No matter how many times your boyfriend or hubby tells you that you’re sexy, beautiful and how much he’s really into you – there will always come a time when you’ll feel insecure about your relationship.
Especially when he’s flirting. Flirting with the opposite sex is something that both men and women are guilty of.
We cannot be all things to all partners. No one person can ever fulfill all the emotional, occupational and intellectual demands of our lovers.
But if your guy’s flirting really pisses the heck out of you? Do you immediately go the drama queen route and ask him “What the hell are you doing flirting with that girl”?
Do you wait until you’re in the safety of your own love nest to tell him that you want to claw his – or that girl’s – eyes out?
Or do you give him the cold shoulder until he freezes his ass off?
I would probably do one of the same, depending on the ‘heaviness’ of the flirtation, lol.
But seriously, we have to accept the fact that guys are natural flirts. This is especially true if they’re extremely sociable. When you see your guy openly flirting with the hottest girl in the room and you’re feeling a tad insecure – it’s better to go the diplomatic way rather than immediately putting him on the defensive.
Just introduce the subject casually and you’ll know from his reaction whether that was just a little harmless flirtation - or something else.
the worst thing is to put it on defense – it can start to be a problem soon
Well, there are many ways to handle this.
If you are on the verge of dumping him, you should grab this chance. Go over to them and say ‘Good luck with your spaghetti penis.’
ive had that problem. I was in the middle of the room dancing away at a party when a pretty good looking guy came up to me and started talking. flirting. some other girl came over and said “You cheating ass! We are over!” and i laughed and looked at him and said, “And we aren’t beginning, you effing jerk!” and walked away. so, if you were me, or the guy’s ex-girl, you should do what we did. it will work, even though hell probably just go look for someone else.
How about doing the same? Will it work?