Are you looking to find your Mr. Right? Your perfect partner? A man that you’ll love passionately, forever, and who’ll love you back even more?
Then there are 3 things you must know or must do in order to make sure you get him.
by Michael Myerscough
I’ve just came across this article, written by Michael Myerscough who is a 16 year veteran of counselling and coaching people to have great relationships, and I just thought that it could be useful for you too.
PS: the guy is the author of `Finding Mr. Right’, a book that guarantees you’ll find your man within 2-18 months, so this article contains some sound advice on dating – that’s for sure! So, here it is :
1. Get Clear on Who He Is
Let me ask you this. If you don’t know… what kind of personality he must have, what behavioural characteristics he must possess, what he must value in life, the keys to how he looks in order to be s*xually attractive, what do you think your chances are that you’re going to find him?
Poor? Very Slim? Worse than that?!
If there’s a key to success in anything (and let’s face it you know this already) it’s getting clear on your goal. Sound’s a bit clinical when talking about future husband material, but it’s a universal rule. If you don’t know what your goal is in anything you do, you seriously damage your chances of getting it.
You also seriously damage your chances of getting what you want when you get too specific – balance is the key, which should be mentioned. Most men won’t fit your pre-defined stereotype of the perfect guy that you *think* you want when you create it.
Also, women need to be sure they aren’t filling in a gap within themselves that they think this proverbial *Mr. Right* will fill in – at least not at first. Getting into a relationship because you think it will fix your insecurities, problems, or missing jig-saw puzzle-pieces of life is almost always a bad idea. It can cause you to lose sight of what you really want – and may not know you need.