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4. Don’t fake it

While cultivating the same interests as the boy you like is great, you can’t fake it. As you’ve already read, one of the most important ways to get a guy to ask you out is to, above all, be yourself. So, faking an interest in football or pretending you’re also wild about video games isn’t the best idea. You can be interested in them – and interested in HIS interest – but don’t fake it yourself. That could come back to bite you in the butt later.

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September 30, 2011 at 2:33 pm Permalink
Denise says:

Hey, i Really like this guy his name is Ramon. He is in two of my class periods. He messaged me say that i look gorgeous. So we are starting to talking, but i want ... See more him to ask me out.. How can i get him to ask me out?

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- October 1, 2011 at 10:10 pm
  adri says:
  
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  he told me to lay on his lap when we were crowded
  
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- April 29, 2012 at 7:19 pm
  Sarah says:
  
  @Denise, Make him jeolous like talk to other boys or make up a boy and dont stop talking about him <3
  
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- May 1, 2012 at 9:56 pm
  zakiya says:
  
  you can tell him how you feel and ask him does he fell the same way
  
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February 23, 2012 at 2:56 pm Permalink
anonymous says:

i like this boy but i dont no if he likes me wat should i do?

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- February 23, 2012 at 3:18 pm
  rini says:
  
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  act like you like him give him secret notes and kiss him after all the notes are done or hug him
  
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- April 22, 2012 at 6:44 am
  anonymous.xx says:
  
  I think that you should just play it cool with him. Get to know each other a bit better if you don’t really know him already. and Be CONFIDENT it’s the best trick (but don’t be cocky)
  
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- February 23, 2012 at 4:03 pm
  Anonymous says:
  
  i had the same problem just flirt a little to let them know that you are interested but dont flirt too much
  
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February 1, 2012 at 12:17 am Permalink
Anonymous says:

its almost valentine’s day and i have my eyes set on this guy named Kevin. he’s a grade above me and i wish he would notice me. at school we have something called a singing ... See more valentine, and im wondering whether i shud send him one or not.(btw, im suuuuper shy when i comes to guys!!!!) also im wondering if theres a way to make him notice me.but he’s always surrounded by his friend and all these other girls… HELP!!!!!

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- April 10, 2012 at 8:38 am
  sophie says:
  
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  Theres this guy called craig w and he likes me but he wont ask me out and i dont want to ask him cuz ill sound desperate!(dont worry i can spell its just text talk )lol latz everyone!
  
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- April 8, 2012 at 10:58 pm
  Anonymous says:
  
  Well I think many girls are boy shy, it takes a lot of effort for a girl to tell someone she likes him. You could always send the singing valentine as a secret admirer. And ... See more causally ask him about it or have a friend ask him about it. Also if you really want him to notice you, smile or catch his eye every now and then. Sometimes they need to know you might be interested
  
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- February 1, 2012 at 8:33 am
  Anonymous says:
  
  same thing is with me!! even the guy i like is in the class above me and is always in a croud!
  
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December 20, 2011 at 1:32 am Permalink
crazed and confused says:

there is is this really cute, nice guy at my school i really like him and we’ve talked before but i don’t know how to flirt with him and i don’t know if he likes ... See more me his friend makes jokes about as and how we both like each other but i don’t know if he actually does and I’m nerves when it comes to talking to him i don’t want to look like a loser in front of him.

omg plz help!!!!!!!

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- May 19, 2012 at 11:23 pm
  Emily says:
  
  To:crazed and confused,I have a guy that likes me and he always jokes about how we like eachother too,so im guessing he likes you.How does he act around you is what you could think of.If ... See more he acts shy or if he talking to you and staring at the ground he likes you.
  
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- December 21, 2011 at 3:08 am
  Anonymous says:
  
  just be your self around him even if you act like a looser he probably likes it if you want to flirt i always smile at him and give him a peice of paper with ... See more a heart on it sometimes if i want to find out if someone likes me i make a quiz that says who do you love/like and it says list their name and that way i know but i think you should ask hhim if he likes you and if he says no then thats okay be friends he will come around one day
  
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- December 23, 2011 at 11:29 pm
  lexi says:
  
  you give great advice! :)
  
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January 17, 2012 at 12:25 am Permalink
Anonymous says:

So there’s this guy and I really like him but I can’t tell if he likes me, he flirts with me sometimes but I just don’t know what to do

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- May 6, 2012 at 7:19 pm
  alyssa says:
  
  help me
  
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- April 28, 2012 at 11:07 am
  Make Him Like You says:
  
  @Britt, If he really likes her HE will ask her out, especially if she flirts back and lets him know she is interested
  
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- January 19, 2012 at 9:08 pm
  Britt says:
  
  Flirt back! He is making it obvious that u should ask him out
  
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March 4, 2012 at 1:11 am Permalink
Anonymous says:

Hey, Im only 13 but I am crushing hard on this cute guy, whenever im around hime I can be myself, but the prob id i dont know if he likes me.. and I think ... See more he might have a gf!!! help please

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- March 4, 2012 at 7:52 am
  lize says:
  
  Let him have some freedom and show him you can deal with it and wait for a while to see what he does. But if then he still doesn’t want to bretray her or do ... See more anything, Tell him you like him, and see what happens. If he is like
  “I really do NOT like you” then move on. I know its hard because it happened to me.
  p.s: it sounds like he has a massive crush on you
  
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- March 5, 2012 at 12:58 am
  shayshay says:
  
  I have a crush a boy that has all mi classes and we are both 13years old .. I really lyk him he has dreamy greenish blue eyes he is always talking to ... See more me or about me ppl tell me i lyked him for about 7mnths i hve already asked him out he is always staring at me on valentines day i saw that i was sad and cheerd me up he made me laugh i lyked him and his frined and he knos but says he doesnt he dosent care wen i sad n crying he would be the first boy to say anythng he would try to figure out who made me sad then he said thnx n i love the teddy n u then i said wat then he said wat so wen we got to our next class he kept starein at me then he would look away n then he walked wth me to our next class n talked to me the whole way there he is always smiling and stareing at me i,thnk he may lyk one time he randomly got up and hugged me n then his fingers slipped n touched me on the butt it sort of crept me out .. One time some one caught us laghing n smiling at eachother an they said there goes mr.and mrs. Whyte i told mi crush tht it didnt bother me then he smiled and sayed it doesnt bother me either then ealked,into the restroom he,ws talking to his best friend bt loorestkin out the restroom at me he has rejected me before bt he said hell come bac for me wen his lookin for,a relationship he has gotten real mean he ws talkin bout then wen i pass by he he would i go out wth her… She is not the one and i say me then one day he said come n date me then i said kk lets then he said idk soo i just said okay and walked away soo wat do i d does he lyk me or wat ???wen the teacher talk bout mates he looks at me and wink what do i do it confuses me. For real plze help!!!
  
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- March 5, 2012 at 1:04 am
  shayshay says:
  
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  Bte he has abs that he let me feel ¡!
  
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March 4, 2012 at 1:08 am Permalink
Anonymous says:

So I’ve had a crush on a guy who is 17, 3 years older than me. He is kind, caring, much more aggressive than the other guys, and I like that. He ever told me ... See more about the girl he had a crush on, and he told me that the girl and I have a lot of similarities. They have known each other’s feelings but they decided not to go to a further relationship. We got closer and closer, and after couple of weeks, he told me that he had a crush on me, but he also said that he doesn’t want to betray the girl. He even kissed me on the cheek, but I don’t know if he likes me, because he also did that to some of his close girl friends. I don’t know what to do, and now I have no idea if he still likes me. What should I do?

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- March 5, 2012 at 7:35 pm
  shayshay says:
  
  he seriously likes u!!
  
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- March 5, 2012 at 6:46 pm
  Lora says:
  
  Just start a conversation and talk to him and keep flirting he will know almost right away.
  
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- March 5, 2012 at 6:47 pm
  Lora says:
  
  Srry wrong person. But wat did he say?
  
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February 23, 2012 at 1:40 pm Permalink
Jessica Sutton says:

I am going to try this tomorrow!! I realllyyyy hope it works! <3

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- April 10, 2012 at 6:14 pm
  sandi says:
  
  U did the right thing u could do better u dont need a guy like that never let a guy lay his hands on u ik it may be sad after u break up with ... See more him but its for the best
  
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- May 20, 2012 at 5:16 am
  Occe says:
  
  @sophie, Don’t go back to him if he hits you just talk to him about it and explain how you feel if he can’t control himself just forget about him and you,ll soon beige him :)
  
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- April 10, 2012 at 8:37 am
  sophie says:
  
  MY BOYFRIEND PUNCHED ME IN THE FACE OWOWOW BUT I PUNCHED HIM BACK IN A PLACE SO I BROKE UP WITH HIM I MISS CRAIG THOW (CRYZ)
  FROM ………….
  
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October 24, 2011 at 2:07 pm Permalink
demelza says:

hi i am in year 8 and iwould like a boyfriend eveyone says i am ugly wot should i d to get a boyfriend

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- October 24, 2011 at 7:16 pm
  Anonymous says:
  
  tbh JUST BE YOURSELF NOONE IS UGLY GOD MADE EVERYONE HOW HE WANTED AND IM 12 IDK HOW OLD U R BUT DONT TRY TO OUT DO PPL ULL FIND SOMEONE SOME DAY SOO MAINLY ... See more JUST BE PATIENT
  <3 MI ANSWER ASK ME MORE
  
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- May 18, 2012 at 9:17 pm
  Lyndsie says:
  
  Perfect response, I couldn’t have said it better myself!
  
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- October 24, 2011 at 5:24 pm
  SwaggerJagger says:
  
  I think you should show your lovable gorgus side and apply small and not very bright colors of make-up like peach lip gloss and light pink blusher with a golden eye shadow or mayb light ... See more pink with some mayscara. Then try and be creative and get to kknow all types of people and find a new you who is gorgus and kind then try and start meeting boys like if you see someone say on the bus alot or something who you quite like try waving to him or look at him till your eyes meet so he knows your interested and then keep going in small steps until you become firends and then close friends and then boyfriend and girlfriend.
  Hope everything works out! xxx
  
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October 13, 2011 at 7:01 am Permalink
Anonymous says:

i think the best way to get a guy to like you is to be their friend first try talking to him and look interested in him, then if you feel comfortable enough take it ... See more further and maybe flirt with him.

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- October 13, 2011 at 7:26 am
  anonymous says:
  
  But then you might get stuck in the friend zone. And you dont want that to happen
  
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- October 13, 2011 at 12:23 pm
  Denise says:
  
  Hey there. Thank you for adding your thoughts to the discussion!
  
  And I agree with what you said. By befriending the guy, you get to know each other. You also get to see ... See more if there is any spark between you and him. But like the other commenter said, it is possible to end up in the friend zone. I think you just need to be clear about your intentions….
  
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