Comments on: 10 Obvious Signs of Cheating … Is He a Cheater? http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/ The Only Women Blog Sat, 07 Nov 2009 01:31:53 -1000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-560381 Sheila Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:45:11 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-560381 Brenlee, I'm so sorry about your situation. If you ask me, no trust cannot be restored. If my man cheated on me and I agreed to give him a second chance, I would still not be able to trust him completely even if he's really changed for the better. The relationship just isn't the same again. I know of few relationships that have made it through successfully after one of the partners cheated. Whatever your decision, think it through. And put your happiness first. Everything else will fall into place. Good luck and be strong! Brenlee,
I’m so sorry about your situation. If you ask me, no trust cannot be restored. If my man cheated on me and I agreed to give him a second chance, I would still not be able to trust him completely even if he’s really changed for the better. The relationship just isn’t the same again. I know of few relationships that have made it through successfully after one of the partners cheated. Whatever your decision, think it through. And put your happiness first. Everything else will fall into place. Good luck and be strong!

]]> By: brenlee http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-560360 brenlee Thu, 05 Nov 2009 13:25:31 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-560360 benn together for almost 9 years we have a 4 year old boy and he also has 14 old boy my stepson for the last 8 years..........thought he was my soulmate we were happy i did everything i thought he wanted ive gotten a lil chunky 5'6 170 pounds mabey my stamina in the bedroom is lacking i thought i was pretty good igive great blowjobs and watched lots of porn, but still he cheated,i got him to admit to it i pretended i already knew something ive never done before he was fully free no checking stuff,no questions no dirty looks or accusations never, i trusted him with my life my soul my body i trusted him and now i dont hes says he wants me back, why should i believe, can trust be restored, mabey he was to free, benn together for almost 9 years we have a 4 year old boy and he also has 14 old boy my stepson for the last 8 years……….thought he was my soulmate we were happy i did everything i thought he wanted ive gotten a lil chunky 5′6 170 pounds mabey my stamina in the bedroom is lacking i thought i was pretty good igive great blowjobs and watched lots of porn, but still he cheated,i got him to admit to it i pretended i already knew something ive never done before he was fully free no checking stuff,no questions no dirty looks or accusations never, i trusted him with my life my soul my body i trusted him and now i dont hes says he wants me back, why should i believe, can trust be restored, mabey he was to free,

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-559792 Sheila Sun, 01 Nov 2009 06:24:53 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-559792 SS, You can't really conclude that he's cheating because of one random episode. So let's look at this objectively. He ignores you a lot. There's been little to no sex in the past 6 years. But apart from today's episode, have there been other instances where he goes missing or remains unreachable for many hours? Maybe he's just depressed with his life. Maybe you both need counselling. Just because he's distant doesn't mean he's cheating. What you need to do is try and talk to him before trying to catch him cheating. But if you still want to go ahead, let me tell you what I would do. I would spy my ass off. His computer (history, emails, social netowrking sites), cellphone (messages and phonecalls)... I wouldn't go to the extend of following him around but I remember reading that in a book. This woman suspects her husband of cheating on her. So she and her best friend hire a car and follow him around till they catch him red handed. Give him surprises. Say you're going out to do something. But return early. See if that catches him offguard. Alright I'm out :) Just remember that your instinct is your best friend in these situations. Good luck and keep us posted. xoxo SS,
You can’t really conclude that he’s cheating because of one random episode. So let’s look at this objectively. He ignores you a lot. There’s been little to no sex in the past 6 years. But apart from today’s episode, have there been other instances where he goes missing or remains unreachable for many hours? Maybe he’s just depressed with his life. Maybe you both need counselling. Just because he’s distant doesn’t mean he’s cheating. What you need to do is try and talk to him before trying to catch him cheating.
But if you still want to go ahead, let me tell you what I would do. I would spy my ass off. His computer (history, emails, social netowrking sites), cellphone (messages and phonecalls)… I wouldn’t go to the extend of following him around but I remember reading that in a book. This woman suspects her husband of cheating on her. So she and her best friend hire a car and follow him around till they catch him red handed. Give him surprises. Say you’re going out to do something. But return early. See if that catches him offguard. Alright I’m out :) Just remember that your instinct is your best friend in these situations. Good luck and keep us posted.
xoxo

]]> By: SS http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-559774 SS Sun, 01 Nov 2009 02:47:49 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-559774 My husband acts really weird. Here it is Halloween night. First of all he ignores me all the time. He stays on the computer, playing poker and sometimes I have even caught him looking at porn. Nothing has went on here since our child was born in '03. He is a diabetic and says he can't do anything. Well tonite, when we get back from Trick or Treating, his car is gone, he says he had only been gone 10 minutes, then he says he gets halfway to his job and they call him and tell him that whatever was torn up got fixed. I think it's a likely story. I need some insight here. I need to know how to catch him if he is cheating! The bad part is I have a 6 year old child and no job to support us with. My husband acts really weird. Here it is Halloween night. First of all he ignores me all the time. He stays on the computer, playing poker and sometimes I have even caught him looking at porn. Nothing has went on here since our child was born in ‘03. He is a diabetic and says he can’t do anything. Well tonite, when we get back from Trick or Treating, his car is gone, he says he had only been gone 10 minutes, then he says he gets halfway to his job and they call him and tell him that whatever was torn up got fixed. I think it’s a likely story. I need some insight here. I need to know how to catch him if he is cheating! The bad part is I have a 6 year old child and no job to support us with.

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-559450 Sheila Thu, 29 Oct 2009 09:00:37 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-559450 Raelisha, Unless he has a really good reason for crawling through a bedroom window, leave him and flee! Hopefully you have spoken to him by now and hopefully he's admitted to having cheated on you. I don't see any other explanation for his behaviour. ANd like you said, you may love him but once a cheater always a cheater! You canot be with him....not after he's put you through this. Thank your stars that you found out now rather than later. Good luck with him sweetheart. I hope you find the strength to do the right thing. Raelisha,
Unless he has a really good reason for crawling through a bedroom window, leave him and flee! Hopefully you have spoken to him by now and hopefully he’s admitted to having cheated on you. I don’t see any other explanation for his behaviour. ANd like you said, you may love him but once a cheater always a cheater! You canot be with him….not after he’s put you through this. Thank your stars that you found out now rather than later. Good luck with him sweetheart. I hope you find the strength to do the right thing.

]]> By: Raelisha http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-559274 Raelisha Wed, 28 Oct 2009 07:25:29 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-559274 My boyfriend and i have be together for a year and 5 months. Just recently we moved in together and started talking a bout a family. Abut two months after we were all moved in I started reciving phone calls from a lady who says she use to be with my boyfriend and says whenever she calls him he comes over. I told her things had changed and we were in love. So two weeks later we drive down to the city to vist friends and family members. He tells me he's gonna stay down in the city for a couple days. He knows i cant stay because i have to go to work. I pay all the bills in our home. So I figured it would be cool to get some alone time to my self. He stayed in the city all week. When the weekend came around i decided to surprise him and drive down to the city. When i arrived he made a whole big scene asking me why i was here, dont i have to work, i dont have any reasons being down here and so on. I was really up set and hurt because we're nrver apart and for us to not have seen eachother all week was just hard for me. We ended up talking for 5 minutes and we both went a did our own thing it was friday night he was with his "guy friends" and i was with my girls. So i wanted to worry him a lil bit by staying out till 3 am. We gave eachother i set time to curfew when not with eachother. When i got home to my mothers house (where we stay when we in the cityP he was not there s o waited up and waited uo for almost 3 hours he never came home till the next day at 11 am. I didnt want to look at him touch him nothing and i was still sleepy from waiting up all night. We didnt talk that whole day. Later that day i left with my sisters to hang out i came back to my mothers it was almost 10 pm and he was not there and once agian he didnt come home till 11 am. Only this time i was there to catch him. My oldest sister went into labor at 430 am and he wasnt home when i left to the hospital. A neighboor caught him crawling through one of the bed room windows. Im waiting for him as i write this to talk to him but im not sure if whats going on edvidence on cheating. I'm very much in love with him we live together and that was a big step for me. We even be shopping around for wedding rings. I dont want my relationship to end but i dont want to be with a cheater. Please give me some advice on what to do! My boyfriend and i have be together for a year and 5 months. Just recently we moved in together and started talking a bout a family. Abut two months after we were all moved in I started reciving phone calls from a lady who says she use to be with my boyfriend and says whenever she calls him he comes over. I told her things had changed and we were in love. So two weeks later we drive down to the city to vist friends and family members. He tells me he’s gonna stay down in the city for a couple days. He knows i cant stay because i have to go to work. I pay all the bills in our home. So I figured it would be cool to get some alone time to my self. He stayed in the city all week. When the weekend came around i decided to surprise him and drive down to the city. When i arrived he made a whole big scene asking me why i was here, dont i have to work, i dont have any reasons being down here and so on. I was really up set and hurt because we’re nrver apart and for us to not have seen eachother all week was just hard for me. We ended up talking for 5 minutes and we both went a did our own thing it was friday night he was with his “guy friends” and i was with my girls. So i wanted to worry him a lil bit by staying out till 3 am. We gave eachother i set time to curfew when not with eachother. When i got home to my mothers house (where we stay when we in the cityP he was not there s o waited up and waited uo for almost 3 hours he never came home till the next day at 11 am. I didnt want to look at him touch him nothing and i was still sleepy from waiting up all night. We didnt talk that whole day. Later that day i left with my sisters to hang out i came back to my mothers it was almost 10 pm and he was not there and once agian he didnt come home till 11 am. Only this time i was there to catch him. My oldest sister went into labor at 430 am and he wasnt home when i left to the hospital. A neighboor caught him crawling through one of the bed room windows. Im waiting for him as i write this to talk to him but im not sure if whats going on edvidence on cheating. I’m very much in love with him we live together and that was a big step for me. We even be shopping around for wedding rings. I dont want my relationship to end but i dont want to be with a cheater. Please give me some advice on what to do!

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-557772 Sheila Sun, 18 Oct 2009 04:57:12 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-557772 Madeleine, Your instinct is always always your best friend. The only problem is we don't always listen to it because we're afraid of what we might find out. I hope that guy is out of your life now .... Madeleine,
Your instinct is always always your best friend. The only problem is we don’t always listen to it because we’re afraid of what we might find out. I hope that guy is out of your life now ….

]]> By: madeleine http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-557686 madeleine Sat, 17 Oct 2009 12:40:38 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-557686 my god, it's so obvious now! i found out about the cheating after 6 months of being with him and now i remember that i kept dismissing these kind of signs all along. girls always trust your instincts! jesus christ, what a prick he was. my god, it’s so obvious now! i found out about the cheating after 6 months of being with him and now i remember that i kept dismissing these kind of signs all along. girls always trust your instincts! jesus christ, what a prick he was.

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-554478 Sheila Wed, 07 Oct 2009 10:43:00 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-554478 Mommyof4, I've always thought that men need a little "alone time" because that's just them I guess. But I would restrict it to ocassional porn. The fact that he's addicted to it and talking dirty to other women online and all of that is definitely NOT acceptable. He needs to be there for you now more than ever! Even if he's afraid of physically hurting you and doesn't want to have sex, he should respect you enough to not go out there looking. I am no expert but you both need some serious counselling! You should refuse to put up with his behaviour. It's unacceptable and sad. Mommyof4,
I’ve always thought that men need a little “alone time” because that’s just them I guess. But I would restrict it to ocassional porn. The fact that he’s addicted to it and talking dirty to other women online and all of that is definitely NOT acceptable. He needs to be there for you now more than ever! Even if he’s afraid of physically hurting you and doesn’t want to have sex, he should respect you enough to not go out there looking. I am no expert but you both need some serious counselling! You should refuse to put up with his behaviour. It’s unacceptable and sad.

]]> By: mommyof4 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-554230 mommyof4 Wed, 07 Oct 2009 00:19:20 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-554230 My husband and I have been married for 2 years. I had 2 girls before we got married. We had a little boy last year that didn't make it thru pregnancy. We are pregnant right now with a little girl. 35 weeks actually. I understand that he doesn't want to physically hurt me and he's scared about the miscarriage that we had last year, but we have had no problems with this pregnancy. He has an addiction to porn and every time I find it on the search bar online he doesn't deny it. I even changed the password to the computer and he kept trying to figure it out. Finally he did. I cry every time because it upsets me so much that he doesn't have the respect that I think he should for me. He just says that he loves me and only me and doesn't want to be with anyone else. This happened last year too. Only then, he was actually having dirty conversations with girls online. We were separated for months and have gone thru marriage counseling for a year now. If this only happened while I was pregnant, I would understand that maybe he doesn't find me attractive and this weight...but his past girlfriends weighed more than I do now. I just don't understand why he would want to look at that stuff when pregnant or not, I constantly throw myself at him. He got me pregnant, so why all of a sudden am I a huge turn-off? Please help me. My husband and I have been married for 2 years. I had 2 girls before we got married. We had a little boy last year that didn’t make it thru pregnancy. We are pregnant right now with a little girl. 35 weeks actually. I understand that he doesn’t want to physically hurt me and he’s scared about the miscarriage that we had last year, but we have had no problems with this pregnancy. He has an addiction to porn and every time I find it on the search bar online he doesn’t deny it. I even changed the password to the computer and he kept trying to figure it out. Finally he did. I cry every time because it upsets me so much that he doesn’t have the respect that I think he should for me. He just says that he loves me and only me and doesn’t want to be with anyone else. This happened last year too. Only then, he was actually having dirty conversations with girls online. We were separated for months and have gone thru marriage counseling for a year now. If this only happened while I was pregnant, I would understand that maybe he doesn’t find me attractive and this weight…but his past girlfriends weighed more than I do now. I just don’t understand why he would want to look at that stuff when pregnant or not, I constantly throw myself at him. He got me pregnant, so why all of a sudden am I a huge turn-off? Please help me.

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-551964 Sheila Mon, 28 Sep 2009 23:09:08 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-551964 Hey Marsha, I'm sorry sweetheart but I think your boyfriend is a little bit of a jerk. If you ask me, he most definitely is cheating. I am never one to believe that people can change. Once a cheater. Always a cheater. And i know you'd rather not know the truth but part of why you're afraid to ask him is because you already know the answer. Please confront him. For your sake...for the sake of your baby and your future. Hey Marsha,

I’m sorry sweetheart but I think your boyfriend is a little bit of a jerk. If you ask me, he most definitely is cheating. I am never one to believe that people can change. Once a cheater. Always a cheater. And i know you’d rather not know the truth but part of why you’re afraid to ask him is because you already know the answer. Please confront him. For your sake…for the sake of your baby and your future.

]]> By: marsha http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-551638 marsha Sun, 27 Sep 2009 07:27:30 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-551638 I am pregnant--due next month and my boyfriend and i are very excited. Well, my concern is that--i have a gut feeling that he's cheating. the feeling has gotten lighter because he's done this before. i feel like it's expected. I have not confronted im of this. Nonetheless, i have confronted him on his past infedilities. He had a dating profile on adult friend finder, an ad on craigslist, and one on sexsearch .com. This all happened earlier this year up until july/ I have confronted him on all accounts and he has denied them all. now--i give him his space, so i would not stress and track his every move. it draines me. I work really odd hours and he is in school online which gives him reasons to be on the computer. when i'm sleeping, he gets up and go to the computer or while i'm sleeping he leaves and says he's checking his mailbox. we live together and he have another mailbox. i am so afraid of confronting him because i'm think i may be right and don't know what i'll do. what do you guys think----is he cheating. I am pregnant–due next month and my boyfriend and i are very excited. Well, my concern is that–i have a gut feeling that he’s cheating. the feeling has gotten lighter because he’s done this before. i feel like it’s expected. I have not confronted im of this. Nonetheless, i have confronted him on his past infedilities. He had a dating profile on adult friend finder, an ad on craigslist, and one on sexsearch .com. This all happened earlier this year up until july/ I have confronted him on all accounts and he has denied them all. now–i give him his space, so i would not stress and track his every move. it draines me. I work really odd hours and he is in school online which gives him reasons to be on the computer. when i’m sleeping, he gets up and go to the computer or while i’m sleeping he leaves and says he’s checking his mailbox. we live together and he have another mailbox. i am so afraid of confronting him because i’m think i may be right and don’t know what i’ll do. what do you guys think—-is he cheating.

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-551572 Sheila Sat, 26 Sep 2009 22:38:28 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-551572 Camilla, You need to get out of that relationship NOW! Since when is it okay to go out partying with strangers and not come home till the next day? If your instinct says he's cheating on you, he probably is! And even if he isn't, I don't think you should be with him. He doesn't seem to have much respect for you. That's just me... Camilla,
You need to get out of that relationship NOW! Since when is it okay to go out partying with strangers and not come home till the next day? If your instinct says he’s cheating on you, he probably is! And even if he isn’t, I don’t think you should be with him. He doesn’t seem to have much respect for you. That’s just me…

]]> By: camilla http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-551400 camilla Fri, 25 Sep 2009 22:39:30 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-551400 Im currently in a relationship and suspect my boyfriend might be cheating. What worries me is that I can't seem to shake off this feeling. He asks women out under the pretext of 'business'. When i ask him about he say its just business, but he hardly knows these women let alone their career paths to be discussing business with him. Then he takes out other women for lunch and partying and only comes home the next day... Im currently in a relationship and suspect my boyfriend might be cheating. What worries me is that I can’t seem to shake off this feeling. He asks women out under the pretext of ‘business’. When i ask him about he say its just business, but he hardly knows these women let alone their career paths to be discussing business with him. Then he takes out other women for lunch and partying and only comes home the next day…

]]> By: mike http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-549528 mike Fri, 18 Sep 2009 04:36:35 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-549528 from a males perspective, if your suspicious and you ask him where he has been, when he tells you, read his body language closely. if he is blinking a lot, looking away, seems as if he is making the story up as he goes along, he is clearly trying to hide something big from you... i might only been 15 but im old enough to know that when your partner is cheating on you, there are many easy ways to find out just through their body language. from a males perspective, if your suspicious and you ask him where he has been, when he tells you, read his body language closely. if he is blinking a lot, looking away, seems as if he is making the story up as he goes along, he is clearly trying to hide something big from you… i might only been 15 but im old enough to know that when your partner is cheating on you, there are many easy ways to find out just through their body language.

]]> By: Olga Moore http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-548435 Olga Moore Tue, 15 Sep 2009 07:44:58 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-548435 to Brandy: Oh, my gosh, I am so sorry to hear this... It's very sad you are having health problems... And looks like your husband is not doing much to support you. Cheating with your sister on you and then again - with your friend? I think it's just too much. If I were you I'd have broken this off the first time I knew he was cheating on me. He doesn't sounds like a good guy and a caring husband, so do you really need a person like that in your life? A person you can not even trust? You have enough problems to deal with at the moment, except worrying about wether your hubby's cheating on you. So, sweetie, save yourself time and trouble and leave the guy, he's so not worth it. I am sure you'll find another man, a good man, and it'll happen very soon, but first you need to end this relationship. You need to stop thinking about him for once and start thinking about yourself. About your health. It must be now all about you. Not him, not anybody else. You are worrying sick over someone who so doesn't even deserve you... Please, concentrate on yourself for the moment. You'll get well and you'll meet a man who'll love and respect you and the two of you will be happy. The marriage where you constantly worry about the partner cheating on you, even if it's false, is not worth it. Get well! to Brandy:

Oh, my gosh, I am so sorry to hear this… It’s very sad you are having health problems… And looks like your husband is not doing much to support you. Cheating with your sister on you and then again – with your friend? I think it’s just too much. If I were you I’d have broken this off the first time I knew he was cheating on me. He doesn’t sounds like a good guy and a caring husband, so do you really need a person like that in your life? A person you can not even trust? You have enough problems to deal with at the moment, except worrying about wether your hubby’s cheating on you. So, sweetie, save yourself time and trouble and leave the guy, he’s so not worth it.

I am sure you’ll find another man, a good man, and it’ll happen very soon, but first you need to end this relationship.

You need to stop thinking about him for once and start thinking about yourself. About your health. It must be now all about you. Not him, not anybody else. You are worrying sick over someone who so doesn’t even deserve you…

Please, concentrate on yourself for the moment. You’ll get well and you’ll meet a man who’ll love and respect you and the two of you will be happy.

The marriage where you constantly worry about the partner cheating on you, even if it’s false, is not worth it.

Get well!

]]> By: Brandy http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-548179 Brandy Mon, 14 Sep 2009 17:54:44 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-548179 I have an illness and i have been hospitalized several times for it. I was diagnosed feb 2005 and 4 months later my husband cheated on me with my sister. We were separated and then decided to work thhings out. and in sept of 08 we had a baby and my illness relapsed and have been sicker than before. Then I was hospitalized in april and july but while in the hospital in july he cheated again with a friend of mine. I dont know what to do I keep having reoccuring dreams that he is cheating and the signs yall provide are all here what do I do. I dont want to accuse him and be wrong....but dont want to not and keep looking like a dumbass...... Please help... I have an illness and i have been hospitalized several times for it. I was diagnosed feb 2005 and 4 months later my husband cheated on me with my sister. We were separated and then decided to work thhings out. and in sept of 08 we had a baby and my illness relapsed and have been sicker than before. Then I was hospitalized in april and july but while in the hospital in july he cheated again with a friend of mine. I dont know what to do I keep having reoccuring dreams that he is cheating and the signs yall provide are all here what do I do. I dont want to accuse him and be wrong….but dont want to not and keep looking like a dumbass……
Please help…

]]> By: Olga Moore http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-548059 Olga Moore Mon, 14 Sep 2009 03:03:40 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-548059 to Maria: I don't think you said anything you should regret. Now your BF knows how you feel about the situation, so he has no excuse for doing wrong. Although, I am pretty sure he'll be sleeping alone :) There's nothing to worry about :) to Maria:

I don’t think you said anything you should regret. Now your BF knows how you feel about the situation, so he has no excuse for doing wrong. Although, I am pretty sure he’ll be sleeping alone :)

There’s nothing to worry about :)

]]> By: Maria http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-547892 Maria Sun, 13 Sep 2009 14:51:04 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-547892 My boyfriend is in another state, he is a soccer player. He tells me that he has a game in a far away city, they will stay over night in a hotel, He will share a room with 2 male players and 1 female player. My question was so who is she sleeping with. He said she is one of us, if I sleep on the bed don't you trust me, I only have the hots for you. I told him if you sleep on the bed with her, I will never understand it and will never forgive you. Am I wrong ? My boyfriend is in another state, he is a soccer player. He tells me that he has a game in a far away city, they will stay over night in a hotel, He will share a room with 2 male players and 1 female player. My question was so who is she sleeping with. He said she is one of us, if I sleep on the bed don’t you trust me, I only have the hots for you.
I told him if you sleep on the bed with her, I will never understand it and will never forgive you. Am I wrong ?

]]> By: Olga Moore http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/comment-page-3/#comment-534605 Olga Moore Sun, 09 Aug 2009 20:38:28 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/is-he-a-cheater-10-obvious-signs-of-cheating/#comment-534605 to Stacey: Sweetie, he sounds like a bad guy, and bag guys do bad things... I am pretty sure he's been fooling around and it kills me he still lies to you about it ... I think you made the right decision to break up with him. Just do this after he takes you out for dinner :))) to Stacey:

Sweetie, he sounds like a bad guy, and bag guys do bad things… I am pretty sure he’s been fooling around and it kills me he still lies to you about it … I think you made the right decision to break up with him. Just do this after he takes you out for dinner :)))

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