have to work at. Know who you are and know your worth. Make him work for the prize of you a little bit.

6 Play Hard to Get

This is an old, old trick but it is still around because it works. You don’t want to be too easy of a prize to achieve. Don’t answer the phone on the first ring. Make him wait just a few minutes while you finish getting ready for a date. Most importantly, have standards and actually be hard to get. When you do this, you will be the one that ends up with the prize, a man of integrity.

7 Be Busy

This one is to be handled carefully. You don’t want to be too busy. However, you need to have a life and let him know that you do. Letting him be your whole world isn’t good for him or for you. This will only make you more attractive to him.

8 Have Patience

Nothing happens overnight. Like I said, there may be a bit of a standstill before the tide turns. Patience is a virtue, my friends! Give it some time and you'll have him crawling after you!

9 Be Mysterious

This ties in with #7 (Be Busy). Be coy about how you're spending all your free time - let him wonder! If he's curious, he'll start paying more attention to you. Unpredictability is exciting and you'll have him going out of his way to chase you!

10 Claim Your Own Life

While you're waiting for things to change, take control of your own life. Now that you have so much free time, take up a new hobby! Start going out with your friends and just enjoy your life! Put YOU first!

11 If All else Fails, Cut Your Losses

Alright, so things aren't working out. If he hasn't come around, maybe he's just not interested. It's time to cut your losses and realize that you're better off without him!

There are definite ways you can get him to chase you. What tricks have you used to achieve this? I can’t wait to read your comments!

This article was written in collaboration with editor Vanessa Salles.


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