5 Secret Rules for a Happy Relationship. Shhh!


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5 Secret Rules for a Happy Relationship. Shhh!

Ever since I was a little girl, I hoped that some day a Prince Charming will come into my life and we will live happily ever after. And he did! But the fairy tale has not quite started right away…

What I did not know was that between the first kiss and the “happily ever after” there are certain things a woman should learn in order to get that fairy tale rolling.

It can take months or years to discover them, so I thought I would just share this happy relationship secret with you, so that you guys do not waste your time and tears on something that would have never worked.

Back to the secret, here it is – the 5 Secret Rules a woman should follow in order to make her fairy tale happen:

Secret Rule #1:

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Tell Him Compliments

They say women like compliments. What they do not say aloud is that men LOVE them. And there is nothing to be ashamed of! When it comes to compliments, we all go weak in the knees…

Where do you start? Well, I am sure your man is great, so there should be thousands of things you can compliment on. Just go with the flow and compliment on whatever he does!

Something simple like “You always make the best coffee, sweetie” or “What a great idea to park here!” wil be enough to light up your man’s face. And the best part, is that we actually think that, so basically you just need to say it aloud.

Not only the compliments will make your man happy, but they will also serve as a nice way to change your man’s behavior.

My husband used to be a heavy smoker, instead of nagging him about this habbit, I would just say: “You haven’t smoked for 4 hours, honey, wow, I did not know you had such a great will-power!”. And guess what? He would always last for another couple of hours without a cigarette to impress me, untill he finally kicked that habit!

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  1. January 22, 2012 at 9:33 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    OH MY GOSH HOW SEXIST!
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  2. August 12, 2010 at 9:25 am Permalink
    mike says:
    Hey ladies … I am a 28 yr old man in a relationship and just read this article. I have to say that it made me smile just thinking about my girlfriend doing all ... See more of these things for me (and she does most of them). It does keep me happy and makes me recognize her feelings for me are strong (obviously if she’s going out of her way to do these fantastic things for me). I read some of the comments here and my grin turned to a frown. Its upsetting that most of you feel this is too much to do for your man. You should want to do it, not because an article told you to (I’m certain my gf hasn’t read this) but because it makes you feel good to do it for him. Obviously there should be reciprocation and do not let yourself get taken advantage of, but in a loving relationship these things are key.

    From a man’s persepective – great article. I can offer the opinion that these 5 rules will really keep your man happy and your relationship on the positive side of the scale. Good job Olga and congrats to your hubby on scoring such a great woman.
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    • January 12, 2012 at 11:29 am
      MPLSgirl says:
      Its not saying we wouldnt do them. I do them everyday in a heartbeat for my husband. Its the way it comes across. Like he wont stay with me or love me ... See more unless I can cook, dont wear sweats and feed his ego. I know they arent meant with that intention but I think you need to add in he should love me no matter what and do what he can as well or screw him.
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  3. August 12, 2011 at 7:43 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    i enjoyd reading this. i don’t think it’s sexist at all. i like how it doesn’t mention communication haha
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    • August 12, 2011 at 12:47 pm
      Denise says:
      Is someone being sarcastic? Hehe.

      Thanks for dropping by All Women Stalk!
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  4. November 6, 2010 at 7:11 pm Permalink
    Most of the advice is usefull only if the relationship is already in a very good shape.
    But the cooking advice is quite laughable, cos’ for example my man loves to cook for me! :)
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  5. January 12, 2012 at 11:22 am Permalink
    MPLSgirl says:
    I agree with some of these tips but how your giving them sound demeaning to women. I know I am loved because he thinks I’m sexy when I am comforable in my sweats. Sure I ... See more still want to look good for him but if you can trust him to be faithful and he can appreciate your crazy morning hair – it takes two for the good relationship and unless you have the right mix these tips are making a complacent housewife.
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  6. December 6, 2011 at 6:08 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    As a man, I can say this article is spot on.
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  7. November 23, 2011 at 4:08 am Permalink
    Happy Jackie says:
    Love it! Exactly in line what i am trying to do now with my partner… Something new for me though, since so far i’ve always been pretty selfish and always thought what the guy should ... See more do for me to get all the good stuff from me…
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    • November 23, 2011 at 7:36 pm
      Denise says:
      Hey Happy Jackie. I hope this helps balance out your approach to your relationship.

      Thank you for reading All Women Stalk!
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  8. September 26, 2011 at 11:36 pm Permalink
    anonymous says:
    noticed this was written “some time ago”, like the 1950′s? Can’t we come up with something better?
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    • September 27, 2011 at 2:40 am
      Denise says:
      Hi there. Have you checked out our other posts on relationships and love? Maybe you’ll find something that will suit better with you.

      Thanks for reading AWS!
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  9. July 24, 2011 at 11:52 pm Permalink
    kalashea Adams says:
    I just got out of two year relationship. I did all of these things all of the time and look where it has gotten me. Im glad it worked for you
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    • July 25, 2011 at 10:27 am
      Denise says:
      Hi there Kalashea. Welcome to All Women Stalk!

      Relationships are all different; people are all different. It’s not surprising for these things to work for others but not for you. Maybe you had deeper ... See more problems that could no longer be fixed by following the “rules” mentioned in the post. Whatever happened, I’m sorry that you experienced the pain of losing the one you love. I hope that you will find what you need to move on. Take care!
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  10. December 31, 2010 at 10:33 am Permalink
    Daniela says:
    great tips!(: thankyou and I do not find this sexist at all
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