Maybe you shouldn't call this mean girl? I know some chicks considered mean and personal I think people should just stop fucking with them and they would be nicer...
Sometimes it's not a mean girl attitude, it's just being bold. And there is no such thing a taming it, but you can learn to understand it and be comfortable with it.
Great message to the Angels of the Light women are suppose to truly be, in the eyes of My Heavenly Father, it's time we act in a way that is PLEASING to HIM, not SHAMEFUL, DISRESPECTFUL with GRACE, KINDNESS, FORGIVING, NON JUDGMENTAL, BOASTFUL,or ARROGANT.