4. You Left Him

So you've considered it for a long time and finally decided to break up. You told him and felt terrible and now youโ€™ve realized what youโ€™ve let go of. The most important thing is that you know what you want. If you arenโ€™t completely sure, leave him alone while you gather your thoughts. Do you want him back just because you miss having a boyfriend or do you actually miss him? Just remember that many people regret break ups right after and usually it's just a phase. But if your phase doesn't pass, contact him and ask to meet. Explain your reasons for breaking up with him and try to find solutions to the problems.

If you manage this, then talk about getting back together. If you canโ€™t find a way to fix the issues, the relationship will just crumble again and cause more heartache

Break ups are hard to deal with even if you were the one to cause it. Remember that you have to give yourself time to heal and overcome the breakupbut donโ€™t wallow. If you feel seriously sad, or unmotivated, discuss your feelings with a doctor who may be able to recommend medication or a therapist. Itโ€™s normal to feel hurt, but most people bounce back fine and even become stronger in the process. Every time a relationship fails, it teaches you something new and you are better prepared to start a new relationship. Do you know another relationship type, or a tip to deal with one? Please let me know!

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