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Hey, Married Ladies!
This is my first blog that I am publishing… so I wanted to start a blog about marriage, especially second marriages and beyond… so let’s give this blogging thing a try!
I know that many of us are married, or have been married, some more than once. Every marriage brings with it it’s own set of, let’s say issues, circumstances, problems, challenges (yes, that’s a better word).
If this is your second marriage or beyond, I am sure that there are challenges within this union, which are entirely different from your previous marriage. No two people are alike, therefore, no two marriages are alike.
I would like for this blog to be a forum where we can share marriage bliss and woes alike…LOL
I would like for us to share, help and encourage each other.
Let’s give it a try starting with these questions.
What are some of the issues/challenges that you are dealing with, whether it is your first, second or beyond?
What are some of your successes?
What about those of you in “blended” marriages? How does your hubby get along with your children, and visa versa?
If he has children, how do you get along with them and visa versa?
What are some things that you and your hubby are doing to help with the smooth “blending” of your families?
Well, I guess this is enough to get us started. Let’s blog!
Lady D
Been married for 5 years on my second marriage although been living in sin with him for 2 years prior. He is 5 years younger and I would say that younger men provide more respect although I do, at times, wish I had an equal. He tends to be a bit immature mentally, but maybe I really prefer it to an older man(previous marriage, 4 years older). I’m in my early 40’s and haven’t had any children because I feel it would cage me. I’ve been satisfied without children, although I do have a step daughter. Being married a second time means that the third would be alot more easier. jk.
I am more mature mentally for my age and have expected too much from this second husband. Letting this expectation go, I find it more peaceful and things come more easily without the stress of expectations.
Met in high school. We were good friends. We dated and lived together for 4 years after graduation. Now, we have been married for 12 years. We have 3 children ages 6,8, and 10. He had gastric bypass surgery and changed into someone different. The last 2 years have been terrible. I found out that he cheated on me with one of his co-workers. We have decided that we still wanted to make our marriage work and we gave counseling a try. It helped me some but he was reluctant to follow through. We are now working through problems on our own. Talking is the key to feeling close to one another and staying connected. It’s gonna be a long hard road but we are determined because we feel like we are worth fighting for. We just got unconnected somehow in our busy lives.