@Mabelle yea true, but not all girls are the same. Some girls are weak like me... some are strong and independent and that is exactly what men want. Again what you say is true, but we are just too weak sometimes I guess... especially when it comes to love
@Razoon, I think we shouldn't worry about him chasing us. In the first place, if the guy is really since, you wouldn't be n a situation where you're the one chasing
@MEL , wow! that is long time. and that is great that he says he likes you:) do you know if he has any fears of being in a relationship? maybe he was heartbroken before you and is a little cynical? or just simoly scared? if so i think that is soemthing you have to let him learn on his own. but i say don't tey too hard to reach out to him especialy id he does open up or reach back.
can someone help me?? i met this guy 5 months ago, and in the first two months he would actually text me a and i would text him, it was pretty repciprocated. (we have been sleeping together) and went on A FEW dates. but furinf the second half of the five months, i became the one texting him one or twice a week or snapchat him once a week. i think he got comfortable with me...he knows that ill always be there and that im a guaranteed sex... and that i like him. we had a sleep over a week ago and he hasnt texted me yet and i havent either. should i jist keep waiting until he does? i think he is expecting me like clockwork that ill text him soon. and if he just wants sex, why wiuldhe keeo me around for five months? its really not hard for him to get laid...but ive been the o ly girls hes been sleeping with.
I been seeing a guy for over 4 years now. We started out as fbw but both admitted , that we have strong feelings for each other Now.  So ive been trying to take our relationship to the next level.  He pulls back  and i still feel like im chasing him. i need help!
Hi. Im a teenager, 15 yrs old. I hv a guy at school. We were in rltnshipmfor abtn9 months n we broke up due to a misunderstanding. After our brkup he went in another relationship. Then another n another. His friends say that he is not serious wid anyone. As he counts his gfs he doesnt include me. He attends me nicely n talks to me. I want him back. The mistake was mine. I have apologised. N its been 1yr 10 months n todays the 20th day. I really love him. He has a serious gf now. He is trying on someone else too.ni cant forget the momemts we spent tlgether wht 2 do. Im dying without him
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I need help something. about two years ago I met this guy in college, in fact he notice me first. As time went on I began to develop feelings for him. He alwasy knew that I liked him but I guess he jusr didnt care about my feelings and stuff. Anyways he "dated" this girl from our group ,just one date. Then this girl snuck her way into our group and we all welcomed her in. She knew I liked him but she flirted with him right in front of my face and grab his phone to get his phone number. Maybe a month or so later they slept together. That night he wanted us to hang together but I said no. it became a he said she said conversation. next thing you know I found that "he likes me". At that point I just didnt care because he kept giving mixed signals and mind games. He made me looked really stupid. So I decided to drop him and the whole group because I just flt like so many sneaky things were occuring. so for the past 1.5 years he has tried to contact me to be friends again. Finally, he confess that He still has feelings for me. I just do not know what to do. he said that he was only with the girl because she was the only one who gave him attention but yet he said that I was the only who understood his situation when he came back as a civilian. He said that he did not want to hurt me and bring me into his life that could destroy me. I am not sure if he is saying this because he wants something else from me or if his sincere. I just do not want to believe what he says but he is always dodging my questions and stuff. HELP!!!!!!!!!!! what do I do to have have work for it?????
I need help , my boyfriend is so hard to get and im the one who always do the first move and it bothers me he likes it but after 1 year i found out that im the one whose doing everything i buy gifts and i make his projects and he never does anything he tells me love is not about who buys more stuff but i really want to feel loved by him ...
My boyfriend of almost 2 months seems overly secure with me. He isn't like any other man I've dated before. We are also a long distance relationship. He constantly shows that he cares about me, but at the same time he seems careless about what I do or who I'm with. I feel like maybe he's too comfortable, way too soon. What should I do? It seems too weird for a guy to be this secure so soon lol
My boyfriend and I have been friends for 15 years and we have been dating 4 months. We recently went through a rough time. He asked me to move in and then panicked/got cold feet and wound up breaking up with me. He has never had a serious relationship before (30 years old). We talked and decided to stay together and start over.. from the beginning. However, I have only seen him once in the past 3 weeks (he lives an hour away) and I usually spend every weekend with him. I used to get "good morning beautiful" and "goodnight sweet heart" and "I love you so much".... now.... He seems to only text me if I text him first. Forget "I love you" or waking up to "good morning".
I wont hear from him for a while... yet I see on my instagram feed that he is on his phone following half naked girls and liking their photos etc... I feel like if he has time to do that.. he has time to respond or say something to me.
How often do normal people talk to their significant others? It is hard on me mostly bc I am used to feeling loved and missed and wanted. I feel like, starting from the beginning would mean starting fresh .. in the beginning we talked and he wanted to see me.. this feels more like im still hanging on the edge at the end of our relationship.
Does he just need space? I feel like a loser when I text first all the time. When I don't text for a while and he still doesn't text me.. I fear he just never will and we will be over. The last time I went 2 days without texting he happened to break up with me when I did finally text.
What is normal? How do I get him to miss me and want to talk to me? (((without looking desperate, needy, or clingy)))
Add commentMy boyfriend and I have been friends for 15 years and we have been dating 4 months. We recently went through a rough time. He asked me to move in and then panicked/got cold feet and wound up breaking up with me. He has never had a serious relationship before (30 years old). We talked and decided to stay together and start over.. from the beginning. However, I have only seen him once in the past 3 weeks (he lives an hour away) and I usually spend every weekend with him. I used to get "good morning beautiful" and "goodnight sweet heart" and "I love you so much".... now.... He seems to only text me if I text him first. Forget "I love you" or waking up to "good morning".
I wont hear from him for a while... yet I see on my instagram feed that he is on his phone following half naked girls and liking their photos etc... I feel like if he has time to do that.. he has time to respond or say something to me.
How often do normal people talk to their significant others? It is hard on me mostly bc I am used to feeling loved and missed and wanted. I feel like, starting from the beginning would mean starting fresh .. in the beginning we talked and he wanted to see me.. this feels more like im still hanging on the edge at the end of our relationship.
Does he just need space? I feel like a loser when I text first all the time. When I don't text for a while and he still doesn't text me.. I fear he just never will and we will be over. The last time I went 2 days without texting he happened to break up with me when I did finally text.
What is normal? How do I get him to miss me and want to talk to me? (((without looking desperate, needy, or clingy)))
i really need help. i like this guy and he seems like he could be interested in me as well. he says that im young... were almost 3 years apart. how can i get him to see past my age? we do have loads of fun together and he always flirts with me and hes even confessed his attraction to me. but he says that me being almost 3 years younger than him he feels weird about us... please help me out
I met this guy about two years ago. He is one year younger then me. He was in an on and off relationship and they were off when we met. We dated and talked for about 4 months he drove 10 hours to see me then I was going away for 2-3 months for the summer and coming back so we slowed down our talking and waited to see what could happen after the summer in the future between us. During that time he got back with his ex. He always tried to keep in contact with me in sketchy mysterious ways, ex ârandomly running into me at schoolâ all the time. He even called me once when they fought. So about 6 months ago they broke up the last time for good after 3 times of breaking up and each time he tried talking to me when they broke up. Since August he tried to talk to me and at first I wouldnât respond and I gave in fast I hung out with him and the past 5 months we would hang out and hook up. So i texted him at the end of December and he ignored me and the story is longer but he plays solo many games but my gut tells me he really does like me I canât figure it out. So 9 days after i texted him he texted me i ignored him. Then he snap chatted me twice and I ignored and he keeps trying to get my attention in weird ways but I keep ignoring idk what to do?! I like him but feel like emotionally drained and donât know if he truly likes me so I figured i should ignore him until he really trys so far its been 3 weeks and he wrote to me 3 times. Im so confusedâŠany advice?
@Anonymous, I think that there is a little bit of a wall due to the fact that it isn't really appropriate. I think he is trying to make sure that he doesn't put himself in jeopardy and you need to respect that. Hopefully you realize that it won't be technically appropriate until he no longer is your coach. Unfortunately thats something you will have to face.
Haha i need help. I met this guy and we have been talking for weeks. We finally had the chance to hang out and we had fun and he says he really likes me and as soon as i left he said make sure you text me tomorrow :) I didn't and so he texted me . We have made plans and when i texted to confirm he said he didn't think he would be able to because he needed to go to church with his aunt and uncle. I send him texts and it says he's read them and so now i think i need to pull back. Should I just wait for him to come to me. He texts me back like 4 hours later and says he misses me but I'm just really confused. haha any helP ?
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I need someone's help please :) I really like this guy, we talk for long when we see each other and he always delays the time so we spend longer together, one time he told me he was meant to leave but ended up staying with me an hour later. We text each other and have those long paragraph conversations! He always makes jokes with me an acts really excited to see me. The only problem is that he's my sports coach. We're both passionate about this particular sport and it kind of brings us closer together but he hasn't told me anything blatant about whether he likes me or not. Is he afraid that there are boundaries he's overstepping? He asked me to show him pictures of prom and when he saw them he stammered before saying I'm really pretty. what does this mean? How can I get him to chase me? I'm 18 and he's 22 btw.
@Kynn wait for him to come to you. In a month, you better be out there seeing other men not still waiting for him. Hell, you should be doing that today. Go live your fabulous life and let him see you doing it, if he's worth a damn, he'll call. If not, good to know now so you stop wasting time on him.
Anyone understand with how long you need to pull back? should I wait until he wants to talk to me or should I wait a really long time like a month and talk to him? 😖
It's hard indeed, especially when you like the guy. This is a great article though, pulling back does work. It is so important for us women to remember that WE are the prize and to just sit back and wait for our guy to win us over. Be confident ladies!
My bf liked me chasing him all the time. But I\'ve stopped doing all this nonsense. I haven\'t seen much of the results yet. But I did get two text one saying he loved me ( I didn\'t respond) & another saying he wants to be the man I desire. So hopefully it will work!! Sign!😐
Wonderful tricks..! I have used one out of these sometime back on my boyfriend. I stopped calling him or pinging him, It only required a day and he called me back saying that he is missing me a lot n wants to meet.. :)
Ohh we gals.. What all we do..