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i really like this guy but he is really busy, i know he is...i hope he is really busy....he is putting up a company and since then he got so busy ang everytime we text he cuts me off, in a nice way...is there any nice way to send him a text message where he wouldnt need to really reply.....just wanna make him feel, hey im here? or do i just stop and let it go?
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I am going through the same thing her end I feel very sad. I have dated him for 4 months, he was very romantic,,very sweet and passionate. I was intimate with him few times. But all of a sudden he is blowing me off,,, not calling,, not answering my text and always making excuses on going out with me... I don't know what to do. I find myself thinking about what I did wrong to make him just blow me off like that for no reason.
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@Karolina, omg I know the feeling :|
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These type of men annoy me
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Dated a guy like that once. Once that horrible relationship came to an end, I made it a point to never be with anyone who puts me at the bottom of his list, or makes me feel less than I am. Ever since I made that choice to actively respect myself, the quality of men I have dated since has greatly improved. If you wait around for him to treat you like a second rare loser, he'll think it's OK to do that.
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@Anonymous, move on
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since u hv gud intentions u tend to keep wondering why wuld neone treat u like tht nd by d time u figure out ur already in a disaster situation. be selfish...read the signs. respect ur own feelings nd dont assume things tht arnt theor really. I hv gone thru ths recently....nd realise all its worth now
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yes ur blown off...such guys r gud at confusing u wid thr behaviour. tc girls. it leaves u to a painful stage
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This article kind of killed any signs of hope I had in me. There is this one guy I like, he is 7 years older. We have met few times, but it usually takes a long time to set up a new meeting. He usually is busy with his work, and it's always me who texts him first (even though he always replies, sooner or later). But then again, sometimes he says how much he misses me and needs me. It's kind of confusing, but I think I like him a little bit too much..
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Hi! I want to share my story as well about a guy that i met on a Dating Site.. I'll make the story quite short. After a few chats we met 3 times at first he was texting me everyday, calling me every night.. But this last week he completely changed. Ok he is abroad now doing a 1 week course and he told me he doesn't have connection at home, but i do see him online on fb and in whatsapp sometimes and he didn't even bother to text me! Last night he called and i was not able to answer his call, so i called back! But he didn't answer my call! Today he was online again and he didn't msg me?! I just don't get him! Maybe he is blowing me off :( what do you think? I like him though...
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Can someone help. This guy I know for about a year in a few days randomly stops texting me for weeks and he's done it plenty of times. What does it mean when he does this. Not sure if he's still conisdered my bf or not. I alrdy texted him 4 times in a week and still no response it's our anniversary coming up in just a few days should I text him? If so what should I say?
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My boyfriend blows me off sometimes, he claims it's on accident but it happens to frequently to be an accident. He's constantly telling me we're going to do something or he's coming over and then we never go do it or he never shows up. We've been dating for over a year and it's not like we have a bad relationship...he pays for everything and is loyal but sometimes he just thinks friends are more important...I wouldn't be so bothered by it if he'd just say "hey, I'm going to go play Magic with these people tonight and I'll be home really late, I'll come over first thing tomorrow" instead of telling me he's coming over afterwards and never showing up lol.
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@Miki AMEN to this comment!!!!💖💖👍👍👍👍👍👍 no one likes a person who doesn't seen like they can handle them selves even during the worst of situations. So u pick yourself up and walk like the bad ass you r because your life is too amazing to be wasted mopping. Go for a run even😂😂😂😂😂
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@Angelina Mi Su give it time. Relax and focus on other things in your life
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@Hanisha the shit he is****
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@Anonymous sometimes both play so many games that in the end one of the parties wonders if the other one is really interested. Story of my life.
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@Dhanya Asher he's a douche
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@Heather ok, why exactly r u stressing yourself with a mr casual hanging who has no time for you?? Put him in the I once knew you zone until he realises your worth.
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@Erica Lund hahahahahha I have to laugh, come on!!!! The guy hasn't lied to u he's actually done u a favour by telling u his pathetic stories about how he doesn't want jealousy. In other words he's saying.... Can you please be my daily shag buddy without u having to call me n not expect a thing?!!. Don't go back to your ex either...he's clearly moved on.
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@Daisy oh u really don't need that kind of guy. Best thing is go cold turkey no matter how painful. You should play it cool because you should not let him make u lose you dignity. That kind of guy loves a challenge and once it's over he doesn't care. Your solution.... Pretend that it was not a big deal to u either n in time u will move on. He's a prick
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@daisy if you slept with him he got what he wanted n he doesn't see the pt in all the sweet nothing's. If not he's probably found someone else he lies more or his lust has worn off. Sometimes u can see someone u like but later on change your kind simply cos your not ready or the challenge is over n it's time to chase the next tail!
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@Sara be his friend, that way u avoid all the awkwardness n u may find out u don't like him that much
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@saki he's not your boyfriend rather you are his sex toy. Simple as that.
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@Anonymous my honest opinion is he doesn't see u that way. Guys r not that complicated they always find a way if he likes u. Even a simple friendly "are u ok u seem sad today" he doesn't like u back but he's aware u like him n he doesn't want to give u the wrong impression. Simple
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@Marian Martínez Piña sorry unless he's in a coma someone u call ur bf should call atleast text in a day! Jeeez.
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@Marian Martínez Piña how long u been together. Unless he's been sect
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@Nyachang to him ur just someone who he hopes he can sleep with n not have the responsibility of having to call u back.move on
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@Hanisha your simply a booty call honey. No man really likes a girl n doesn't want to spend as much time with her. Even if he has work he can always cancel. Drop it like the abit he is.
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ok so this guy that i like sooo much doesn\'t text me or call me. the only time he does is when he wants to hang out. what does this mean?
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i've been on 4/5 dates with this guy, spent the night with him twice and while I'm with him, he treats me like his girlfriend, this is only on weekends and when the week comes, I never hear from him. He told me he's super reserved and very anxious and nervous in person, he drinks to help calm him down. Should I get it out of him what I am to him or if he feels anything or should I just leave it alone and let time take care of it? I hate lingering, I really like him but it takes so long for him to text me back. :/
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@mandy22 How long has this been going on? Have you tried to talk to him about it? Or maybe It might be time to slowly distance yourself from him. It's going to hurt, but it seems better than waiting around for him to do something.
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currently, i like this guy and he been calling me his gf.. talking to me mostly every day by via txt. and seeing me once a week.. until now.. it takes him 24 hrs just to get back and some days he doesn't.. it leaving me wondering.. I am trying to make plans with him and i get no respond.. It hurts more when someone you so called are suppose to be with doesnt answer back. i understand work can get busy.. but just 2 secs could be nice. to make me stop wondering and hurting my own self. like i wonder if im ever good enough for anybody...
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My boyfriend and I haven't go out or seen each other for about two weeks and a half..and I must admit he few times we've talked I have started the communication...Is he blowing me off? he doesn't call me, he answers but He never makes the contact...I am waiting for him to ask about seeing each other but I am starting to think the worst...any advice?
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So, pertaining to #3, if he he says that we should hang out sometimes but does not initiate any plans whatsoever, does that also mean he is blowing me off?
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Definitely! What's up Faru?
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can i talk anyone of you ?
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Hi Saki! I think that you need to talk to him. He can't just use you for sex all of the time!
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Hi Daisy! I know that it's so hard to get over a guy, but I'd say that you'll find someone that loves you for you and accepts everything about you.
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Hi Anon! I'd say that you should definitely flirt a bit more with him. I think that he might be interested, however he doesn't know how to show it at all. :)
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Hi there is this guy i really like and have liked for the past few years and nothing has really happened, he knows i like him but the thing is he has never really said he does or even doesn't like me he just makes up excuses? What does this mean?
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my boyfriend always says he's busy with school, study group, his soccer team and his buddies. he only makes time to meet once a week. he wants to have sex everytime but he doesn't initiate, he just sits/lies there erect and waiting. is he blowing me off?
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Hi Sara! The best way to make him feel comfortable with you is just to spend time with him. You don't have to be super flirty (unless you're comfortable with it), but just draw him in, ask about his interests and share your own, maybe give him some insider info on what grade 11 will be like -- he'll ease up, become less shy, and feel comfortable making more of a move.
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@Heather Jensen, Hey I tried talking to him about it but unfortunately it ended up in us splitting up. I really don't get it he was what anyone think, a good man. Every time I thought I was getting somewhere he would go cold he treated me better then I have ever been treated by a man and he had told me he loved me ext. I thought he was letting his wall down as he started talking more about his life, he let me come to his for the first time (a quick visit) and even said I should meet his mum soon. then after that he didn't text me for two days. Now I know it sounds needy but if he just said that he needed time or space or something I would have understood. Anyway I told him I felt he was giving me mixed messages and in the end we mutually split, he said he felt he was better of single and although I didn't tell him I couldn't put up with his hot and cold behaviour. I'm hurting a lot as I love him, but I know I will get over it in time, I just miss him :( I have never been needy before in a relationship and I feel like the way he acted made me needy.
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Hi! I really like this guy at my school, he is one year younger than me so gr10 and gr11, and he has told me that he likes me, but he never seems to get the courage to ask me out on a date. How can I get him to feel confident around me? Since I make him really nervous?
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These things are true, however you need to watch out with a guy who just got out of a relationship, or just had his heart broken in any way. They might really like you, but still send out mixed signals because they're really not ready for something new. Although this too may be reason enough to move onto someone else
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@Heather Jensen, Yes Heather! I have talked him. He said now he is too busy and he's disappoint on me.
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Hi Angelina! Have you talked to him about it at all?
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Hey.. I'm facing as your words. I wanna back him. I need him. What should I do to belong him?
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Agreed! It's always when you aren't looking that you'll find someone. :)
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Hello girls , I've had similar dating experiences as most of you. All I can say is focus on YOU once you are done with a relationship and the right guy will come unexpectedly .
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Hi Daisy! How long have you been dating? Have you talked to him about it? It might be a good idea to start there before switching your feelings!
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can someone help? I have been seeing this guy and it was going great he said lots of nice things such as he will try his best to sweep me of my feet, he brought chocolates for me and was generally nice. but now after all that he is being really offish, taking hours to text back when I know he's not busy and when he does text back its normally not got much to do with what I have said to him. I don't know if I have done something wrong and he has gone from an affectionate man that i thought was different to making me think oh all guys are the same!!!!!
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Aww! I know that guys can be annoying sometimes, but they are worth it once you find the guy that is meant for you. :)
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I just got out of a relationship, and i'm trying to move on. But i kind of want to work things out with my ex, and he does too but he ALWAYS is blowing me off. Like i know he's just trying to stay busy but really... And i have started to talk to someone else who was "super" into me at first and than we had sex a few times and now he doesn't want a relationship but he likes me but just doesn't want jealousy. Well if you are telling me you like me and you are having sex with me, i'm bound to get jealous. And he NEVER makes plans official, its kind of just when he wants to chill is when we do. SO ANNOYING. Ladies i think SINGLE is the way to go, no one needs to depend on a man.
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Hi Heather! I know that work is important, but you should be up on his priority list too. Have you talked to him at all about it? It doesn't sound like he is blowing you off, he is just a workaholic.
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I am seeing this guy & he is always working out of town so it is hard to see each other. His work comes first he says. I tell him he is unrealiable and he feels bad and doesn't want me to be upset and says the last person I want to cancel on is you.. I just don't know what to do with him?
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Aww! I'm so sorry that happened to you! :(
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I was engaged to a teacher for the past 6 months and I never paid attention to the fact that he was too busy to hang out with me or even answer my calls.. finally he called it off saying I was immature and not the kind of person he would want to spend his life with, Wish I'd read about this earlier.
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Just mentioned the post on Twitter
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Hey Kelly! I'm so sorry that happened to you! I'd say it is time for you to move on and find someone worth your time!
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Meh. I tried to get my ex back for almost 8 months. I was super patient, if I did want to 'talk' I would ask him when he was free but even when we had established a time, it always ended up being close to midnight. I "loved" him and he blew me off sooo many times. Main word was ex, but I thought he was the 'one.' Not anymore.
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why did we not know this website exists haha (via Twitter)
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That's awesome Linda!! :) Sometimes being single is awesome!
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It can really work for anyone. I think I do some of these things too -- not often, but sometimes. Thanks for stopping by!
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Well... this can work for boys to see if girls are blowing them off too, because I realized I do like all of these to some guys. Feels bad.
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Been there done that. For all. Now enjoying my single life to the fullest rather than thinking so called bf :)