My husband admitted his lies and I caught him in almost all of them. His lies were so obvious, and if he told me " I am a toaster " or " I am a household appliance " or " I am a Elephant. ". I was tired of him lying to me so I did finally call him a liar more than once last week, I don't remember calling him that before.
He said disrespectful things about my Mom several times, and she didn't deserve that. Last week, my husband, told me " don't call my Father and tell him about this. " For the first time, I said, " Why? Your Father would probably egg you on. ", because his father cheated on his Mother.
I hate cuss words, but I used a whole ton this week, after my husband told me about another woman being in his heart, I was crying to my husband about this, and my husband was giving the silent treatment so I used cuss words!
" You're not an idiot. You knew better and you hurt me. An idiot at least wouldn't intentionally commit Adultery and lie and condescend me and make fun of me, when I did ask if you were committing Adultery, then turns out, our entire Marriage you were infatuated and lusted after other women. "
Even when your husband cheated on you with your Marriage Counselor for a year and a half, and you found out almost two weeks ago, and he has not groveled enough?
When two people fight, what reigns is anger. I can't do all these things when the other party is bringing up stuff that hurts my feelings. It's not me not to fire back.
It's smart though. This is not just advice for the women in the relationship. Both sides need to think about what you are saying. You can never ever take something you said back so be wise with your words! Everyone
Nah man, if you're pissed about something, don't worry about not "acting like a lady". Say what you mean, no matter what it is. Both people should be treated with respect, if respect is earned.