Those who have been married for more than a couple of years can relate to this: it’s quite difficult to actually find the time to make love to your husband.
This is especially true if you have a big house and kids. In between PTA meetings, soccer games, your work, visiting your in-laws and all the other nitty-gritty of the household chores that you have to do, how can you possibly find time to have sex?
You can probably take a cue from Charla Muller. The name of her husband is Brad, and for his 40th birthday, she decided to give him an unusual gift - she’s going to have sex with him, every day, for one year. Charla thought that the ‘gift’ was original, intimate and memorable.
Her husband Brad did not think so - not at first, at least. For men who are in their mid-20’s, promising him 365 days of sex may have them jumping for joy, but for a 40-year-old husband? The idea seemed a bit unrealistic. That’s why to Charla’s horror, Brad declined the offer!!!!!!
It was only when Charla finally convinced Brad that the offer was genuine did he finally relent. Over the course of the year, she found out that her usual let’s-not-have-sex attitude before made her hubby feel rejected.
Amidst the juggling, scheduling and (gasp!) multi-tasking while having sex -which Brad was having none of - the couple has managed to stick to their plan of every-day-sex-in-one-year. And discovered a lot about each other during the process.
So what’s Charla’s advice for those who feel that they’re not having enough sex?
When my girlfriends ask if it’s healthy to do it once a week, three times a week or whatever, I just tell them to do it twice as often as they are doing it at the moment.
Their husbands will love them for it, and they might just find that they love themselves that little bit more, too. If they let themselves.
Now that’s probably the soundest advice I’ve had in years!
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Ugh. This woman has got to be exposed. First - how weird and creepy is it that she gave her husband a gift of sex?
Second - she lied. She didn’t actually do it for 365. It was a marketing ploy b/c 224 days just didn’t sell as many books in the marketing tests she did.
Third - she didn’t even write it herself. She had a cowriter push out a bunch of nonsensical prose after only 6 months of writing.
Fourth - she never defined sex. It could’ve just been a year of cuddling.
YAWN!