There is nothing worse than spending months invested in a relationship only to find out that the guy is not right for you. How disappointing and disheartening! Instead of wasting your time on a relationship that is doomed from the start, use these clues to discover if your current man is “the one.” Here are seven ways to know if he is Mr. Wrong.
1. He Hates Your Family
Do you really want to spend your life with a guy who can’t stand your family? It is really important that he is able to get along with them and that they can accept him for who he is. If they don’t get along, you might want to reconsider. After all, isn't family forever?
2. Your Friends Don’t like Him
Your friends know you better than anyone. If they think he is totally wrong for you, chances are that they are right. Listen to their opinions and then take their advice to heart. Ask why they dislike him, and truly listen to what they say.
3. You Have Nothing in Common
It takes more than love to build a future. If you have no common interests, what will happen in a few years when your initial passion begins to cool off? You need some common ground to sustain a relationship, like a common interest in books, music, or sky-diving.
4. You Have Everything in Common
While some commonalities are good, it is important to have some balance. If you are too much alike, things can get boring. A few differences keep a romance spicy! Remember, opposites attract!
5. There is No Chemistry
When you kiss him, do you feel sparks? If not, you might want to think again before you commit. Relationships are about more than physical passion, but a little chemistry can go a long way in the long run.
6. You Have Major Religious Differences
There are some differences that you can get past in a relationship, but different religious beliefs can be a huge problem. If you stay together for many years, then it can cause a lot of problems if you worship differently. How would you raise your children? Can you find a way to get past this?
7. You Have Different Goals for the Future
If you want to end up living in the suburbs with four kids and he is dreaming of life in the city with no rug rats in tow, then you might have a problem. Can you compromise? Or are your future plans just too different? Make sure you both want the same things for your future if you are going to stick it out for the long haul.
These seven clues might reveal that your current man is Mr. Wrong. Take some time to think about it and decide if he is a waste of your time. For who wants to waste time when Mr. Right might be just around the corner? What are some other things that tip you off that a guy is not right for you?
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