While cleaning out my closet and dresser the other day I was posed with a question that almost made my heart stop. “How many of these things do I truly need?” Honestly, probably not a whole lot, but I love my things so I said “all of them.” I was lying, but there are some things that a woman most definitely needs in her closet and this ladies, is my list.

1. Nine West Marchelie Pumps

Price: $39.99 at ninewest.com
Every woman needs a pair of perfect peep toe black pumps in her closet. Really, they are a must have. You can wear them with jeans, with that perfect little dress, with that skirt you bought for the job interview…basically, EVERYTHING. Black pumps make your feet look sexy and these are just the perfect, most fabulous shoes.

2. Jessica Simpson Boyfriend Jacket

Price: $110 at macys.com

Right now, loose fitting things are in, shirts, pants, everything. But this piece will never go out of style. It’s the classic boyfriend jacket, related closely to the boyfriend shirt. Pair it with some skinny jeans, a white v neck and those oh so perfect black pumps that we were talking about and you’ve got yourself a dazzling little outfit.

3. Vintage America Suzy Hobo

Price: $111 at macys.com
Ladies, we all need one perfectly large, slightly oversized bag. Let me tell you, this is the one that is going to turn heads. It is GORGEOUS! It’s large and it will rule that space you call a closet! This is one handbag style you definitely need in your closet.

We women are amazing, aren’t we? We’ve come a long way in the past 30 years, and we’re confident, smart, and self-reliant. We can do anything! Not that we know HOW to do everything… but there are a number of things we should all know how to do, even if we never have to… here’s my list of the ten things every woman should know how to do… enjoy!

1. Change a flat tire

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Thankfully, I’ve only had to do this twice. It’s not fun, and it’s not as easy as it looks, but you really ought to know how to do this! First make sure your car or truck is equipped with a spare and a jack. If you have a flat, pull over somewhere safe and turn on your hazard lights. Loosen the lug nuts on the flat tire. Place the jack according to the directions (it’s different for every car), jack the car up, and then remove the loose lug nuts. Take off the flat. Put the spare on, and put the lug nuts on. Don’t tighten them completely yet! Lower the car back down, then tighten the lug nuts. Put the flat tire and the spare away, and voila! You’ve changed a flat!

2. Write a thank you note

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Sadly, this is becoming a lost art. When someone does a kindness, or gives you a gift, it’s a very good idea to send a thank-you note. It doesn’t have to be lengthy, or over-done. It can be simple, like, “thank you for watering my plants while I was gone.” Or, “Thank you for the beautiful tea-pot… I’d love to have you over next weekend so we can enjoy a cup together.”

3. Take a compliment

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This one isn’t easy, but it’s something we all have to learn. When someone compliments you, be gracious and say thank you. Don’t feel you have to explain… if someone compliments your shoes, you don’t have to say where they came from, or how little you paid for them. Just say thank you. And smile. And mean it.

It’s that time of the year again… Time to bring out new lists of course! As my gift to you, I bring to you a list of my personal favorite celebrities who are not only sizzling hot but inspiring as well. Either way, THESE are the celebrities to ogle at,admire and envy in 2010!

50. Christina Hendricks

With her ample bosom and sensuous curves, Christina Hendricks represents the league of few celebrities who are not afraid to embrace themselves as they are and flaunt it! Kudos to her. I’m loving the old Hollywood glamour she exudes….so classic and timeless!

49.Isla Fisher

Isla is an absolute cutie with a smile that can melt anyone! And considering, she has some best selling novels to her list of achievements, this hot young mom personifies beauty with brains.

48. Freido Pinto

I don’t know if all the hoopla surrouding Freida is justified considering her part in the movie Slumdog Millionaire was a mere 15 minutes or so. But I will agree that she is exotically stunning. And now having become Woody Allen’s newest muse, her future definitely looks starry bright!

Every now and then it’s good to make the people in your life feel special, and what better place to start than showing the woman in your life how much she means to you? Women are easy to make happy once you know what you are doing, and it’ll be well worth the effort. Here are my top ten ways to make the women in your life happy…

1. Appreciate that women differ from men…

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Have you ever noticed that her conversations take twice as long as yours? Or that she’s much more touchy-feely and nurturing, when you’re being logical? Or that buying shoes is a long process for her but you don’t see the big deal. Women have many differences from men, and it’s important that you keep this in mind. Remembering how she looks at the relationship, and what she expects, will make it much easier for you to keep her happy!

2. But remember that she is an individual, too!

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Some women will coo over flowers and chocolates; some would prefer a weekend in Devon or a motorbike ride.  Some want an unforgettable Valentine’s day while some see it as just another day. Some would love to be woken up with a continental breakfast; others want toast and a cuddle in bed. Knowing who your woman is, and what she likes, is really important with planning things that she’ll love.

3. Pay attention to her

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This sounds far too easy, but how often do you sit and really listen? Nothing makes a woman feel more special than being able to talk and knowing you are being listened to. Whatever she has to say, let her talk and really concentrate on what she is saying. Just remember that she might not be looking for solutions, just someone to understand. Be a friend to her. Remember, a good friendship is what every successful relationship is built on.

How many times have you heard that blondes have more fun?! Almost makes me want to put on a blonde wig and test the theory myself. I may not know how much truth there is to that but I know for a fact that when you are as hot as some of our celebrities below, it really doesn’t matter! Check out our pick for the 20 hottest blonde celebrities…

22. Kate Hudson

21. Ali Larter

Shade of Blonde: Golden blonde
True Hair Color: Blonde
Famous for: Her whipped cream bikini in Varsity Blues
What Makes This Blondie Hot: That body!

This woman is sizzling HOT with the kind of perfectly toned body that I could only dream of and still not achieve. Now usually women get hotter after achieving superhero status but Ali Larter would be just as sweltering sans that. Full marks from me! Here’s hoping to see more of her in the near future….

20. Nicole Kidman

Shade of Blond: Strawberry blonde
True Hair Color: Red
Famous for: Her rocky marriage with Tom Cruise
What Makes This Blondie Hot: Her elegance…

I know we don’t see much of her lately but that’s a good thing. Looks like Nicole is finally happy with her marriage. Who wouldn’t be with a gorgeous husband like Keith Urban and their beautiful baby Sunday Rose. Nicole is always so impeccably dressed, ever elegant, ever gorgeous …timeless!

What woman doesn’t love her fashion magazines? And what women doesn’t love a clutch? And I just happened to find the perfect accessory that combines our two love interests into one fabulous piece!

Ah! Tres chic! Don’t you think? I love bags and clutches or even clothes for that matter that have newspaper/magazine prints. It makes me feel eco-friendly in a way. Lame I know =) For the record, I do try my best to do my bit for the environment. Anyway, back to the clutch, I think this one is perfect for a nice dinner or a night out wth the girls. There’s no way you’re not going to stand out when you carry this around! And it’s an easy way to funk up any drab outfit.

Price: $76.49 at Asos.com

Damn! This clutch has me humming Lady Gaga now :D

So…you like?

I think a wrap dress is a staple for every woman’s closet. Infact I think every woman should have atleast two wrap dresses, one in a monochromatic color and one super funky one like this…

I don’t know if the fashion world approves but purple is always in in my world! I love the abstract geometric print of the dress. It would be great to cover up those…errm problem areas. Now I know that the color and the geometric print may seem a little loud together but at the end of the day, it’s all about the attitude that you wear it with. I’d wear this in a heartbeat! And I bet I’d make a few hearts skip a beat while at it. Ok now I’m just being cocky… :D

Price: $19.99 (It used to be $129!!!) at Ninewest.com

What do you think… garish or gorgeous??

I have to admit, I have read some funny stuff in my past about different things. Recently, I read a list of funny things about the woman’s clitoris that people, particularly guys, thought were true. Take note that comments are welcome, but I am not the one that came up with these myths, I am just telling you about them. Some come from words I have heard from people and out of books, while others come from blogs on the Internet. Below are 10 funniest myths about women’s clitoris that I have ever seen…

10. Girls Pee Out of the Butt

I had a friend for the longest time that insisted that girls pee out of their butts! He believed this one until he was twenty years old. Today, he is a certified EMT. Can you imagine the irony?

9. Girls Pee Out of the Vagina

Sure, this one goes with peeing out of the butt, but I have also read that they pee out of their vagina on a blog. I don’t know who it was posted by or how old they are, but you and I both know that they do not pee from there, unless they are…aliens?

8. Some Women Don’t Have a Clitoris?

For Real?! You have got to be kidding me? Oh, this is a myth. Sure, some have really small ones, while other ones have really big ones and the hood does not cover them. Every woman out there, unless they have been circumcised, which happens in some countries is the proud owner of a clit.

Losing weight is hard work, which is only made harder if you have no one to support you. The huge blog network has been the ideal answer for some, allowing you to write how you feel and get support and tips from people around the world. Here are my top ten weight loss blogs!

1. Token Fat Girl (screenshot above)

This blog has it all, tips, support, humour and the drama of finding out if she’s lost weight every week! The blogger is very friendly, and responds to all comments, so check it out and see if she can inspire you!

2. Fat Bridesmaid

This woman is hilarious, and her blog is very good. With posts ranging from her diet to which actor would play her in the movie of her life, she is defiantly worth reading. Cuddle up with your laptop and some chocolate, this one will be a book before long!

3. Fatty Weight Loss

This woman is trying to lose weight in a unique way – by mowing lawns. Follow her blog and see if her theory will work for you too!

4. 101 Reasons I Hate Being Fat

This blog is perfect for motivating me when I don’t want to exercise. The blogger is very friendly, and lets the reader into her life with such style that the blog is unique. Add it to your favourites now!

5. Diet Diva

Another very personal blog, this one follows a woman’s battle through the highs and lows of dieting. It’s very inspiring, and gives good tips on how to get back on track if you go wrong.

I have some things about orgasm you should know. The female orgasm, a lot like the female mind, is a complicated phenomenon and yes, it is hard to understand. However, you should pay attention to 10 things about women orgasm that you should know…

# 10

Of course, those good things in life will always take time. Studies have shown that women can take anywhere from fifteen to forty minutes in order to reach orgasm. On the contrary, a man could reach orgasm after only two minutes of being stimulated.

#9

Relaxation is the main ingredient to having an orgasm as a female. So, if you are trying to reach that ultimate feeling, just relax. Do not think about how stressful your day was or what you have to do the next day as this could only delay it.

#8

For women, it is possible to have two to three orgasms at once. It may be a road that is long to travel, but once you get there, you can make that journey well worth it.

#7

There are two types of multiple orgasms for women. The sequential orgasm is the one you have the most control over. This is where orgasms can be separated in two to three minute intervals. In order to have one of these, continue to be caressed and kissed after you climax the first time. Leave the genital region alone during this time so that the clitoris will have time to desensitize. After the breathing has slowed down a bit, start playing with the clitoris again. It may only be a couple of seconds before you have another orgasm.

#6

You have two spots. Women are able to reach orgasm after clitoral stimulation, or they can reach climax through the internal g-spot stimulation.

Sexy is the only way to describe the Boudoir Inspired look! After all, clothes created after the secrecy of a woman’s private chambers have to be seductive. Think boudoir and you will think of pinup girls with ruby red lips and corsets displaying ample cleavage.

Today’s Boudoir inspired look is all about blending lingerie like clothing with more casual everyday wear to get just the right amount of sexy without looking tacky or over the top. Too many instructions? Well just check out our list for the sexiest wearable Boudoir style looks. Stick to these and release the Boudoir diva in you…

1. Alessandro Dell’Acqua

2. Alexander Wang

3. Andrew Gn

4. Balenciaga

5. Bottega Veneta

If you’re a guy, chances are, you want to know how to attract a woman. A HOT woman. What can you do to attract a woman like that? Here are some things that celebrity hotties find appealing.

1. Be articulate.

In an interview with Elle, actress Megan Fox says she likes older men because they’re articulate, because they can hold a conversation. Make sure you can, too.

2. Be brave, bold.

Actress and humanitarian Angelina Jolie is attracted to men who are “adventurous, courageous, and independent.” So don’t be a mama’s boy! Get out there and be brave, be bold!

3. Be musical.

Actress and hottie Scarlett Johanssen is attracted to men who can sing or play music, and are passionate about it. So get your friends together, grab your guitar, and start a band!

4. Be a little mysterious.

Actress Jessica Biel is attracted to a little mystery. What girl isn’t? So don’t let us know everything all at once. Let us do some digging!

5. Be intelligent.

Jessica Alba is into men who are intelligent. Be well-rounded, well-read. Pay attention to current events and don’t be afraid to let us know how smart you are.

6. Be funny.

Jenny McCarthy fell for Jim Carrey for the same reason we all did — he made her laugh. So show us your sense of humor, make us smile, and make us laugh! Hot women need to have fun, too!

7. Be careful with your wardrobe.

Actress Kiera Knightley is attracted to men who wear good shoes. Yes, we women pay attention to details like that! So make sure to pay attention to your wardrobe. And once your shoes are outdated or worn out, donate them or throw them away.

We’ve all been there: you’re out on a date and the sparks are flying, but he’s not getting the hint. Is there a subtle, lady-like way to seduce your date? You bet! Here are some tips.

1. Smile a lot.

Smile a lot, with your mouth, your voice, your eyes. Speaking of eyes, look him in the eys when you smile at him. And lick your lips once in a while, too. Play with your hair a little.

2. Lower your voice.

Men prefer a woman’s voice to be a little lower, and a little quieter. Also, if you speak quieter and less nasally and less high-pitched, he’ll have to lean forward a little to hear you.

3. Touch him a little.

Brush pretend lint off of his shoulder. Touch his hand or wrist. But don’t go overboard. Subtle is better.

4. Dance with him.

Let him see you move a little. It doesn’t matter whether it’s a slow-dance or not… but again, don’t over do it.

5. Dress the part.

Dress a little sexier than usual. If you’re wearing a low-cut top, lean forward once in a while and give him a peek of that lacy black bra and some cleavage.

A first period often meant a girl was ready to be married and start having children. Nowadays, most families in most cultures don’t boast to their friends and neighbors that a daughter has had her first period. Can you imagine? I’d be pretty embarrassed if everyone knew such a personal thing! Most of us prefer to be discreet.

Most girls have their first period between the ages of 12 and 13. For some, it’s earlier, and for some, it’s later. I was 15 when I got my first period. My mother was very shy and didn’t really tell me what to expect, so when it happened, I wasn’t prepared. But here are some tips to help you be prepared when you get your first period:

1. Learn more.

If your mother, aunties, or older sister and cousins are too shy to answer all of your questions, there are dozens of books and websites that can help. WebMD in particular is helpful in answering detailed questions you may have.

2. Plan ahead.

Keep a sanitary pad in your purse, your locker at school, your gym or dance bag, and in your bathroom. That way, when you get your first period, you won’t have to scramble around and ask for one.

3. Have a support person.

When you get to the age you might start having your period, make sure you have a woman you are close to that you can tell, and in case you have any questions, or if you need more pads. You may be too embarrassed at first to buy them yourself.

4. Don’t be shy.

Getting your first period may seem embarrassing, but it’s completely natural and almost every woman does it. It is not the end of the world if someone finds out.

5. Be prepared.

Know what to expect your first time. Most girls assume their first menstrual blood will be bright red and a very heavy, obvious flow. That’s not always the case. For most girls, their first couple of periods are very light, and are a reddish-brown color.

6. Expect some discomfort.

Most women get cramps or experience some discomfort. A heating pad can help relieve cramps, and there are certain foods to avoid during your period.

7. Take some time out.

If you’re not feeling well because of your period, it’s okay to take some time for yourself, especially away from physical activity. For the first few months, until your body and hormones level off, you may need to skip the gym and try yoga instead.

8. You’re normal.

Most girls don’t have regular periods for the first few months. Some even skip a month after their first period. That’s normal, and after a few months, your body’s hormone level will even out, and you’ll become more regular.

9. Know when to ask for help.

If you bleed heavily, pass a clot bigger than a quarter, or if you experience severe pain, you need to consult a doctor.

10. Consider birth control.

This may be an embarrassing topic, but now that you’re menstruating, you are able to become pregnant, so if you are sexually active, you must consider your birth control options. Your doctor or Planned Parenthood can help you choose an option that is right for you.

Welcome to the sisterhood of women! We’re not going to announce to the world that you’ve had your first period, but we’re excited for you. Does anyone else out there have any tips to share, or anything they wish they would have known when they got their first period? Please share!

I love fashion books. There’s nothing better than reading a good book, especially if it’s packed full of amazing style ideas and fantastic tips!

Now that its almost time for a wardrobe revamp, here’s my top seven fashion books!

1. The Little Black Book of Style – Nina Garcia

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Have you ever flicked through Elle and wished you could dress like them? Or tried out a hot new style only to find that on you, it’s not as hot? This book will solve all your problems! It’s full of essential tips that every woman should know, as well as how to create your own style and feel good about yourself..it’s a complete style bible, and every woman should own it!

2. The One Hundred – Nina Garcia

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Need a little more than just a bible? This amazing book lists one hundred things that every woman should have in their wardrobe. As well as what you need to buy, the book will tell you how to wear it, what to team it with and even some great facts about that item! It even features illustrations by Ruben Toledo, and advice from Nina’s many fashion friends.

3. That Extra Half Inch – Victoria Beckham

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There isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t wonder how Victoria Beckham’s fashion sense is so keen, so I was eager to read this! Victoria oozes confidence and teaches you how to do the same, including tips on how to accessorize, what to wear on holiday and even the best outfit for the school run. A very practical but also amazingly useful book, written by the first lady of fashion herself!

4. Fierce Style: How to be Your Most Fabulous Self – Siriano

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The youngest designer to win Project Runway, Christian Siriano certainly has a lot to be proud of! This book teaches you how to look, act, feel and be fierce all the time, as well as documenting some of his own journey to his dream. It’s so inspiring, and teaches you to follow your dreams, as well as giving you a boost of confidence and telling you how to dress. Worthy of a place on any bookshelf!

5. The Style Strategy – Nina Garcia

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This is the book for women on a budget. Nina teaches that looking great isn’t about having money, but looking amazing without splashing too much cash. You won’t believe you can get such gorgeous high street looks on such a budget until you’ve seen Nina do it, so this is definitely one to buy if you don’t have an unlimited bank balance!

6. Style A to Zoe – Rachel Zoe

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With a client list including Cameron Diaz, Lindsey Lohan and Mischa Barton, Rachel Zoe is one woman who knows exactly how to dress others, regardless of the situation. Here she shares her best tips, including how to develop your own style, as well as home decoration and house party tips. It’s also all kept surprisingly affordable! This is an amazing book, which will have you looking like you’ve just stepped off the red carpet!

7. A Guide to Quality, Taste and Style – Tim Gunn

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Anyone whose watched Project Runway will recognize Tim’s name, and after the huge success of his TV show “Tim Gunn’s Guide to Style”, he’s decided to release his tips on paper. Whatever your age, style or hang up, Tim can make you look gorgeous, basing his solutions on the ten core items that every woman should possess.

So whether you want an all round style guide, style on a budget or the confidence to try new things, there is a well written and stylish guide out there for you!

Have you found a fashion book that has changed your wardrobe? Please let me know!

Today, you will find that the average woman uses around twelve thousand tampons during her life.

They are a convenience that allows freedom to be confident and active without having to worry about those embarrassing leaks.

You have to admit, the world has come a long way since having rags pinned into the undergarments or bulky pads. I wanted to write this blog, because I wanted to tell you 5 pros and 5 cons of using tampons for your period…

5 Pros:

Pro #5
Women have a tendency to find tampons more comfortable than wearing pads. With tampons, they are able to stay active, without worrying about it “falling” out of place.

Pro #4
It is cleaner. Need I say more? With a tampon (as long as you use the right size), there is not much mess to clean up and it does not get smelly like pads do at times

Pro #3
When you wear a tampon, you can go swimming. It is also more comfort compared to wearing a pad, so you will be able to play sports a lot easier.

Pro #2
When you wear a pad, do you know how it shows through your pants? That little line can be embarrassing. When you wear a tampon, you will no longer have to worry about those lines.

Pro #1
Last but certainly not least, tampons on easier to throw away than pads as they can easily be tossed into the toilet.

A pearl with its inherent romantic aura is a classic if you ask me. The right piece of pearl jewelry will instantly transform you into an elegant goddess and that’s what makes it a definite must-have for every woman’s boudoir. And if you haven’t found the right pearl jewelry for you, we can help…

We discovered Ladiesfair.com, a fabulous website that specializes in high quality pearl jewelry made of handpicked gemstones, each piece more unique than the next that are in tune with the latest fashion and are bound to bring out the elegance in both the gem and the wearer. Here are five of my favorites that I think every girl should own!

1. Akoya Pearl Necklace

Price: $1227.60
If this is your first time buying (or thinking of buying) pearl jewelry, I would suggest a solid classic pearl necklace such as this.Great quality Akoya pearls with a 14k white gold clasp which can glam up even the most drab dresses. Simple elegance at its best!

2. Akoya Pearl Earings

Price: $202.13
Ofcourse a woman needs those perfect pair of go-to pearl earings that she can wear on any occasion. And this pair fits the criteria for me. It’s simple yet artistic enough without being over the top. Love love love it!

3. Freshwater Pearl Bracelet

Price: $25.58
Affordable. Classic. Gorgeous. What else would you want from a pearl bracelet!

4. Tahitian Pearl Ring

Price: $442.20
If the classic white pearl is not your cup of tea, why not try something like this lovely and unique Tahitian pearl ring? I bet you’d turn a few heads and then some more with that beauty on your finger.

5. Tahitian Pearl Pendant

Price: $1225.13
Another stunning, adorable and stylish jewelry piece made of a single Tahitian pearl surrounded by 0.838 ct diamonds. Glitter and glamour all the way! J’adore!

What I like best about Ladiesfair.com is that there is something for every taste, mood and budget. There is no way that you will not find something that you like and on the rare chance that you actually do not like anything, Ladiesfair.com also offers you the chance to design and customize your own jewelry pieces. Now if that isn’t a great deal, I don’t know what is! They ship to any country across the globe except for those with custom’s restrictions. So ladies, please check out the website, indulge in this timeless gemstone and become one of their many satisfied customers….

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1. Someone Needs Help with an Ikea Table

This woman is not serious, right?

2. What is Wrong with Ashlee Simpson’s Neck

She looks like a bobblehead. Is she doing this on purpose?

3. Losing Weight Can be Painful

Some will even be willing to have a mesh sewn onto their tongue so that they’d stop eating.

4. Stalking in a Plane?

Gone are the days of good old stalking in a car.

5. Eva, is that You?

Can you believe that that is Eva Longoria on the cover (top image)?

If you know other weird posts to blogstalk, tell us in the comments section.

No matter how much we love the Internet, websites and blogs for women, there is still nothing that can compare to the old good off-line magazines.

The magazines you can crawl to bed with on a Saturday morning, not being afraid to spill your black coffee on or get your muffin crumbs on its shiny cover. The magazines you can take to the beach or just have it in your handbag so that you have something to do waiting for your friend in a coffee shop…

So, here they are, the top 10 women’s magazines that every fabulous woman would truly enjoy wherever she is:

1. “VOGUE”

Covers fashion, beauty, health, fitness, travel, entertainment and other areas of interest of today’s women.

“Vogue’s photography is exquisite, pure art. The glossy pages, the vibrant, sometimes muted colors, seem to jump off the page. The images make my mind wander and explore… ” – by Star Tulip from Seattle, WA

“If you want to know ANYTHING about upcoming style and fashion, VOGUE is a must have staple!”

- by K. M. Winick-Ford

VOGUE is undoubtedly the leading modern magazine on women’s style. The articles are excellent, photography is a sophisticated feast of a great taste, all of its 700 pages are blossoming with fabulous images of the finest clothes, accessories, cosmetics, and everything else a women can dream of. You will find yourself attending the hottest society parties, visiting studios of the best fashion designers, travelling to the most exotic resorts… Great read for every woman!

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We’ve come along way when it comes to sex, and we’ve come an even longer way when it comes to anal sex. Gone are the days of thinking that anal sex was something that only homosexuals do; nowadays, 25% of heterosexual couples engage in anal sex on a regular basis.

And while some of you may cringe at the mere thought of letting a penis into your butt, if you gave it an open-hearted chance, you may find that you enjoy it more than you imagine.

And despite what you might have heard or read, anal sex is not dangerous if done right, and it should never cause pain. If it does, either you’re not ready or your man is simply not patient enough to move in slowly.

If you’re still hesitant about giving in to your man’s fantasy of having anal sex with you, perhaps my shedding some light on why he wants it will help.

1. It gives us a sense of power …

Although it sounds very territorial, the fact that we control the situation and lay on top of you is very empowering. As well, you put your sexual satisfaction (or perhaps, lack thereof) in our hands, entrusting us with your pleasure sense.

Men love the idea of entering you from behind and relish in the thought of sparking all those anal nerve endings and giving you the ultimate climax. And if you enjoy it and reach orgasm because of it, we really do want to sit up and beat our chests with pride.

2. You trust us …

The fact that you’re letting us into a part of yourself that requires the utmost trust gives us a really fantastic feeling within. And no, it’s not just a sexual one.

If you’re nervous about anal sex and you agree to try it with us, it makes us feel like a million bucks; our woman is putting all her trust into the fact that we will be caring and loving and not rip her anus in two. It means the world to us.

3. It’s something new …

While vaginal sex is simply fantastic, to say the least, at some point, everything becomes the norm. So when the topic of anal sex arises, you can bet that our radar perks up a bit and we become giddy about the prospect of something sexy and new.

Like having sex with a new woman or engaging in a threesome , anal sex represents a part of all the crazy things we’d like to one day do in bed. And if you enjoy it half as much as we do, well it makes it that much sweeter.