Hopefully you won’t find any of these cheating signs in your husband, but no marriage is foolproof. So it helps to keep these points in mind just in case you need to tick them off your list sometime in the future!
1. Looks
Your husband is suddenly over-aware about how his hair is set or if his socks smell good. This is definitely a sign to worry about especially if he was a major slob earlier.
2. Overtime
Is your husband staying late at work more often than not? Does he have unexplained meetings or sudden business trips too often? Watch out for these telling signs. If he’s really working late then his salary stub should show it.
3. Car cleanliness
He wants that junk of a car extra clean all the time! Now he doesn’t want your comb in the glove compartment and toys in the back seat. What happened? Does he want to do away with indications of a family?
4. Hair evidence
You’re folding his shirts but happen upon a long blonde hair. Now that’s perfectly fine except if you’re a brunette and you have a brown haired son! Too many blonde hairs can spell trouble.
5. Shirtless
He doesn’t want to take his shirt off. Is he hiding an unexplained bruise? He wants to shower with the bathroom door locked on the inside. These are troubling signs of a cheating husband.
stomach upset is the most funny one. they deserve to get sick after hurting trust and emotions of people who thought they loved them.
Hi I hab=ve been with mine boyfriend 9 years now he never wants to speak about getting married and when i do he gets upset and says he is confuse and needs abreak please help me
My husband and I have been married almost ten years there is a 14 year age difference him being the younger one. I just found 2 girls phone numbers and email addresses hiden in a case in his drawer (holds a small flashlight) Of course I reacted and said WTF is this??? He said they were 2 girls he use to know in high school and he got very defensive. What wouldany other women think????? Please let me know if I am being over reactive. This man is in the military and you know the “stories” you hear about that. Please help me figure this out. Thanks
Hi,
i’m a 19yo who was recently engaged to a great guy we have been togeher for three years. we were both virgins up until a year ago he only had two proir girlfriends both of which were nothing other then hand holding. he has always been a little on the slopply side and due to his trying to get a promotion at work i have urged him to take better care of himself he has always been lacking on it. well recently he brushes his hair and teeth without having to be told he also has been distant and we both love sex recently he hasnt been up to par. when he is done its over. and when he goes to his friends houses lately i cant come and he gets upset when i call him and sometimes he doesn;t answer the text messages I have major inseruity issues and have been going to therphy because of a really messed up childhood i was wonering if this seems like cheating or if it is just my own hangups thanks
my husband of 9 years has been going to various web sites stating on all these that he is single. he is getting very abusive mentally and at times physically with me. hE WENT SO FAR AS TO TELL ME HE IS GOING TO BEAT ME TO DEATH WITH A BASEBALL BAT.
WHEN I FOUND OUT ABOUT THESE SITES HE TELLS ME THAT I MADE THE WHOLE THING UP TO GET HIM IN TROUBLE. I DISCOVERED NOW HE IS TAKING NUDE PICS OF HIMSELF WITH OUR CAMERA AND POSTING THEM OR SENDING TO THESE WOMEN HE HAS ON HIS LISTS.
HE TELLS ME THAT THIS IS NOT CHEATING IT IS NO OF MY F… BUSINESS WHO HE TALKS TO OR EMAILS OR WHATEVER ON THE COMPUTER.
I FEEL IT IS NO DIFFERENT THEN THROWING THE REAL PERSON AROUND IN MY FACE. IT IS STILL WRONG NO MATTERWEITHER THEYARE ON THE COMPUTER OR NOT. THESE PEOPLE ARE STILL REAL BREATHING HUMAN BEINGS
JUST AS I AM. I TOLD HIM THAT HE IS OUT THERE SERACHING FOR HIS FOREVER WHEN HE HAD IT ALL ALONG AND JUST LET IT SLIP THROUGH HIS FINGERTIPS. HE TELLS ME THAT I WOULD OF NEVER GOTTEN HURT IF I WOULD OF NEVER FOUND ANY OF THIS STUFF OUT . SO ITS ALL MY FAULT I GOT HURT. BUT HE IS THE CAUSE OF IT BUT ITS MY FAULT. NOT.
Maybe your man is cheating on you because all of you are not keeping up with your role as a wife or girlfriend. I know from experience that when a guy goes for someone else it is because there is an absence of some short of emotional or sexual need that can only come from his significant other. The majority of women that men cheat with are less attractive then their spouse or current girlfriend so don’t assume they are just out to feed their cavemen instinct. Most men do not express their feelings and emotions well and it requires a little interpretation by the women to assess the needs of their boyfriend/husband. So the best thing anyone can do to avoid this awful event is to provide there man with womanly support before they have to find it from someone else. With an open attitude and an urge to please the needs of your man he will most likely stay at home with you. This may seem rude and sexist but there are plenty of manly needs that women strive for and do not get that can lead to affairs as well. So next time you feel like there is something going on with your partner step up and be a woman and make it so your husband wants to stay home. Peace!
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Watch for these techno savvy signs as well.
While watching phone logs may prove fruitless there are many other ways to communicate with a lover. My spouse at first used a second chip in his phone and bought 1000 minutes for his lover and just swapped the chips in and out. He also changed his cell number at the drop of a hat reporting to me that telemarketers were phoning him, but it was really after a break-up with the girlfriend. The next time I caught him, she had purchased a phone for him, also he set up VOIP on the computer to chat and phone her while he was travelling which was 50% of the time as he was an airline pilot. Watch for these signs.
Watch for changes in behavior. Does he come home from a trip calling you a new pet name? Does he spend more time than usual shaving off his body hair and wanting to try out a manicure. Does his clothing style change from what a 48 year old should wear to what a 24 year old would wear?
Does he get upset with the little stuff or call you names like stupid? This may be a sign that he’s got somebody that he’s willing to be more forgiving with and thinks is all that.
When asked does he not say I love you, but say something like “I’m committed to you”. This may signal that he feels trapped in a marriage.
If he travels, and he is off duty does he not return his voicemails until several hours later?
Does he lock his car or take a shower with the door locked? This sudden increase in privacy can signal suspicion.
Does he accidentally tell that he did activities on his trip with a female co-worker? This can signal that he is on the prowl. For example, roller blading or surfing while on a trip to kill time.
Does he wear his coolest clothes on his trips, but take you out to dinner in a pair of jeans and sneakers?
Does he leave you on Mother’s day and go to Nordstrom to buy a couple of pairs of some Rock ‘N Roll shoes for himself?
This 20 year marriage ended after the third discovery that the affair had continued even after he promised it was over twice. This guy had a girlfriend for his layovers in California and a nice home and family up north. Talk about having your cake and eating it too.
Good riddance to bad rubbish. Flight attendants beware of these pilots, they are out there. Remember once a cheater always a cheater.
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started with i’m pathic i have not friends. went out with them after work…everynight?! found out the friend was a girl. she would phone all the time, he would say it was other people, checked his wallet one day, there was a note hi sexy with a heart. then more phone call out late after work, if he worked at all, then a condom, then find them both in a car with seats leaned back “talking”, then another note…can not wait for it to be just the two of us. well that did happen he moved on a wednesday she was there by friday morning (if not sooner).
Why don’t you call her and find out for yourself?
you are better off. stand your ground go out and give him a taste of his own medicine. do not do what i have done. get away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i did ask, she wanted to fight me, started taking off her earings…i just said he is not worth it. honestly he is not, it just hurts how this happened.
Best sign is when his fingers smell like a CUNT – or when you suck his cock amd you smell some nasty pussy on his balls.
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I’M WONDERING WHERE SOME OF THESE WOMEN’S DIGNITY HAS GONE? I TOLD MY THEN FIANCE THAT IF I EVER FOUND OUT ANYTHING ABOUT ANY OF THE 3 “A’s”..ADULTRY, ADDICTIONS OR ABUSE (MENTAL OR PHYSICAL)..THAT HE WOULD BE GONE..NO SECOND CHANCES AND I MEANT IT AND HE KNOWS IT. WE DESERVE BETTER AND WE CAN GET IT IF WE KEEP OUR STANDARDS UP.
I have alway’s been a cheater my whole life. I drink alchol and cheat, I am a alcoholic slut some say? I beleive my boyfriend danny has been cheating on me? is carma going to get me or is it just that i will ultimately cheat on him that concerns me. I write blogs about my cheating I fear that he reads them. I can’t contol myself when i drink I have hurt many people and in store for a horrible life.
I don’t want to be a slut any more please help!!! please e-mail me back with any help you have?
Hi I just ran across your website . I wanna know if my ex- boyfriend was cheating . Well we were high school sweathearts for 5 going on 6 yrs . Its a long story .. it started off when he moved away to after we graduated high school . He lives about 6 hrs away from me by plane . We didn’t get to see each other but maybe 5 days out of a whole year, each year . This past year in about the end of July of 2008, he flys home to supposently see me and some other friends of course. He spends about 3 days with me, then after those 3 days he goes over his friend guys house . After this he starts acting really weird not calling me avoiding me . So I meet him at the park were him and his friend M are playing tennis and he walks up to me sweating and looking like he’s so mad at me, and we start talking, and he’s like I just don’t want to hand around you 24/7 that’s all, and i’m like dude what!!! I say to myself, because i’m so hurt by those 12 words, after all I don’t get to see him, but like once out of a whole year . I think that he found some other chick up their were he works now that works with him, that’s why he treated me that way . before I leave the park, he say that we can go 2 dinner 2morrow down town, but when the next day comes, he stands me up for dinner the nxt day doesn’t call or txt me . Then all of a sudden he starts dressing from nerdy to cool, am i’m like and i’m like ok . So Mercy what do u think was going on ?
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I have been questioning weather or not my husband is cheating. I just found a reciept in his wallet for $15 to a Mexican resturant. The funny thing is that the credit card number on the reciept is not to a credit card we have and when I was talking about dinner all he said was he was not hungry…never did he say he ate Mexican today
What do you think?