5. He can make you orgasm, in multiples …
You’ve been with a few guys and some were hits and some were misses, but this guy hits a grand slam every time. He’s attentive, takes his time with your body and makes you feel like you’re the sexiest woman on Earth when he makes love to you.
The two of you are like a hand and a glove that fit perfectly into one another. And while some nights are gentle and sweet, others are rough and animalistic. It’s always something new when the two of you have sex.
4. He’s a strong, protective man …
No matter the situation, he will never cower into a corner and wait for the trouble to pass. He protects you like a gentleman and puts you first every single time.
Whether it s a guy who’s harassing you at a bar or strong winds that seems to be pushing you to the ground, this guy always shows you that he’s got your back.
3. He’s honest, even when it hurts …
Most guys will tell you they’re honest, but when it comes down to it, they’re just telling you what you want to hear because they want to avoid trouble.
The honest guy is the one who tells you the truth even when it hurts. He’ll tell you that you’ve gained weight when you ask and he’ll be honest about the fact that he finds other women attractive. His intention is never to hurt you, but to help you understand that the truth is not always a fantastic thing, but it is a necessary thing.
2. He prefers to hang out with you …
Given the choice of hanging out with the boys, his family, with you, or even alone, he always wants to be around you.
He not only adores you as a girlfriend, but he appreciates you as a friend; someone he can confide in and be himself around without worry. He trusts you wholeheartedly and enjoys your company immensely.
1. He’s always on your side …
You could be arguing that the world is flat with everyone you know and even though he knows you’re wrong, he will never take someone else’s side in public. When you’re out together, he’s your rock and will never make you feel alone or stupid.
He will, however, let you know he disagrees with you in private (see He’s honest). But when you’re out and about, there’s nothing you could do or say that will make you wrong in his presence.
So … Is he your long term boyfriend?
I can’t say that all these are true. I had a beautiful relationship for 8 years and he never remembered the little things. Everyone is different, they can’t all submit to the same rules, that is what we like about men. They must be different, important thing is that they will be there for you when you need them and show you their feelings with facts not words.
I’ve been missing articles about relationships, so thank you for this one! I can say my boyfriend is a long term boyfriend. We’re together since 2005 and to answer your question I’ll share some things following your list ;) :
10. He SOMETIMES remembers the little things;
9. He really tells me that he can’t accept cheating, and that in our relationship there’s only space for two;
8. Even if he doesn’t feel the need to be with or call his family everyday, and if he does like to party with friends, for him the concept of family is everything and he dreams a lot about having his own family.
7. Maybe humour is not one of the best qualities I find in him, but he makes me laugh, and his laugh is amazing!
6. He’s always there when I need him.
5. :)
4. He’s very sensitive, yet he knows how to make me strong when I’m feeling fragile.
3. He’s honest, but he sure says things just to please me when he wants something.
2. We spend a lot of time together.
1. Here I may disagree with you, because sometimes he lets me know when I’m wrong and gently tries to make me understand it. I don’t feel stupid, but I grow everytime he does it: it’s not good to have your boyfriend supporting you when you’re saying a great mistake ;) And also we both may disagree in public, I may be with a group of people arguing that the world is flat and he may be saying that the world is square =p It’s all about how you do it!
Sorry about my English, I’m portuguese :)
Mariana,
Thanks for sharing that :) That was heartwarming. Btw your English is great!
haha aww that was cute… i know a guy that fits these :]
Vanisha,
Awww! You lucky lucky girl :)
i think that these signs telling you that your boyfreind is a longterm boyfreind are true because it shows that he wants to be honest and not lie… and he wants to be a family man and i think thats so sweet!!!
wow! i read this thinking that it was going to be another one of those ridiculous things you read online about how to tell that youre in love, but i read this and every single one is dead on! Love it! this really helped me see what i have in front of me and what i have to look forward to! my new bf is all of these!!
Hey Jessica,
Thanks for stopping by! And congratulations on finding yourself a great bf :) Here’s wishing you tons of love and happines with him…
I had met someone who showed all the signs of really loving me and I took him for granted and wasn’t even all that attracted to him at first and then after I displayed lots of not so great behavior time after time he finally dumped me by saying, “I’m done, bye” Now I can’t stop thinking about him and want him back like crazy but he won’t respond to any of my calls…HELP!
Hi Jeanne,
Can you really blame the poor fellow? Anyway, like they say, hindsight is always 20/20. What you need to do now is a) figure out if you really want him back for him or simply because you miss the attention. Because if it’s the second reason, please spare him the heartbreak. But if you are absolutely sure that what you feel for him is true then try to win him back. Send him apologetic messages. If you know where he lives, send him flowers or write a letter. Just let him know that you’re really sorry. Beyond that it’s really upto him….