-
This really helped me get thru that awkward stage in friendship with my Bff. THANKS SOOOOOOO MUCH Girlfriend😘
-
@shim, what do i do!!!!!!
-
I am married for 14 years, and one of my best friend at my job have been making passes at me and he asked me do u want this and i said yes.
-
This Story will tell you everything: http://bit.ly/1Elyhg3
-
This got moi hornay
-
My boyfriend supposedly slept with his bestfriend. No one told Me. So I was okay with them being "best friends" fuck that.
-
I've slept with a few guy friends... Afterwards lots of awkwardness! We're all good now thankfully but MAN SO AWKWARD
-
If you don't have boundaries, you will do this later when you have someone. Happened to me and many others. She followed a similar advice while being engaged with me. Yeah..Do anything with friends..no wonder why guys end being cheaters when women are so cool to break a friendship to get laid.
-
I do not recommend sleeping with your best friend at all! I regret it!😥
-
😳😱
-
:sticker_no_way:
-
I've been debating this!!!
-
oh idk man i hooked up with my best friend a lot and now weve been together for a while now and i think its going to stay that way for a long time
-
Tried it already and even tho we had feelings for each other he still broke my heart afterwards ....
-
This is your boyfriend? :) I think that you should definitely say yes to his proposal!
-
Oh man! Which best friend do you like better? Which boy meshes better with you?
-
Thank you for the comment!! :)
-
it's like having sex with your brother... ugh.
-
@KC i feel sorry for you, girl. I know that feeling :(
-
No way.. After reading this, i felt so awkward. Hahahah. Can't imagine myself having sex with my bestfriend. That is just so disgusting. Omg.
-
You Feel Dirty & It's So Awkward Afterwards . I Think It's A No No !
-
Not to mention if it doesn't work out, you've completely ruined your friendship with this person because you decided to have sex with them. Big decision, big risk.�
-
Guys usually wants to be a friend with someone they are attracted to in the first place - possibly, they have a crush on you or wants to have a sex. (Doesn't always mean they want to be your boyfriend) It is very "useful" for guys too.
-
:sticker_me_too:
-
My boyfriend was my best friend was my best friend before we started dating... Now we've been together two and a half years.. He's both my boy friend and my best friend and the sex is amazing!!!!!
-
Having sex with your "bestfriend" crosses the line between relationship and friendship. It might be a good idea if you have feelings for one another and want to take it to the next level. However it's a risk if one has feelings and the other doesn't. Then sadly you lose a friend.
-
On the other hand, I get to sleep with my best friend every night!!!! My partner of over 7 years is my best friend and I wouldn't have it any other way :)😍😍 it's awesome having a partner that is your best friend :)
-
I slept with my best friend when I was 18 and we haven't really spoken since. There was a bit of awkwardness and miscommunication that occurred and next thing, ...........
-
@Kerri Beth Broussard my bf and I have been together for over 7 years and I know a lot of stuff like that about him. It's only an issue if you let it be :)
-
I had sex with a best friend once and I think we discovered it wasn't for us- somehow we are still friends but not the best friends we were. Somehow by having sex we lost part of the relationship we had
-
I tried dating one of my bestfriends when I was quite young, I liked him but I went out with another guy and so my feelings for him changed, and only then did he ask me out! I said yes because I wanted to see if it would bring back old feelings for him, but it didn't and I felt too guilty to break up with him because he was my bestfriend, that made me feel as if I owed it to him to stay with him! But once we did break up, after an initially awkward phase we remained pretty much just as close as we were, so you can resume your friendship if it doesn't go well
-
No, just no.
-
I have several male friends with whom I have no desire to have sex with. Some of these friendships span a couple of decades. Why would anyone think that a man and a woman cannot be just friends is beyond me.
-
Hear* oops
-
Lmao why would anyone do that? Especially a girl your going to get labeled as something you wouldn't want to heath unless the feeling is mutual then if not that's stupid.
-
My boyfriend cheated on me with his best friend. This is wrong. That is wrong. :|
-
I'm married to my BFF of 14 years. He's still my BFF , and I can't wait for the next 14 years!
-
Hi Cartelea! Why do you think that this is wrong?
-
This is wrong
-
I have a best guy friend that is straight and our friendship has been platonic since we met 11yrs ago 😃😃😃
-
What should I do***
-
And then there's 'A'. I have made out with him with no issue but I could never date him cuz I literally know all his secrets... Regarding other women and what not. I already know that me and him should just remain besties! :)
-
That's just weird. Totally disagree with this.
-
This is an interesting topic to me. I have TWO best guy friends. I've never had sex with either of them. And I have completely different relationships with each of them. 'J' and I have know know each other since we were 5. He is so important to me but he can be very immature at times but is a great person. We actually tried dating before but I ended it because the first time we kissed it didn't feel right. It was never awkward and we still tell each other everything. It would be an ideal situation for us to date because we get along so well and my family and friends all love and know him almost as well as I do. I love him, but I can't even kiss him!! What should u do?
-
@Lynda Ab yeah, he is gay but he is still a man..hence a man-woman friendship
-
@douxriens he is gay ... No mutual desire there lol i have one gay friend too but i do not believe in a woman-man friendship
-
Well I agree and also disagree, I did it with my "best friend" and end up moving in together it was great cuz we never had and argument or any disagreement on anything, then I got pregnant and he dumped me two days after I told him. So our relationship is basically like I went to a sperm bank He is a great friend if i need someone to hang and go on adventures but as a MAN he doesn't keep his word. He's not relevant in our life and my son is the love of my life so that's the good part of it. Thanks for that experience I'm a strong women. 💪
-
Erm..this is such an AWKWARD article..Men and Women can remain platonic friends..I have a gay best friend..lol
-
:(*
-
I'm the outsider one and I can't help but to be paranoid whenever they hang out,I know I should trust him but the way they look at each other and how they connect makes me so insecure,he proposed to me last month tho what should I do? :)
-
I decided to finally make an account so I can share my story. In high school, my first relationship was with my best guy friend and it did not work out. I ended up being really angry with him and our friendship was lost completely. So I do think dating your best friend is risky but if it works out, yay! I would just rather date people who are not my best guy friend before dating. If that makes sense?
-
@tee haha!
-
He married someone else and it pushed us apart
-
Yeah, that didn't work for me 😒
-
I met my boyfriend over a dating site, and wasn't expecting a relationship at all when i first started hanging out with him - i was only 18 at the time, and over time he became one of my favourite friends, my best friend, and now after 2 years of our relationship i know he's my best friend and my special one that i want to spend the rest of my life with (: Save the sex for someone special girls, i never had a relationship during my teenage years and i think it was well worth the wait! (:
-
@lynda and @theresa thanks for the advice. I think the best thing to do like you said Theresa is to wait. Thanks again:)
-
@Pam I don't know if this helps but it's the best advice I can give. I totally get that you want your first time to be with someone special. That being said, it sounds like you're reconsidering sleeping with your friend because he's your backup. If you've waited for it to be special, it won't hurt to wait for someone that your actually in a relationship with. And from someone who can attest to having been in a similar situation, I wish I would have preserved my friendship. Sex can complicate things, and unlike this article might lead you to believe, it's not always for the better.
-
@Pam shoes*
-
@Pam hi i already was in you shows the only thing that worked was staying friends and see other guys when he will hear about it he will feel he is losing you and eventually make a move, a move towards love not only sex. Stick your convictions never do something you are not comfortable with or you feel you might end up hurt.
-
I am engaged to him ! :-)
-
Ok so here's my situation if any one would be so kind to give me some advice :) so I have this friend, he knows me pretty well and I'm the closest with him than my other guy friends in my group and the topic of having sex has come up between us on several occasions. There are times where our texts get really flirty and we joke around about it a lot. However, I always tell him no because I have never actually done it before and I would prefer to be in a relationship. And I know with him it's not going to lead to one because I personally and I'm pretty sure he just want to stick as friends. Everytime i do tell him i want to wait he always tells me that its cool and that "i hope you find your perfect guy". But now, I've been talking to this other guy who I met and it was going well, we talked every day through text but now it has died down but to the point where yesterday and the night before he wouldnt respond to my text from a convo. It seems like a total opposite from how we were talking from before, especially since he was already planning a bunch of outings for us. but now I am losing interest fast. Which now is making me think a lot about my friend and i keep wondering if I made the wrong choice of saying no to sex with him or if I should stick with this other guy for a bit and see where it goes and if things change. I'm seeing the other guy tonight. We've been on about two dates, so we're not in a relationship yet. If any of this makes sense, I need your help haha thanks:)
-
Good article.
-
I married him
-
I've been waiting for an article like this. Thank you!