Secret # 1: Men express their feelings through action more than through words.
When your boyfriend has a bunch of flowers delivered to your office, it’s his way of saying that he’s thinking about you. When a relatively new beau plans for a long weekend that you two can go together next summer – it’s his way of saying that he plans to stick around for a long time. When he has your car sent to the mechanic for an engine check-up, its means that he cares a lot about your safety. The cliché actions speak louder than words applies when it comes to men’s feelings.
So instead of waiting for an undying declaration of love - look for those little and grand gestures which show rather than tell you how he feels.
Tha might have been true like 20 years ago, may still be true in little suburb or old-fashioned towns but in the World I see ... See more every day “I love you” is said as you say “I want pepsi” by both men and women the same, it also happens that while I see most people become increasingly introspective towards their own feelings regardless of genre, I, a man tend to be much more open than my girl, in fact we are the bizarros of the genre stereotypes. At home, she’s the man.
1.Men are reluctant to talk because they’re afraid of saying something wrong: That is because women often take it wrong. We try endlessly to express ourselves with ... See more words. But just get cut down. And if we do express feelings too much we are labeled weak or too sensitive.
2.It’s a neurological thing: Maybe with some men. Men are usually thinking of feelings as well during this. They just do not express them easily as they think you will take it wrong. Which is often the case. Or you wont trust their feelings. Just because a part of your brain is larger, does not mean it is a good thing. Women are very emotional and react way to fast. Perhaps this is not a good thing to have in your brain.
3.Men express their feelings through action more than through words: action is better than words. Anyone can sell them self through words. And many women refuse to understand or trust the words of men. Mostly because they made the wrong choice in the man they were with anyway. Men can use words, then the woman will wait for the action to make a judgement. In the mean time, they do not trust the words.
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If a guy had written that comment, I would lament about how we never over-react but since you’re a woman, I will swallow my pride and agree. We can be drama queens ... See more when we want to :p
Contrary to what the article says, not all men will clam up because they think they are going to get in trouble (i certainly don’t), but for the most part men are more afraid of hurting women are closest to him.
While I don’t see anything wrong with emotions, I agree that there is something wrong when you let them control you and your actions. There ... See more has to be a balance of emotions and facts.
For Adam, maybe she’s not yet ready to talk because she’s afraid that she might end up hurting you more. Like me, I don’t express what I feel because I’m afraid that he might use it against me. Whenever he ask me about my opinion or what I feel, I just tell him in time, I will you everything but now. I don’t see the effort that I should trust him that’s y. The reason behind this is the past experiences w/ relationships. That’s y I am now more cautious. Give her more time, because the more u push it the more she will refuse to talk. Do the reverse psych thing…