Don't get me wrong I love him. But I've Done this before and I felt as of I was just giving away "my milk" for free. If he doesn't have to pay for it now he won't care. I don't want to do the same thing again.
Move in if you want or not but let's not make a great deal about it.oving in with a boyfriend for the sake of it can be healthy. It makes you learn a great deal about yourself
My boyfriend living across the land. I'm around wales while he live near London due to his work place is there. I'm a student and due to my house contract, I need to move out from the house I'm currently in. It was nice that he keep asking me to move in with him. But the thing is, My uni is in wales and it would be bad move if I move in (it takes approximately 2 hours from my place to his). I talked about this to my boyfriend and he understands it, so when I have time or when he has time, we will meet up in each other places. This article sure is helping me to clear my head about things and Help me out for thinking about what will happen if I move in with him. I love him but What my consent is the scenario on what if I move in with him. If anything, I want to be married in the future (not in the near future), so this article helps me out thinking what will happen if I move in with him. If anything, I'm quite content with things happen between us. He may be busy but he will have time to talk to me whenever he had lunch. And when I'm there, he comes home and makes lunch for him. Anyway, i think that by living apart means that you both will have live outside your relationship. I mean, living is not about relationships... Or your love live... There are things that you need to do separately and I think, by living separately, will still have your privacy plus, it would make him still curious about you. Things like missing each other presence, dependent with each other, will make your love life have variety in it. Things will not get bored and everything aren't revealed yet. Which will spice things up. Also, moving in together is like combining two different people together under one roof. It's still okay if you don't have connection with the other but if you have, things will be more complicated and I can see the reason why it would lead to battle each other which would end up with break up...
This article came at the perfect time! My boyfriend is planning to move out by December and i planned to move out sometime next year. And he asked me on Sunday if i would move in with him when he moves out. I was soo happy that he felt that way. But i believe in marriage first and then live together. Plus we never lived on our own so this is perfect opportunity to do that before we live together. So we compromised and the plan is we both move out and live separately but we will alternate weekends at each others place. So he gets the experience of living together. He agreed with that plan.
My boyfriend asked me to move in with him. Uh, no. With a capital N. Cohabitation, shaking up - whatever you want to call it, may lead to a disaster. Maybe not. Two each his own. Personally, when we're ready to make that move to foreverland, then we'll move in together.
Moved in with the love of my love( on and off type relationship) because he wanted to move out of his parents bad. And guess what? It was a bad idea! I think the relationship lasted 6 months. We were not ready and moved in for the wrong reasons. Not pessimistic @claire, it's more like smart. We parted for a couple months, and are currently living together again because we decided we were finally ready. Guess what? We have never been better! Going strong (been living together for a year now, now deciding maybe a house next?? βΊοΈ)
My friend moved in with her boyfriend after a year of dating. Two years of living together and he wasn't making any steps toward marriage. She broke up with him and realizing she wouldn't have room had to leave her dog of 2 years behind. π