If a man loses interest in you then it's not meant to be, simple as that, a women has a right to relax in a relationship and still be loved for it, no one should have to work so hard to be loved, either it's there or it's not...
I have this feeling that my boyfriend who I love, is losing interest in me, we talked on the phone tonight and he really didn't have much to say to me and was kurt. I told me friend 2 days ago I feel like i'm losing my boyfriend. what should I do?
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@Tiffany Yap, same here girly, almost same situation ..these boys ...i dunno ..they will say like we are more complicated but actually they are more..how their mood swings ...seems some psychological disorder with every guy.
Hi guys ...my bf ..just lost interest in me ..dunno why ..he just ..ignore being physical ..any more ..before her used to love this alot ..as far as I know ..boys love to be physical ..I am scared..as hell ..he might hav stopped loving me or what ..:( is it normal ..with all of you ??
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@Tiffany Yap, I am so sorry you're going through this. It sounds like he may not be over his ex. He is testing the waters with her while keeping you hanging in the background. Don't let him do that.
@Chloe, I believe you need to give him space. You will push him away if you keep pressuring him. Sometimes people need alone time. Just keep being an amazing girlfriend. Tell him you are there when he needs you and let him rest. He probably is tired a lot. Trust in his words, if he didn't want to be with you forever then he wouldn't say it. It's hard to give him space...just keep yourself busy and reassure him that you'll be around when he is ready.
so I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months now. the first 5 months we can chat non stop 24/7. even though thr's nothing to talk,we'll find something to talk about.Though it's crappy stuffs sometimes. But two months ago,he started asking for space. We didn't talk much after that. He even went out to a comic fiesta with his ex gf and some of her female friends. he didn't tell me about it and I was pissed. My best friend then asked him about the fiesta and it got to a point where she asked " She's your ex right? " (the one that went to comic fiesta with him) And it shocked me that he replied " Maybe...I don't know. Don't ask. It's complicated." He doesn't call me sweet names like he used to. When I said " I love you",all he replied was " love ya." I'm starting to question our relationship. I don't know if he stills loves me or not.
@miquibu, Sorry to be so honest but he never loved you. He has loved his wife this whole time. If he is still with her than he used you and that is all he did.
He said those things to get in your pants, to get what he wanted. He used you as a release to his bad relationship. Starting something with you probably increased his desire for his wife and that is why he is doing "the fade".
You should have more respect for yourself, feel more secure about who you are. Don't let anyone ruin how important you are. You deserve better and you need to find a man that isn't involved with someone else. Find a man that will love you for your, not have to promise you the world, just be there and make you secure.
Maybe you should see someone (possible a counselor) to figure out how to get rid of the insecurities and teach you how to respect yourself. Once you find the person deep down inside and realize how amazing she is, you won't need to go after someone's husband.
I wish you the best of luck and I hope you succeed :)
@Chloe,
Unfortunately now days you can't always rely on text messages or FB. There are so many ways a person can hide who their talking to...delete conversations etc.
The only thing you can do is tell him your insecurities. Tell him how you feel and what you want in life, what you want with him. If he can't help you get through the insecure feelings then maybe he isn't the one.
Communication is the key to making any relationship last, you need to be open and honest with him. Let him talk, don't cut him off...let him explain his feelings. If he doesn't...give him time, he needs to be comfortable enough to open up to you. You need to make the "talk" comfortable for him, don't attack him or make him feel bad about it, make it light hearted, give him a sense of warmth from you.
So i have been dating this guy off and on in high school and so now we finally got to the point where we have been dating for 7 months now ... He means the world to me and i love him sooo much ... but like he doesnt call me at night any more because he says he's tired all the time i ask if he is gonna call ... So is he losing interest in me? And i check his phone and hes not texting another girl or messaging them on facebook and he doesnt have any girls in his contacts except for me. So idk what i should do becasue im serioulsy in love with him and i told him how i felt and he said that he wants to be together forever but sometimes he just acts like he doesnt . So idk what i should do. I cant lose this guy. we have had so much fun together and hes always there for me .. we have had rough patches but we always worked threw it . What should I do?
My guy has totally lost interest in me... It is heartbreaking. We've been dating for 10 months (well kinda dating cuz he's married and i was married too, until recently ... I know i know it's wrong) the first months were very intense, then the relationship leveled down, and in the past 3 months we barely tAlk. He always texted me daily, and last week it was every two days and this week i didnt hear from him for 4 days. I get so desperate and angry and sad... And i cant text him anytime because his wife saw one of my texts once and is now very suspicious, obviously i cant call him and he doesnt call me because now they have only one car and "she's always around". We were co workers so in the beginning it was easy to see esch other. But i changed job 5 months ago and so things changed. I never mention anything to him because i think whats the point? If he wanted to text me or call me o see me... So if he doesnt its because he doesnt care to. But it hurts like hell, to have somebody who supposedly loves you treat you like this. I have no one to talk to about this since nooobody know about my affair. So thank u for reading this...
Why do men say that they love u, that they will love u forever and that you are the best thing that happened to them y afterwards they are going to do this? We can be so stupid sometimes :( this guy was even going to get a tattoo of our initials!! Intense right? By reading this article i confirmed that for some reason he lost interest, period. I would like to know why? Did i do something wrong? Why are guys such assholes? Can it be fixed?
Btw, the sex with this man is AMAZING, out of this world, truly orgasmic... Probably why it's so hard to let go, lol!
Just started dating this guy for 3 weeks now. He started off saying All the right things and being so sweet....even after i revealed that i was celibate for now! We are in our 3rd week and he has stopped calling as much, texting as much and even went from saying good morning to gm when i say good morning first. we have a date this coming sat. and I'm not sure if i should ask if he's losing interest or just let it be,BUT I'm not into playing games...what should i do?
Girls we've been kept in the dark about the fact of male sexuality in order that they could cheat with out us being suspicious - this is the real facts I posted above - it suited tier needs for centuries now the truth is beginning to be understood.
@Kristen, men don't have low sex drives like women- that's a myth - sorry to be crude in my explanation but they have to ejaculate when there's a build up like when your bladder fills up you have to pee.
Heather
Hi Kat! If you aren't ready for that, don't let him push you. I know it's hard, but you shouldn't ever do anything you aren't comfortable with!
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All my bf wants is sex over the phone and I'm super scared to do such a thing what do I do :/
Heather
So true! That's a great tip!
Dexter
Maybe he has other stressors going on and instead of assuming.... just ask!
Declan
Kristen I will send my phone number love l.o.l
Brittany
@Joyce, I have been there. Only to find out that he had her picture hung up and she was who he wanted to come home to.
Krish
Some see the signs yet they don't wanna accept it. Tsktsk. Signs that your beloved is NO longer into you: (via Twitter)
Kristen
Mine never wants sex, he did for the first week or 2, now he never wants it. Otherwise he's very loving and affectionate. I don't think he has a high sex drive :(
You know, i wonder if the guy i love is really losing interest in me or is it cause he is going army, and doesnt want me to wait for him..... now he have started to ignore me .. :(
AJ
This is a great post that anyone can benefit from. From my male perspective, whenever I start losing interest in a lady, I tend to do most of these things. If I have little regard for her, then I may either stand her up or show up an hour or more late to meet up. Nonetheless, as long as there is a mutual connection and 'chemistry' and you're doing your part to keep your man happy, then you can prevent a lot of this stuff from happening :)