Dita Von Teese says she’s not “friends” with her estranged (and very strange) husband Marilyn Manson.

Dita Von Teese may be ready to move on from her marriage to Marilyn Manson, but circumstances have kept the pair in contact. “We’re in touch,” Von Teese, 34, told PEOPLE Thursday at the julib.com party for the musical Wicked at Hollywood hot spot Social Hollywood. “We’re still married. We’re going through the [divorce] process but we are not friends.” “When I say ‘friends,’ I mean friends,” she explained, making air-quotes with her fingers. “But we don’t hate each other or anything.”

Von Teese filed for divorce from Manson, 38, in December after a year of marriage. Since then, she says, she’s been keeping busy with work — which includes performing as a burlesque dancer and promoting safe sex as a spokesperson for Viva Glam and the MAC AIDS fund.

I guess finding the creep having an affair with some other chick came in the way of their friendship. That’s a shame, really.