Kim Kardashian has learned she can have it both ways. The celebutard – famous for being Paris Hilton’s friend and for starring in a Hilton-esque sex tape with former boyfriend Ray J – is in talks with “Extra” to be a correspondent and “E!” to do a reality show. But both “jobs” were in peril because of the sex tape being widely distributed by Vivid Video. Kardashian – who once claimed she had nothing to do with the sale of the tape and was “furious” about it – happens to be good friends with Vivid’s chairman, Steven Hirsch. Yesterday, Hirsch announced he was halting sales of the video because of a “personal decision.” A source tells us, “They have become good friends, and Steve felt bad that the video’s release could harm her career.” So Kim ended up getting publicity and big money from the porn tape while managing to remain a sympathetic victim.