I am considering getting back together with my ex from four years ago. We've both stayed on really good terms with each other, stayed in contact over the years. We have both been in relationships after our own, had completely moved on, but our experiences with our other partners were absolutely awful. Then, out of nowhere last week I received a message from him, and over the weekend we stayed up until 3am talking (twice). We both think very highly of each other, but not because things didn't work out with our other relationships, just because of the type of people we are and the way we treat others. We always treated each other with the care and respect the other deserved, never felt the need to rush anything, we really enjoyed being with each other (not sexually; we're both waiting until marriage) and spending time with each other. The only thing "wrong" with our relationship years ago was the timing, nothing else. Part of me wants to give us another try, and I think he might too. We're not currently discussing such a topic, but if the opportunity presents itself and we both feel comfortable with it, we might give it another try.
Ladies, live comes and goes. If his really for u you won't be apart. It will be hard to deal with as ur ex been in ur life and memories etch. But time is a good healer inject in activities and have a goal. U need an ego boost u can't get that from someone who doesn't consider u as a catch.
I went back with an ex an awful 3 times and I find myself going back oh too much. He's cheated on me countless times as well with his ex and having sex with her. Ladies: respect yourselves and just don't do it. Find someone new. It saves you tons of heartbreak and misery. Plus you'll be glad you didn't make a stupid decision like I did. Just don't do it.
well when we first broke up i would have got back together in a heartbeat. but as the weeks went on i started to see many of the glaring issues he had. commitment issues, intimacy issues, etc etc. i still care for him , but not in the same way. i wouldn't want to get back with him now as i want someone much more together. but only time gave me this perspective .... so i would say always give yourself at least a few months to think things over before getting back with an ex. thats just my view , and im very happy now with someone more together, fitter and very hot lol