I am interested in guy .. I love him so much ... He drives me crazy whenever we meet .. we have done make outs .. He is kind of caring but I want him to love me ... plus he is really dominant what should I do ?
Well, I do read all of your story.Actually, I do not know much about Muslism as well as religion as well. But, there is one thing that I can conclude about your bf is that if he really likes you, he might be really strong to resist the "love" he feels for you. But, I do not think that he really loves you as you do for him. that is just my personal opinion. But, if I were you, I will not move on as there is too much problems in this relationship and if two of you get married, if these problems are solved or just get worse? religion is not simple, particularly Muslim. Anw, hope that you can make a good decision after all!
I really need strong advice. I am 20 yrs old I have a relation with this guy. He is 27 yrs, we study the same university. Our relationship has started as friend and the more we connected the more I felt into him but, I have one big problem. The only time he text is is in the morning and at night time he says like good morning sunshine that its. Another problem is it is always me who ask me to come over face-time for chatting he had never asked me that and another problem is that is me who always have to ask if we met today to see each other and he always makes excuse like sorry babe I am have to do something at home , or I have assessment due I can't come over. He always says that I love and he says I wish I can hug to show you how much I felt for you because of traditionally Muslim I am not allow to hug or kiss him before I get married. We both come from different background and different religion. What should I do? Should I move on or is so how can i achieve that without hurting him. Thanks very for taking your time to read my comments.
@Heather Jensen, I really need strong advice from you. I am 20 yrs and I have relationship with this guy he is 27 yrs. We study the same university. At the begging we was just friends and he started liking me first and the more we connected the more I felt into him. However I one big problem the only time he text me is in the morning and at night time, he says like good morning sunshine. He told that he loves me very much but, is me who always call to come over face time for chatting he has never asked that. Also is me who always ask him if we can met and he always makes excuse like sorry babe I have something to do at home or he says Sorry babe I have assessment due.He says that i wish I can hug you to show I much i feel for you because I am traditionally Muslim and I am not allow to do that before I get married. We both come from different background. Please what should I do should I move on I f so how can I achieve that without hurting him.
@Heather, Hi I really need strong advice from you Heather. I am 20 yrs I have relationship with this guy he is 27 yrs. He started liking me first and the more we connected the more I felt into him. The only time he text me is in the morning and nigh and he says something like good morning sunshine. My big problems always is me who have to ask him to come on face time for chat, also is me who ask him can we see each today,and he always makes excuse like I have to do something at home sorry baby I can't met you or I have assessment due. I really confused he always says that I love you so much I wish I can hug you to show you how much I feel for you because I am TRADITIONALLY MUSLIM I AM NOT ALLOW To do we both come from different culture please help what should i do? SHOULD I MOVE ON OR?
hi im new here i dont know but the guy i like is very sweet and he always looks at me and smlies...nut we're both very shy so i dont know what to do...should i make the first step or what? :/
I don't chase boys I let them chase me lol I am only in Utah grand but I have several boys chasing me even they know I have a boyfriend they never get that I love him too much to separate from him. I won't say any names however.f goodluck girls with finding the perfect man!
Hi! first time user(: so i like this guy, i think (i met him two days ago and we hung out at a party and in group, so I'm not so sure if i really like him because i don't know him too well). He basically gave me my first kiss, and it was amazing, but I'm afraid that i have feelings for him now, and i don't think he feels the same (but i haven't asked). He comes off as a player, and i think i was just another kiss at another party that he's had, but i can't be so sure. i just want him to want me, you know? but i don't know if i should tell him how i feel, or just let it go.. I need help haha
I need answers. I like this guy, and he is super sweet and funny. He always shouts my name and hugs me while in the hallways and his friends always shout "there she is!" and point at me then he comes and hugs me. He puts his hands on my head or his arm on my shoulder and says "your so short!!" Also he remembers things about me that most other people wouldn't. I'm getting mixed emotions though, Does anyone think he might like me?
Hi. I just wanna know why guys keep on choosing other girls over me. Not to mention girls whom I know Im way prettier. What is it about me that make them dump me?
hi, im 21 and i currently like this turkish guy. but i know we cant be something serious because we will be back from our country in few months. should i continue to like him or just forget about him? because i'm starting to get too attached to him. :(
AH HELP! So I've been seeing a guy since September 2013 and we were a "thing" in his words. But in December he told me that we have rushed into things and would want to get to know each other as friends first with no sexual interactions because the first time we met, we immediately clicked and got along so well. Well, after I agreed to work on our friendship, I started opening up to him more and he gave me his really important ring to me. He said I'm one of the nicest, most unique, most different he has ever met. He said if I'm afraid to get hurt while we're doing this, he doesn't want to hurt me and will start distancing himself from me. Just the other night I asked him if he still had feelings for me and he said yes. And that's when I told him I'm crazy for him, I can't get him out of my head, ever. But he said I don't show it enough.. I need to somehow "woo" him. I know most of us girls wouldn't want to hear that from a guy, try and win the guy over but he did try from the beginning, he showed he cared and liked me a lot, and even said he wants to take care of me. But I had no reactions during that time. So now, I feel like he's moved on, he found someone better and I'm not ready to lose him. WHAT DO I DO?! I don't know how to show him I want to be with him, he knows I'm crazy about him so I don't think he would just drop everything like that. I have never felt this way about a guy before since I've never been in a relationship but my gut is telling me I should 100% believe him for what he's telling me face to face. I mean he gave me his ring, that should be a sign, right? Please help...
HELP ME!!
This guy and I have been talking for a few months and he knows I care a lot about him he know how I feel about him completely or atleast I think.. anyways he is leaving in 3months overseas and I really have never met anyone with so much respect as him towards me. I would like to know how to get him when he feels im not even for him...?
@ZOE, Yes there definitely is an attraction there on his part too. I'd move forward with it if I were you. I think everyone is looking for that 'one' relationship and sounds like you have a good start. But, dont pin all your hopes on this one. Hopefully it will be the one but you don't want to marry the wrong bloke, plenty of other good ones out there if this doesn't work out.
Hi! I made a guy go Crazy for me but he is REALLY shy !!! I see all the signs but when we are trying to talk, we\'re able for a little bit, but then it always turn awkward! But worst of all he\'s not shy at all with other persons. I took the courage and ask him out and he said: Sure, i would love to but it\'s a really busy time for me at the university so can i have a rain check? (in those words) But since then he hasn\'t talk to me about it, and I\'m scared he won\'t ask me when he he has the opportunity because he\'s so shy !!! What can i do ??? help me please! thanks :)
@Karro jus enjoy its pretty amazing to find someone you like and likes you back... Don't let go of this opportunity!!! Just keep in mind that you don't have to be stuck like glue all the time you are individuals and each has a life... You had it before him and you should still have it when your with him. Keep being the same girl keep doing the same things you used to do with your family, friends, in school, in other activities.. That should do 😊 and of course make time to be with him and include him in your life, just don't make him your life
My advice to all of you (including myself) is to release.. And to be present. Enjoy your life, and don't try to over-think or force anything... I'd rather be with someone who wants to be with me than to chase a guy who isn't interested (that's not fair for anyone) it's hard because sometimes we want something and we become stubborn and therefor we are not open to miracles. Just let it be, things ALWAYS happen for the best even if we don't want to see it. Eventually we'll realize why things are the way they were and something amazing will be happening to all of us. Keep strong and enjoy what you have right now, life's too short to worry there's a lot to be thankful for. XOXO I hope you all will find true love soon
My little brother's Taekwondo instructor is VERY appealing to me! Like seriously, I go to his classes JUST to see him! I've been noticing that he'll randomly make eye contact with me. So every once in a while I'll stare at him too & smile. I really like his personality. Idk, I just think he is really cute!! The first time I talked to him, I got REALLY nervous! Being near him makes me feel awkward because I feel insecure of myself. I really want to get to know him well, but idk how? Adding him on Facebook? Twitter? I don't want to seem TOO desperate. (Btw, he is yrs older than Me- I'm 19.)
Never been in a relationship in my entire life, I'm 18 years old and I just started college almost a month ago. And I get really shy around guys that I start to like, what should I do to not be shy and to maybe one day have a relationship with a guy. I'm kind of a newbie at this??!!!
heey! really need some advice on what to do! I've liked this guy for almost 2 and a half years, and we are in high school! thing is I have told him I liked him a few months ago, but he didn't really respond :/ so I'm guessing he'd never like me! even though he never said that, but hey, he's amazing! I think he is the most intelligent and interesting guy in my grade! he's also one of my good guy friends, but I really think we are just friends with benefits? it's a really complicated situation! I'm close with his sister who's his twin :p but I have no clue! I really like him, in fact I think I might like him :/! ADVICE PLEASE!
Hi #2 tells me to be unique and #1 tells me to be myself but what if I am just simple and not unique? What of my uniqueness is to just be simple and dull and boring? Will you tell me to make a unique attitude when you tell me to be myself
Denise
Hi Karro. Try not to take things so seriously. Flirt, go out with him, and have a great time, but don't let the relationship take over your life. Set boundaries to make sure that things don't get out of hand. Make sure that you also have time for yourself, your friends and family, and your studies. :)
Denise
Hi Karro. Try not to take things so seriously. Flirt, go out with him, and have a great time, but don't let the relationship take over your life. Make sure that you also have time for yourself, your friends and family, and your studies. :)
Hey! I like this boy in my new school class and I've just found out that he likes me too (yey 😃) but there is a problem... when I started at this new school I decided that I wasn't going to have a relationship with anyone in my class, but then he was so great and I couldn't help it... so now my question is, how do I make this the best out of the situation? how do I make this work even tough we are in the same class? please help me :)
Some good advice! The articles I have reed a lot say things like "Be meek! Be soft and pretty!" Basically, act like a damsel in distress. This one says to be yourself, which is the best kind of advice around!
Heather
Hi! Do you feel the same about your boyfriend? Do you feel like you want to be with him still?
Denise
Hi Shruti. Why would you want to hurt someone you claim to love? If you truly care about him, then you won't make this situation about you. Ask him if he's going through something and be there for him. Show him that you care instead of hurting him.
Denise
Hi Mckenzie. Talk to him about it and make a decision together. :)
hi, im 13 and i like this guy but he lives an hour away and i only see him once a month but we both really like each other i just dont know what to do.
Denise
Hi there. You really need to have a heart-to-heart talk with him. Get everything out in the open and make a decision together. If he's no longer happy being with you, then he should just say so. If he's hurting you, then why should you stay? Both of you deserve to be happy even if you have to give up your relationship.
Heather
I would let him go. If he sees you as a sister, that isn't what you want.
Heartbroken
So my boyfriend left me after a year Nd six months & said he had sibling feelings toward me . Should I chase after him & make him love me agian or let him go ?
Shruti
Ok, well. I already have made someone crazy about me. But, now the problem is that I am in a relationship with him. Now, since few days, we are not in so much of talking terms. He has drifted apart may be due to some tension of his own and tries to act isolated and quite busy with his laptop even when I am around. I just want to make him realize my importance in his life. Kindly help me with suggestions on how to hurt a guy's ego when you know he loves you but doesn't show it to you!! Thanks.
his
hey ....im 15 my d is 15 we have the same barth day and everyyvonne but I don't know if he still love me line he use to and we been together for 3months then we broke up know he want me back and I took him but I think he go cheat in,me when im not around what should I do he was the love of my life help me
his
today my bf told me that the boy i use to go with is his cuzin I dent know it so all of us just start hanging out and when me and my bf kiss it look line my ex his cuzin got mad know I really think that he go be putting stuff in his head and me and my bf been going together for 3 months n some days then we broke up know he want me back and I took him but I don't know if it go work out like it did last time he stay so far away and his ex stay in,the same street what should do please help me
his
I really think all the things about what happen to u or what u know or think will help me and all of us
Heather
Hello! I know it's hard -- but I'd say move onto someone that likes you for you.
Ayanna
@Heather Jensen, but what if he likes your friend but not you?:-(
Denise
Hey Alli Nicole. That's probably the reaction he was hoping you would have. If you're no longer interested in him, then you should just ignore what his friends say. Keep yourself busy, hang out with friends, meet new people, and just move on with your life.
AlliNicole
I am so confused my ex has a gf and seems to be happy but his friends say he talked about how much he misses me all the time. Idk what to do...
Bibi
Hi my name is bibi me and my ex have a sexual striation to each other for 6.yr.i kind wan be his girl or friend we can keep alway we didn't talk for 3yer and one day some how we found each other and it happen
Heather
Hi! Firstly, I bet that you are beautiful. You just need to put yourself out there just a little. Even if it is something as simple as really showing your personality a little more. :)
Have you tried to talk to him? That might be a good idea! :)
Denise
Hey Juliet. Your best friend sounds like an awesome person! I'm glad the guy likes her for who she is.
Juliet
This reminds me of my best friend! One of our mutual guy friends absolutely adores her (he told me specifically) for these reasons. She doesn't even try it's just her personality (:
Denise
Hi Kaylee. Talk to him when he's alone so you don't have to compete with another girl. You could also ask him to hang out, and then you can spend that time getting to know each other. Your confidence and initiative will make you stand out from all the other girls.
Denise
Hi Ciara. If you really like him, then you just have to find the courage to take the lead. It can get exhausting to do all the work in a relationship, so maybe that's why he has stopped trying. You can start with planning a simple date with him. I'm sure he will appreciate the invitation.
jyotika
Hey,
I have don't have any boyfriend. And I am girl who prefers to be her own master. I also have a very small friend circle. And being in a traditional indian family I caNnot be outward. In these situation how to enjoy life and be unique n get a guy crazy for me. And last thing is that I am a bit fat too.
amy
Hiturning sixteen soon adi hav a really big crush on some guy and
lrob is im in a society where freely hangin out with guys isnt rlly accepted till like outa hughsholl wesee each other ocasiobaly and talk but i cant seem to get him outa my head even hen all my friends are talkig abiut tons of other random guys...
Denise
Hi Sophie. You could ask him how he feels about his ex-girlfriend. I think this is important to know because if he still does, then I don't think he will be asking out any girl soon. Plus his ex wants to get back with him... He's hanging out with her so I don't think he's mad at her. There might be a chance they will get back together. If you can, maybe you should tell him how you feel. Just in case he's also starting to like you.
Kaylee
There's this new kid at my school.... superr hot.!! But EVERY girl likes him, he's gotten like 60 phone #s. What can I do to stand apart frm everyobe else to get to know him&maybe start a relationship? Ive tried having a convo w/ him but he's always got som girl who wont let me talk! Help!
ciara
a guy was into me bt afta a month of deep conversation it seems he has stopped trying! I sm shy to take the lead. Bt want a relationshp with hm. Help!
Alright well, there is a boy i have become very close with over the holidays, but we are just friends, we talked on Facebook all the time, then the first time we hung out we got along really well, very well by the looks of it because that afternoon various people were asking me if this guy and i had a thing going on. at first i did only like him as a friend, but the more we hung out the more we connected and we get along really well, and i really started to like him. but now, his ex wants to get back together with him and they hang out from time to time but nothing has really happened yet. we have been hanging out alot, and when we talk he is very sweet and calls me things like 'miss' and 'love' but i think thats just the way he speaks to everyone... i dont know.. i really like him, and our friends always joke that we act like a couple, which we kond of do. so how how how, do i get him to like me/make a move?
Denise
Hi Mary. Why don't you start a conversation with him? Some good topics would be his plans after high school or stuff he does in his free time. If he's good with math (I assume he is since he helps you out), then you can ask him what got him interested in math. Then you can ask follow up questions to keep the conversation going.
mary
I am 16 and there is that boy i reallly like him he is with me in my maths class he helps with the maths he is my deskmate whenever i get in the class he alwys look at me and i look at him he doesnt look at me and same times when he explain something for me he alwys come near my me i dont even know what to do i really like him help me out
Denise
Hi Michael. Thank you for your feedback. It would be even more helpful for our readers if you offer some tips that you think will work.
Michael
I'm a guy and these tips don't work. You would never seduce me with them, only make me ignore you.
Lyndsie
Hi Shubhra! Welcome to All Women Stalk! I'm not a huge fan of playing games in relationships, but in this case, you might want to play a little hard to get. I don't think you should play any mind games with your boyfriend, but you don't have to make yourself readily available either. If it's possible, I would start all this by sitting down with him and letting him know how you feel, if you haven't. He might not have any idea! Let him know that you need him to compromise with you. I understand wanting to make the most of the time you can spend together, but once in a while, don't call him first. You've told him what you want, so sit back and let him know he needs to follow through for you.
Lyndsie
Hi Nicole! I've been in your shoes before, where I've judged someone by behaviors I've encountered in my past, and it really is bad for your relationship. You can't let your past dictate your future and you can't judge a current lover by someone else's mistakes. The best thing for you to do right now is sit down with your fiance and tell him where you're coming from, what you're feeling and why. Maybe he'll help soothe some of your paranoia, and you'll realize you have no reason to be worried.
Shubhra
I and my boyfriend dont meet very often because we both are busy with work. But whenever there's a plan, it's me who always have to ask my boyfriend to go out on a date, shopping, movie, whatever. He always expect me to say it first. And then its upto him to agree or not. My self-ego gets shattered. i hate it when I have to ask him out. Why can't he tell me "Lets meet. Its a long time". I wait and wait for him to say it but he will never and ultimately I have to ask him. Its annoying. Its not that he's not into me. Its just his nature. How to get him after me.
Nicole
I was in a relationship for 4 years with my sons father and its safe to say I wasn't head over heals. I left and it want until I was walking out the door did he act like he cared. Now I have a fiancé and I can't help but be paranoid about my past relationship. We try to go out and have fun with our friends but I can't help nag at him about where he's at or what he's going and all that. He says its pushing him away and I want to stop but it just keeps happening. I've never loved anyone like I love him and I don't want to push him away. How do I stop!
Heather
Hi Simsim! I think that it means that he likes you. I'd definitely see if you can get to know him a little more, casually! :) That way you can figure out if you do want to date him.
Denise
Hi Rosy. Please stop playing games with yourself and the guy. If you want to text him first, just text him. If you want to talk to him, do so. If you just want to stay home, tell him. If you feel like going out, make a plan and ask him out; don't wait for him to make plans for your dates. If he truly likes you, then I don't think he will mind all those things. It's not like you're preventing him from seeing his friends, going where he wants to, doing stuff he enjoys, or having alone time.
Simsim
I like a boy and everybody knows that I like him if usually he don't like me he wil avoid me but his not avoiding me instead he calls me more to chat with him in study hall ... Does these mean he loves me ?
Rosy
I love this i will try to follow this ....i have a problem i am dating a guy and he tells me he likes me...i dont want to sufficate him so i try to not push him...but then sometimes i feel like he dont want to talk to me that he wants to loose interest...im going to try to ignore him text him first less but when he text me what do i do i dont want to ignore him cuz i dont want him to think im not interested but i dont want him to think im always available for him...please help my relationships always end up cuz of these issues and i know its me....
Heather
It sounds like he does! :)
Sally
Hi I'm 10 does it mean if a boy smiles at u and wants to be next to u does it mean he likes you?
Heather
Aww Frozy! I'm so sorry that you feel like that! I bet that there is someone out there that will love you and that is not a loser.
Fozy
I do suffer, I'm 26 yrs old and still have a problem I don't attract any guy even if I did they are all losers not like what I expects all the time, what to do?!
Heather
Hi Zoi! I know it's hard but you need to talk to him off of Facebook. Sometimes, on Facebook, you have more courage than you do in real life, so you need to make sure that you are able to make it offline. :)
zoi
zoi ...please help??
zoi
theres a guy in my class...he likes me....n he even proposed me on fb....i mean he said i love you n all.....i didnt say a yes or i love you too....but we people started talking on fb.....like late night talks etc....but i think he is shy or something so he doesnt talk to me at school....and suddenly becoz my mom said i had to deactivate my facebook id.....we stopped talking to each other......even i like him alot....but in school i also feel a little shy in talking to him so we dont talk at school.....i dont understand what to do......we r not talking to each other at all....we just look at each other n smile....if we will not talk...will he lose interest in me??????????