I'm going through it now. We decided we were still gonna text here and there just to know how we're doing he would text me every morning and at night to tell me nite nite.. It's been a week and I couldn't do it 😔 I had to call him to tell him that I needed time to get over this.. I guess he really wasn't expecting that because he didn't know what yo say..
What about obsessing over his ex of over TWO years ago?? I find myself randomly looking at her pages. I think it's bc our tendency to compare ourselves with everyone else.
Deleting all his contacts, and throwing away things you've been holding on helps a lot. I still look at his twitter feed time to time, and I know he looks at mine. But I never randomly text him now when I am drunk. Which I used to do every other time we broke up! Feels better now!
For me the easiest way to forget is that every time I think of a positive about him, i replace it with thoughts of negative experiences and how it made me feel at the time.
Sometimes I think it's not that you want him back or you're obsessed it's just that need to feel wanted. I find that I do that especially after a breakup going to the same places so that he can see me having fun. Although I know that I don't want him, the nasasisstic part of me still wants him to want me
It takes time to heal, but i hear to repeat bad habits and things that put u off and annoyed you of your ex helps get you over him, so just remind yourself of those irritating views he had , lok