@Colleen, He's at fault He's made the decision to step outside of marriage on her shows her lack of ability, to take care of her cheating husband!Try, to place π leach on him!
@Anon, do his poor wife a favor stop marrying Men that steps out of the marriage before marriage and after He's going home to her and thinking of other single women, you must have been cheated on before in your marriage they don't care about the Children they secretly cheat!Children doesnt make or hold a marriage. Cheating comes before and after marriage the wives should place aπ Β Leach on her husband!
@Alexa Nicole, he goes after single, women and marriedπͺπ its his fault, he wants to step outside of his marriage!Blame it on him not the mistress!
@Beryl Stokes, its not her fault its his for even stepping out on her shows he doesn't truly or love and support the one he said I do to it will crash!
@Mabelle , its ok Nobody wants it to go any where no way He's the one not honoringπ her Anyways maybe in Public no where else. Nobody wants the cheater like that! π
@Katrina Hiagi-Daucocoka, it all depends on the marriage most marriages are open and most are not π happyπ and has been stepping out before I do. Cheaters before a marriage will Never work, yes disconnect from him true love is love.
@Mabelle , maybe maybe not the β modern day marriage's are different most people marry for online statutes etc social events etc.Most of the time stepping outside hasπ΅ been going on before I do.
@TieiaM, I don't think he will π you see both party's are and where cheaters from the beginning you can't marry a cheating lady and make her to be q wife.
@TieiaM, well it could be never was the wives soul mate in the beginning people get married for all of the β wrong reasons!Do not blame it on the womenβthat the man decides to cheat π π her she was never the wives soul mate π΅ from the first time.
@confused1985, she has not rite to tell you not yo contact him There's a child there why did she marry him in the first place there has been cheating going on all along some lady's are so desperate to get married
@kali, its ok everyone seems to blame it on the other women when That's not the case the lady needs to β put a π leach on there husband to keep him from cheating!π
@Bayside Lass, nobody cares about what goes on in their personal life not that important no need to stalk them either the lady needs to place a π Leach on her no good man to π montior him could care less what they do at home!
There are so many single men out there why must women go after someone else's man? Even if he's the one to pursue you, you as a woman should respect another woman regardless if you know her or not.
I have no interest in my messing with a man that is already married under God and has a family. I don't need that bad karma in my life and I know I would be crushed if I was the wife of a cheating husband.
@Farhana You sound like a very smart woman. However, if you fell for a married guy, yes , you would be at fault and you already know that. Why not do things with your friends like travel, go on a cruise, learn something new?
Really? Has this writer ever been cheated on? Not all mistresses need advice on how to respect themselves. Some of them need advice on how not to Facebook stalk the wives and call his home repeatedly at 2am. They are cruel, destructive and heartless.
This was me. Chance after chance. I gave this guy. And he keep telling me was going to leave his wife. Five years later. Nope! He just keep ghosting and can comes back months later. Next time abs there will be a next time. I'm not going to take him back.
My husband had an affair with a girl 12 yrs younger, he pushed me on other people when he didn't want to deal with the problem and now I'm in love with a married man he pushed me on.
I never in a million years thought I'd like a married man, turns out I was wrong! We met through a group thing, and it seemed harmless enough at first, we just talked, and I don't know how but we started flirting, he has a picture of me on his background, and said that having those selfies of me makes him happy.. I'm glad it does, and I agree that marriage isn't what it used to be, and I'll be brutally honest, I fight until I get what I want one way or the other, I'm determined like that, I know he has kids, I've met his son, his son likes me, so no problems there.. I don't care if people want to call me a home wrecker, I know what I want.. I told him what I wanted, he never said no, and when we met up at the group thing yesterday we even flirted in front of people, people know he's married, call me what you want, but I'll fight with steely determination until I get what I want.. My friends husband left her for another woman, so it's not like it doesn't happen.. Times have changed..
Bec my marriage life is also not that good so i get my courage from him. But you and your lover (i'm not sure if it's the right term) how's your relationship?
@Vanessa hi it's difficult to let go right?? I always have the mindset of forgetting him and lettinghim go but i always have the illusion that someday there will be chance for us. We never meet each other yet(i guess it's a good thing)but i know I need him
I'm in a relationship with a married man over a year on and off. his 34 and I'm 22 it's hard for me every time I let go and forget about him Β he pops up in my life what makes it even harder is Β my best friend and him are Cousins. Β Every time I get invited to a get together his there I try to avoid some of the get togethers so I won't have to see him. I made myself think that I wasn't going to fall in love with him but I did
Single words he will say but apart of it it makes me happy. I want to quit in this situation but it's damn difficult not to message him in one day. I just miss him. And my day rly affected π
Chatting with someone is consider as cheating as well. And we are on the point of exchanging some love words that rly hooked me and think he might be the right one for me and not my husband... the thing is he already lied to me so I don't rly trust every
I know it's damn wrong, knowing someone by online telling me he's a divorced but when i found out he still married it hurts but i still accept... both of us are married, we know each other for 7months and chat every single day.
But I was apprehensive about giving him my number but gave it anyway thinking we might never actually end up talking but just remain acquaintances like so many on my profile. But there was something very distinctive I'm guessing we both felt. The next day I got a missed call from him and he said he had called by mistake and I knew he was lying. We talked for hours and couldn't stop it. I ended up at his place knowing fully well it was wrong of me to do that but we got slightly drunk and we kissed for a bit before knowing. I realized it was a horrible mistake to find myself at his place and do that and even see their bedroom and his pictures with her, like an idiot, not realizing what the hell was happening. I came back home and cried really hard. But I had started to like him too much by then. Nothing ever happened between us but we came really close to it once, trying to find a solution by doing it once and forever to get it out of the system. It wasn't going to work and I eventually stalled. Another dumb idea. I finally took charge and asked him never to talk to me again. Deleted his number. He tried to talk to me in between until last month before I got really mad and made him promise not to text me ever again and delete my number.
I'd have loved to say that it was different for me and that he never tried to hide anything from me and had wanted to make normal conversation as much as the sexual ones but I know I'm lying now and I know it feels unique and one of a kind to everyone but it's the same more or less. The fact that he is married is one of the first things he had told me, but there was just this coming out of a relationship a month ago and emotional vulnerability attached with it and just that he was giving me so much attention. Also I had had the most amazing very first conversation with him and I had felt wrong about giving him my number and he had said his wife had similar interests in art and history and heritage and we could hang out together, it was obvious he didn't mean it and I had no intentions of that either.