so as much as i try to fight to be in this relationship he always prove me not to i was at my mothers house yesturday and he said his going on vacation with his family and im not invated cuz is only his part of the family allowed in front of my mother i felt so bad i wanted to cry i said really thats cool enjoy your self and my mom said thats not nice why you dont think my daughter aint your family ugh i hate he said that in front of my mom but its really a long list but when i want to leave he always say he needs me im ready to move on but i dont want to
hurt him
I'm sad I had to read this article. Been together 3 1/2 years. Last year has been horrible, especially the last few months. We both still love each other which is why we haven't broken up. 3 1/2 years is a lot to walk away from. Idk what to do, but this article certainly put my situation and feelings into perspective. I guess if we can't fix things, then it's over ð
Hello every one ..I would like your guy give me some opinion and exchange to help me improve to decide what I should do for next ? we have been together 1 year and one day he told be he want to break up with me my boyfriend he give us a chance but he doesn't love me and we still live to together ... and he told me we have a strong feeling im sure my feeling with you will come back ..so what I should to ? carry on or leave
That's great advice! I actually did that. You've got to fix yourself before you can even go about fixing anything else.
Anya
If you're on the fence about your relationship, seek relationship counseling for yourself first, then couples therapy if the therapist thinks that would help.
Heather
That is so true!! With my girlfriend and I -- it's all about the little things that cause fights.
Heather
That isn't good! Are you annoyed with your boyfriend?
The Little Things!! For my very recent ex there were no major "deal breakers" so i stayed with him thinking i needed to just put up with the little things. But a million little things built up resentment and frustration. Lesson I learned was to have higher standards and not hesitate to consider something a deal breaker.
Heather
Aww, I've actually done that to my partner before ... and it's not appreciated at all. Talk about it with him, see how he responds.
It's definitely frustrating at times. Our main problem is...he likes to throw jabs, low blows about a problem I'm struggling with. He always ends it with "I'm only playing" when sometimes he may be but other times...he's really not.