Kat Wilder, a forty-something divorced mom shares the various tales of dating, exes, perimenopause and middle-aged sex - she’s also sharing a tale of just how sometimes wanting your partner to be brutally honest is sometimes cutting off more than you can chew.

What would you do if you introduced your new ‘main squeeze’ to your friends - only to find out later that your ’squeeze’ has lustful fantasies about one in particular?

Now, do you get angry or resentful ...