@Ayriannam, if he does it to everyone then i would still keep tabs on that but if he likes you then he will do anything to talk to you he will even make a conversation about the dumbest crap just to be near you and talk you and he will be playful with you
@Shaila, well it means that he does not want to give himself in to quick the reason being is that he is not sure if you have the same feelings he has for you
Hi Heather!
So I recently started liking this guy, but he's a massive flirt, and i know this. however he hasn't been in a relationship for a while, and says he isn't looking for one and would need to know someone really well before considering them as someone to go out with. i know he's a massive flirt, but he's always calling me gorgeous and bee and bae. he has also offered to cook for me, and offered to let me ride to his house on the back of his bike. he has also offered me a £30 ukulele that he doesn't use any more and has also offered me lessons, and idk what to do....
I need some advice. I'm completely oblivious when it comes to guys liking/flirting with me so i never know. But theres this guy in my lab class. The entire class we tease each other. I really like him. But not only do we playfully pick on each other. The other day I was turned facing the other way and he had leaned across infront of me when i turned around his face was right in front of mine. So my instinct was to say whoa. He then replied with are you trying to kiss me i said no and then that went on for a few seconds more before changing conversation. Then shortly after that I had pulled my phone out to read a text and he was standing close to me and started to say his number. I said what? and he replied with i thought you were maybe going to ask for my number. And of course when he said that I froze. So my question is, does this sound like just playful teasing as friends or is there something there?
Omg I didn't know that this was flirting well now that I read this well there is this boy that always hugs me when he sees me and my friends say that when I'm not looking he is always looking at me and smiling at me when I'm not looking and that he talks about me :)
@Nicole if a guy likes you, they for sure will text you right away and make it known, unless he is shy he might have just been right when he said he doesn't like anyone, so I would play it cool and not txt all the time, so you are worth the chase
HELP. I've been talking to this guy named Tim.. He's a couple years older than me and I really like him.. He goes to my youth group, he plays guitar, he sings, he has an extremely nice body and I feel like he's totally out of my league 😔 I'm usually the one to txt him first but every time he sees me in school there's not a time where he won't shout my name and say hi. Which I always get the hopeless butterflies.. At lunch he'll usually stop and sit on the outside bench and sit where me and my friend do and I've noted that his body is completely turned towards me. But a while back when I asked him if he liked me (over txt) he said he didn't like anyone. And I've complimented him quite a bit but he never compliments me.. I really like this guy.. We haven't talked for a couple days and I haven't txted him but I really need so guidance 💔 please help.
I'm like trying to figure out if this junior at my high school (i'm a freshman) anyways.. I've been using the school gym for a couple weeks now and like he at first was like teasing me and like harassing me about this kid who is his friend and was trying to set me up with him and he was teasing about that and he still does but like he comes up to me at random points of my workout like, I'll be running and comes up and fiddles with the machine or he'd walk over several times to check his phone but I'd look over at he'd be looking at me, and recently he's been like saying hi to me in the hallways so i'm not really sure what to do cause he's soooo cute but i dunno.. helppp!
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i have probably one of the biggest crush on a substitute & you can definitely tell he's into me, every time i see him i cant help my self but smile & he just smiles back.. we talk a lot ..not like student teacher talk... but I'm 18 and he's at least 25.. we have then same interests.. i cant get him out of my mind!!! please help me?! <3 oh he also tries to touch me (not in an inappropriate way) we laugh together. a lot. when he looks into my eyes my heart just melts . oh his smile sure makes me wanna hug him. oh how id die to hug him... PLEASE HELP ME AND GIVE ME ADVICE
@Ayiana I think you should try asking some of his closer friends if he has mentioned you a lot or talks about you to his friends. It\'s your choice what you should do. Your only in sixth grade though, but you should try to find out more about his feelings for you before going right out and asking him on a date.
I already got an opinion on a question, should I tell my guy friend of three years that I met at a summer camp that i like him? He does try to impress me and we are very touchy around each other.:) he always texts me good morning, good night, and on swim meet days, he texts me good luck. We also FaceTime almost every day, and he makes me laugh and smile.:) his close friends stole his phone once and proceeded to yell while we were face-timing that my crush liked me. As does his sister say that when we talk. I met his sister over FaceTime also, but have been contacted by her on her own phone. She also says he likes me. How should I tell him without making things awkward if he doesn\'t like me back??😩😫😩hwl
I would love some advice. I\'m seventeen and I have this guy friend which I\'ve always secretly liked and now I feel like he\'s giving me \'that\' kind of attention. Last year one of his friends screwed me over, BADLY, and he was always there for me telling me that his friend didn\'t deserve me and to not suffer over guys who are just dicks. He would send me mixed signals and would indirectly state things by saying I should just find another guy, someone who\'d treat me right, once he even mention a kiss, but I was to oblivious. Sometimes when we\'re left alone there\'s always this space for something to happen, I feel this sexual tension and this awkwardness, I hope something would happen, I pray he makes a move, I do want something to happen, but it never does. I don\'t dare to jump on him, I\'m scared of rejection, so I just wait, but I know I\'ll just keep on waiting for it and there\'s little chance something will actually bloom. There\'s a long list of girls waiting too, he\'s quite a guy, the kind of guy who we\'d all fancy.
Yeah, sometimes we flirt, but most times we\'re acting like we normally do, I go back to being one of the guys. These days he\'s been touchy, hugging me and when in conversations with me and even with other people he always manages to make some physical contact with me, whether holding me, pinching me lightly, tapping me, anything. He\'s attentive, he texts and acts nicely. I should be able to tell right? Thing is..? I suck at reading the signs... I always took this as something normal, I still think those are a friend\'s words and actions. So what should I do? I\'m scared of the first step, don\'t want to scare him away, but at the same time it\'s my last year in school and I terribly want him. Please help! Thanks :)
I forgot to add that we are both in 6th grade and I always catch him staring at me during class and I can\'t help but laughing plus he\'s my type and we went to summer school together and he stared at me then too WHAT SHOULD I DO HEATHER????
Hey,Heather my best friend he always is flirting with me and I flirt back and we always talk and stuff. But he\'s also the flirting type and I really like him too but I\'m not the type of person who asked the people out so what should I do cause I REALLY like him and im afraid that he doesn\'t really like me.
Any advice?
So I have a friend and me and him flirt a lot back and forth and he does a lot of these but I still can\'t tell if he likes me or is just the flirty type. I have seen him hug other girls but I still feel like he treats me differently when I\'m around other girls he knows and I can\'t tell if he does like me or just doesn\'t like the other girls enough to flirt with them. I feel like it would help if I could text him but we don\'t have each others numbers and I don\'t know whether I should give it to him or if I should wait for him to ask and if I should give it to him I don\'t know how to do it. Help!?!?
Hmm.. I met this guy through a friend one day on a chill out. He added me through FB from my friend\'s account and we started talking. There\'s once which he drunk dialed me and talked about his ex and says that I\'m the only one who is gonna ever hear him share this. Now he\'s away at another country for 2 months and have been sending me pics of where he\'s at and doing and surprised called me from another country for a few mins chat. He\'s interested in me ain\'t he? Lol
Hi Astro! That's a tough one! I would say that you definitely need to talk to him a little bit and figure out where you both stand. Do you think you want to be with him?
Heather
Hi Lauren! That's a tough one! :) I would say that by the signs you are describing, I think that he is flirting with you and it isn't just his personality. Have you tried to ask him out or even just to hang out?
Hi Heather I have a question. How do you know if a guy is flirting with you if he has a natural flirt quality about him. I know a guy who can sometimes be super calm and totally to himself, and other days such a flirt, but I can't figure out if he likes me. And I dont want to feel stupid asking him. Hes casual about it but its super annoying, because its so attractive. He just got out of a relationship and now hes acting so different. Hes never done this to me, but the other day he kept touching my shoulders and asking me to hold his hand, he would ask me questions about my personal life, and touch my face. He hugged me randomly, he even offered me a ride home. And laugh a lot. I just don't know... because he acts very nice to a lot of girls. How do i distinguish!
uh oh. theres a guy who always messages me nowadays. we're friends and we never really talk but up til recently we did and he's been msging me n sometimes compliments me. he quickly replies :s does it mean he likes me in a way? uh oh . dfkgsdkfgjnsd
Heather
Hi Sirena! Have you tried to ask him again? You might be surprised by the answer!
Anyone have any advice?
Ok, so it turns out that my boyfriend's best friend had 'liked me first.' I mean sure there was flirting from his friends part but I never really reacted on it. Anyway now he's mad at my boyfriend and won't talk to him because he broke the 'code' since he's now dating me. Any suggestions on what I should do? Or should I even do anything at all? Help!
Heather
I think that he is absolutely flirting with you, but I'd say why don't you flirt back? See where it gets you! :)
@Astro Nova hey little miss confused. I completely understand why you are so confused about this situation. Maybe it would work out for you two guys if you go out together but just you two. Because guys can act really weird when they are around their male friends so try to get him out of there. Good thing is that you already know him so you can ask him to go in a library with you or on a coffee or maybe drive you home from school. Simple little things could help you see how he actually feels about you.
@AwkwardGirl he is probably flirting with you. You should ask him out. I know how you feel when you said you feel akward around him and that it is just because you like him. Maybe you and couple of your friends should go to cinema and you should ask him to go with you,you know as a group.
So I'm trying to figure out if this kid is flirting with me or not. I catch him looking at me a lot and we make a lot of eye contact. When it happens we kind of lock eyes for a sec. I always forget to smile (his eyes are gorgeous) mind you this is the guy I like. Then whenever he talks to my friends or even me (very rare cause I'm so awkward around him) he always glances at me and smiles and laughs. Occasionally we talk and laugh but it's not often cause I'm awkward and don't talk around him but everyone else it's fine. Do you think he could be trying to flirt with me and I just mess it up with my awkwardness?
If anyone wants to offer up some advice :D
So my friend and I are in kind of a flirty relationship and until recently I thought that it was just us joking around so I didn't take it too seriously. But then a couple weeks ago, he tried to kiss me twice (sober) in about a 15 mins span of time and I didn't act on it. So I brushed it off as just us joking around. It's kind of been a little awkward lately since I asked him what happened that night and he said that he was just joking around. His friends know and he teases me about that and his friends always tells me to "makeout" with him. My friends all think that he likes me but I don't know what to think. And what I should do now. If I'd had know, I don't think I would be opposed to testing the waters but how would I approach it?
Sincerely,
TheConfused
@Ana Sims well this article IS titled by flirting and not if he likes you. and if you read the last sentence of the intro, it states that he MIGHT like you. this article is based on flirting, not real crushing.
okay great advice and all but what if the guy actually does all of these little things and more but that you know for an absolute fact that he does NOT like you ? And I mean not because I don't think he does, I say he doesn't because not such a long time ago I ask...
Throwing out dangling lines like "Any plans for the weekend?" or constantly calling/texting/emailing could also be signs that he likes you *but* not enough to want to date you. If he's not following up his flirts by actually asking you out, then it's not worth it to try to decode his mannerisms. Some guys are just flirty by nature.