--- title: "8 Tips for Feeling Sexier in the Bedroom ..." description: "Sexy Underwear; New Name; Wear Buttons; Have a Bath; Theme Song; More ..." url: "https://allwomenstalk.com/8-tips-for-feeling-sexier-in-the-bedroom/" category: "love" last_updated: "2026-06-07" --- # 8 Tips for Feeling Sexier in the Bedroom ... Do you suffer from[shyness](https://allwomenstalk.com/10-ways-to-overcome-shyness/)in the bedroom? A lot of women do, but it’s really easy to overcome! I’ve been collecting tips and quizzing experts, and here are my top eight tips for unleashing your inner goddess and feeling sexier in the bedroom... ## 1. Sexy Underwear ![Sexy Underwear](https://resize.allw.mn/1028x0/filters:format(webp)/filters:quality(70)/content/www/2010/04/8-tips-for-feeling-sexier-in-the-bedroom/sexy-underwear_tips-feeling-sexier-bedroom_500x340.jpg) Photo Credit: [Vara P.](https://www.flickr.com/photos/vara-pappas/3523861854/) Get some[sexy lingerie](https://allwomenstalk.com/5-sexiest-lingerie-pieces-to-turn-him-on-under-1-second/) and wear them under your usual clothes. They’ll boost your confidence all day, and you’ll feel much sexier when he discovers them! ## 2. New Name ![New Name](https://resize.allw.mn/1028x0/filters:format(webp)/filters:quality(70)/content/www/2010/04/8-tips-for-feeling-sexier-in-the-bedroom/new-name_tips-feeling-sexier-bedroom_500x333.jpg) Photo Credit: [e|\[d\]|ge.](https://www.flickr.com/photos/kristibogelphotography/2449284081/) Think of a sexy new stripper name, like Delicious or Candy and use it as an alter ego. Don’t tell anyone about it, just use it to get yourself into the right state of mind to be sexy and to leave your worries behind and to feel like a confident [femme fatale](https://allwomenstalk.com/10-step-tutorial-for-creating-a-femme-fatale-look/)... ## 3. Wear Buttons _ Photo Credit: .nada_ Taking your clothes off when you are wearing a lot of buttons is a lot sexier and more like a sophisticated strip tease. Deliberately wear something that will take him a while to get off and you’ll both feel the tension and it'll make[him go crazy for you](https://allwomenstalk.com/10-ways-to-make-a-guy-go-crazy-over-you/)! ## 4. Have a Bath ![Have a Bath](https://resize.allw.mn/1028x0/filters:format(webp)/filters:quality(70)/content/www/2010/04/8-tips-for-feeling-sexier-in-the-bedroom/have-bath_tips-feeling-sexier-bedroom_500x333.jpg) Photo Credit: [obo-bobolina](https://www.flickr.com/photos/obo-bobolina/2970433334/) Run yourself a [luxurious bath](https://allwomenstalk.com/how-to-get-rid-of-stress-with-a-home-bath-spa/)and indulge in some gorgeous scented lotions. You’ll be soft and touchable, and just the smell of you should drive him wild! The best part is you'll feel refreshed and fabulous yourself ;) ## 5. Theme Song ![Theme Song](https://resize.allw.mn/1028x0/filters:format(webp)/filters:quality(70)/content/www/2010/04/8-tips-for-feeling-sexier-in-the-bedroom/theme-song_tips-feeling-sexier-bedroom_500x333.jpg) Photo Credit: [Ian Hayhurst](https://www.flickr.com/photos/imh/3297961043/) Choose a theme song, and play it when you need [some confidence](https://allwomenstalk.com/10-secrets-to-body-confidence/), even if it’s just playing in your head. Something like “Falling” by Alicia Keys will make you feel good! ## 6. Be Competitive ![Be Competitive](https://resize.allw.mn/1028x0/filters:format(webp)/filters:quality(70)/content/www/2010/04/8-tips-for-feeling-sexier-in-the-bedroom/competitive_tips-feeling-sexier-bedroom_500x334.jpg) Photo Credit: [mischiru](https://www.flickr.com/photos/mischiru/2900658195/) Whether you grab a tennis racket, a football or a game controller, doing something competitive head to head with your honey will boost your confidence. You’ll be surprised at how much of a rush you’ll get out of it and it’ll instantly make you want to play. So try a[new sport this spring](https://allwomenstalk.com/6-sports-to-try-this-spring/) and you'll be amazed at how much better you feel about yourself. ## 7. Flirt ![Flirt](https://resize.allw.mn/1028x0/filters:format(webp)/filters:quality(70)/content/www/2010/04/8-tips-for-feeling-sexier-in-the-bedroom/flirt_tips-feeling-sexier-bedroom_500x333.jpg) Photo Credit: [Konstantin Sutyagin](https://www.flickr.com/photos/cool-photos/2684794866/) When was the last time you[flirted with your man](https://allwomenstalk.com/20-flirting-rules-to-get-a-guy-you-lik/)? Flutter your eyelashes, pout and make him [get you a drink](https://food.allwomenstalk.com/these-drinks-wont-give-you-a-horrible-hangover/)... he’ll love it, and you’ll love the attention! ## 8. Forget Your Towel _ Photo Credit: crustydolphin_ Go for a shower, but forget your towel. Then call your man in to get you one, while all sudded up. Trust me, he’ll either jump in with you, or be waiting not-so-patiently for you once you’ve finished, and your confidence will soar, even if you feel shy at first. You’ll feel amazing once you’ve followed these tips, and you can use them time and time again so your[sexual confidence](https://allwomenstalk.com/7-ways-to-boost-your-sexual-confidence/)builds up. Your man won’t know what’s come over you, but I guarantee he will love it. Have you got a tip for building your sexual confidence? Please let me know! 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