Size is Important so Make Sure His Heart is Big

By Annie ā€¢

Size is Important so Make Sure His Heart is Big

Happy to report, Iā€™ve been fairly successful when it comesto detecting men who have cheating or substance abuse problems.

And yetā€¦mean-spirited men have been able to fly right under myradar, undetectable until itā€™s almost too late.

First of all, Iā€™m a sucker for Mr. Dry Wit. So sexy. The problem is, wittiness, and awicked sense of humor in general, can allow some men to cloak things likeanger, hostility, and a mean streak a mile wide.

Next thereā€™s The Backbone Factor. We say we want a nice man,but letā€™s be honest here: weā€™ll lose respect for the guy if he seems even a little spineless, right?

So unfortunately, I -- and millions ofother women -- have occasionally mistaken ruthlessness in a man for desirable masculinestrength.

Last but not least, thereā€™s The Strong Woman Curse. If, likeme, you take (too muchā€¦) pride in being strong, then youā€™re more likely toconvince yourself that you should be able to ā€œhandle itā€ when a man with an undersizedheart plays rough.

And by playing rough, Iā€™m referring to things like:
ā€¢ making you the butt of his jokesā€¢ getting a kick out of being mean to youā€¢ complete and utter insensitivity to your feelingsā€¢ leaving you dangling when youā€™re feeling insecure ā€¢ withholding compliments from you, just because he can
Well, at some point I got fed up with ā€œhandling it."

There areother places in my life where I need to be strong, even tough at times. Butin a relationship, I now have to have the freedom to relax and beā€¦

ā€¦soft.

Instead of feeling all the time like I have to make my protective shell harder.

That's why there's nothing more appealing to me in a man (aside from a great sense of humor) than his big, throbbing.......heart.

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How hard is your protective shell?

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