While I'm enjoying some time off, I wanted to leave you with a thought.

In the long-run, in a serious relationship with a man, there are a lot of things about him that aren't so important. The color of his eyes. His height. Whether or not he can dance. The kind of car he drives.

But if he can be genuinely supportive when you're at the top of the world -- or at the bottom -- that's important.

Same principle ...